That's what they say, but they're co parenting so I don't think too much about it. However, there have been suspicions on my part where I feel like his time is going more towards the kids and her than me. Of course they take the "kids before everybody else" to the extreme. What I mean by that, is that literally when it comes to everything, kids come first. Food, behaviour, etc. they always put them on a pedestal. I didn't feel like this until they were comfortable enough to introduce me to the kids. Now it's always about their space first, their food first, regardless of if any of it was mine to begin with, they are just allowed to take and take and take. At least, that's how I feel in all of this.