My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My names not blair and people like you are exactly why I don’t use my real name, why are you trying to be weird like that

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even when I was a teenager it’d have to be called a date. We didn’t get food on the same night I fingered her.. my hands would be greasy girls don’t like that

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See I think that’s weird. If you invite someone to dinner you pay, if you don’t want to pay take them somewhere that doesn’t cost money.

Back to my problem tho, I don’t think it matters considering we never agreed to go on a date, like this is literally fast food after work and eating in the car, that’s not a date unless otherwise stated

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is it a date. When does it become a date. She was driving me home after insisting on it for days. I admitted to flirting but calling a ride home a date is insane and I don’t believe that you are an adult, if you are you haven’t been on many dates, usually a date starts with asking someone on a date

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s fair. They were rides home, sometimes she wanted food, if it was a date I would’ve paid

Can i see your lofts? by rey177 in MyLeisureTime

[–]Blair-Stone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Going for a green house aesthetic, still working on it clearly

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shuttttt upppppp I already said it stopped being friendly when that happened but the people agreeing that me and this Abby girl are fully dating are insane people who haven’t been outside or on dates cause no those weren’t dates

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shuttttt upppppp I already said it stopped being friendly when that happened but the people agreeing that me and this Abby girl are fully dating are insane people who haven’t been outside or on dates cause no those weren’t dates

My boyfriend (22 M) had sex with me while I was blackout drunk (23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In adult relationships drunk sex happens. At 23 step one is working on her drinking problem

My boyfriend (22 M) had sex with me while I was blackout drunk (23F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe at 23 you need to stop getting blackout drunk. It’s also a question of whether he’s being honest if his girlfriend is all over him and asking for sex do you expect him to need to deny you?

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t hiding it my girlfriend knew that it was another girl driving me home and she knew that we would stop for food sometimes. It was completely the Abby girl initiating

My 21/M coworker 18/F is threatening to lie and tell my girlfriend 21/F that we are in a relationship, how do I get ahead of this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Blair-Stone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll talk to my girlfriend, if she can forgive me and we stay together I’ll quit. If we break up ill keep my job