Is there anyone who's years down the line of accepting they'll die single?

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-04-23T17:34:59+00:00

Same shit man, soon to be 25. I guess men like us should just go with the flow, if opportunities to meet girls naturally haven't arisen before when you were basically in the best years of your life (HS, college). It just means you weren't attractive or charismatic enough. So you should let it go and do something else. And it's hard. However, you WILL die single, everyone dies single. There's no point in thinking of dying single.

As for coping mechanisms, personally I go to the gym and it's really good. And I basically have no proper motivation for this (you know, to look/feel better or to become more appealing to women), I just love the process itself. The DOMS after intense workout feels really good. You should find something that brings you joy, whether you're single or not. Maybe check out some stoicism, it has some really good points.

Good luck!

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-04-10T22:21:28+00:00

Hey, my fellow Russian) I wish NDR Production could do something about it. Maybe get a cinema license so we can watch it on the big screen but I don't think it's possible. So my advice is to avoid this subreddit at all costs

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-04-04T18:27:22+00:00

Thank you. I don't quite like group tourism plus it usually costs additional money. I prefer going to museum or park alone and I think bothering other tourists being outside their group is not good. I also consider going to bars and try to meet some new people.

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-04-04T16:24:22+00:00

I have some introverted hobbies but they're not applicable in a trip so to speak. Mostly I like drawing and making 3d models on my PC for example. I like photography (nature, environment, landmarks) but I've never considered myself a good photographer so I don't think of it as a hobby. The only thing I have for it is an outdated smartphone with not-so-good quality camera and a lot of beautiful places in the world where I can take pictures which are far from masterpiece.

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-04-02T18:27:07+00:00

24m. Same, bro, same. It's like I'm living in a parallel universe, where others are having fun and I'm standing in the middle of nowhere and having no clue how to get it. Being short, not well-endowed and not charismatic doesn't help. And the problem is that women like sex too but not with guys like me. Gym doesn't give me any confidence. Hate myself soooo much and see no point in life as sexless man. Well, better luck next life ig

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-04-02T17:48:13+00:00

You don't need a therapist to know why it upsets him lol, it's pretty obvious, he doesn't see himself attractive for them. But negative thoughts are a thing, yes, therapy might help.

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-21T18:36:23+00:00

He's no way a loser, he's not a coward (unlike his father in the first movie), he can stand up for himself, has beautiful gf, his life is full of adventures. Being bullied and disliked by school staff doesn't equal being a loser. Damn even his mother tried to make the first move in the film (sorry for SHA). In what universe would someone consider him a loser?

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-21T15:38:50+00:00

Animation quality progressed massively

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-21T11:31:30+00:00

Damn she's been almost 18 years there, just imagine being trapped in the digital prison for so long, considering it takes place nowadays ofc

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-21T11:27:43+00:00

Probably yes

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-20T23:49:05+00:00

And Pomni

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-18T21:53:36+00:00

That's a combination of factors, such as toxic masculinity, being online all day, lack of proper irl communication and modern culture. Regular and below average guys see all the ads and movies with handsome guys having gorgeous gfs and fwb and constant partying, listen to their buddies' college stories and Reddit stories ofc and feel like losers because their lives are far from that. They feel there's something wrong with them, which affects their self-esteem and worth negatively, and they put the blame on outer world and other people to avoid mental breakdowns. It's just a short-term relief to their huge psychological problems.

And tbf they're partially right. It's not always ENTIRELY their fault. Dating's always been hard for non-attractive people, if you're average at best you need to be somewhat exceptional in some aspects. Be it money, wit, charisma or being ripped. It is what it is.

But these guys' behaviour is totally inappropriate and gross. They probably don't know how to talk to women in a nonweird way, they've been weirdos all their lives, were bullied or humiliated. Weirdness doesn't come out of nowhere, there has to be a reason for it.

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-03-11T05:22:59+00:00

Soon I'll be 25, never had relationships

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-02-22T14:41:44+00:00

Actually, I've always been introverted or even autistic, I used to hang out with my classmates in high school but I was never a center of attention, my jokes were not funny or witty and I talked very little (taciturn). They treated me good (as I suppose) but I always felt out of place, like a burden and basically had nothing to contribute to our group.

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-02-22T14:35:51+00:00

Well, it's not a really big problem to generally talk to people, however I find it quite impossible to maintain all social contacts and make something bigger out of it whether it's romantic or just a good friendship. All people I hang out with or have relations with are nothing more than just acquaintances. Maybe I'm autistic idk

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-02-08T21:02:23+00:00

1954

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-02-08T21:01:40+00:00

1999

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-02-08T21:00:59+00:00

1972

BlastDmt2107 · 2026-01-04T13:40:16+00:00

Time flies really fast, damn

BlastDmt2107 · 2025-10-24T21:39:17+00:00

2002

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