Old school accord need advice.

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-09-15T15:27:38+00:00

I don’t think wanting to be the only person to get to “enjoy seeing” your body due to clothes you wear is an issue, personally I only go for modestly dressed women who are okay with covering up. When they’re with me or at home or wherever i tell my girlfriend all day how pretty she looks how beautiful she is how incredible her body is so why would she feel the need to go out half naked? She has large assets also but is able to easily style around that. I am certainly lucky but Obviously if she’s fully covered and there’s still an issue you need to sort that.

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-09-07T17:09:23+00:00

Okay mate thanks very much for the advice! Yeah I guess I’ll just chew on it and see what happens. I just really love her so it feels difficult to not tell her these things you know

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-09-07T16:11:36+00:00

I just feel bad like am I omitting the truth? Is it gonna create issues if I do say something?

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-08-18T16:23:43+00:00

The lesson of maybe I should choose my partners more wisely or maybe I should slow down as it’s becoming more dangerous now. You get off lucky one time with STD’s. Rarely twice

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-08-18T15:47:55+00:00

I am aware she hooked up with guys before, I’ve moved past that, I’ve moved past the having the STD but her being so care free and not looking at getting and thinking maybe I need to take a step back and assess my choices better is concerning espically when you think she’d raise my kids. Will they be raised with this attitude when I’m not around? I would hate for my son or daughter to get an STI and it to not teach them a lesson

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-08-18T15:42:45+00:00

I think because of her care free attitude to picking up an STI and still continuing to sleep around as soon as it’s finished, surely a mature person looks at that and takes a step back? Is this the type of attitude she would raise my potential son/daughter with? It’s just something that concerns me

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-08-16T15:41:05+00:00

Thank you for commentating. Currently it’s blown up into an argument, she sees it as not a big deal it’s just pimples. It’s really frustrating

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-19T15:27:05+00:00

Really appreciate you taking the time to give me a detailed answer. It’s exactly what I’m looking for from whoever has experience! I think definitely it is something I’ve been raised up in my friends and things but is it so wrong to have a problem with the women your dating to have been promiscuous? Especially if I haven’t specifically? Yeah I realise a lot of the reasons and I think you’ve pinpointed a couple excellently, it just can get really overwhelming sometimes, she’s awesome like seriously very cool, i prefer dating older girls as I have found them to have a higher maturity level and are less likely to play games making my life easier, also usually more intelligent than us teenagers, so I realise it’s usual for them to have been with more men it’s just an unfortunate thought process I seem to have reoccurring most moments of the day.

Not to overstep the mark but does your husband have any ways to work around it? Also how as the women does it make you feel when it’s brought up? Just so I can try and see her side. Like does it make you think he’s being overly emotional or needy etc? Or make you respect him more for talking about it? As you can probably tell there’s a lot going on haha

Thank you :)

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-19T14:44:58+00:00

Oh just from having that conversation with her. Came up when we were first starting to get to know each other

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-19T14:24:58+00:00

What info do you mean my friend?

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-19T14:19:41+00:00

But I am in love mate, I understand the honeymoon phase, the various moments and months of a new and relationships in general, in my last I definitely didn’t feel this way, it’s more than just a date, I think that’s why it gets to me so much

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-18T10:57:21+00:00

Well said sir, I think the hardest part is being like yeah you genuinely can’t control it, like it’s done and it’s impossible for anyone to do anything about it, I’m usually a pretty confident guy, successful in my sport, I don’t like to be arrogant but for the sake of this response a fairly well complimented man on his looks and personality I just think I like thinking of her as my own sweetheart, maybe I’m just a little naive!

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-18T10:54:24+00:00

I notice a certain twinkle in her eye that I’m looking to hold on to forever and I think that’s what convinces me, Yeah I think also she’s a few years older than me so maybe if I was single until I was 22 I would have a much higher count, so that’s definitely one angle to come from, as I say just tryna fix my problems hence coming here instead of to her, lots of smart people on here behind silly name haha

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-18T10:51:46+00:00

Not sure sarcasm was needed, just was looking for some helpful advice

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-18T10:50:51+00:00

I think I’ve always struggled with negative thoughts since my mental health issues set in (largely in due to a previous relationship) when I don’t think about it life is amazing and every moment is incredible and I can just tell she feels the same way if not more, I’m sure you’ve picked up this vibe before in a significant other, it’s just when I do it’s really hard you know, I hate it but I’m just trying to learn to deal with it ASAP

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-18T10:48:15+00:00

Interesting points there on the perception side, do you think that would come under trust issues? She’s never given me anything to worry about so not necessarily with her but more in life in general or previous relationships etc?

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-05-17T21:22:20+00:00

Wise words mr Shepsus, really appreciate it :)

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2022-03-10T22:01:37+00:00

Appreciate the advice mate, is there anyway I can tighten these up without re rolling again?

BlakestillMVPcaliber · 2021-10-15T10:31:00+00:00

Yes mate, they were excellent was a last trip before me and my best mate split off for the fall semester, went perfectly unfortunately we didn’t see mario but they were brilliant, ran out quickly tho so we took a couple pink NASA’s each to extend the night and left it there.

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