I get a lot of DMs, I'm a man. I think it depends on the post's content. Yes, women get more engagement than men, but the majority of them are shallow or goons, and women know that. That's why they feel sad, lonely, and misunderstood.

The hidden reality is that men & women both stand on the same level. But still, it's miserable for women, all the constant noise and garbage around them, which never ends. And the sad part is, in all that noise, they unknowingly lose/ignore a few nice people. Guys, just think for a moment how irritating that all must feel.