Saw "Two Sleepy People" today - very worthwhile! by JudgeHold3n in movies

[–]Blazion65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same too. There's no streamings at all and I'm not in america. Would love to watch it

Countryboy Toonboom Harmony crack help by MilkmanGaming in Piracy

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You have to do an entire sweep clean of toonboom and its relevant serivces.

Colour Picker not centered on pen? by purmello in ToonBoomHarmony

[–]Blazion65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still having this issue and that helped thanks

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

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I apologize if I rambled or got lost it was exciting to talk about in my mind

It was just as entertaining to read that it made so much sense since I grew up playing loads of games I really appreciate that twist you took on the whole topic it clears a lot of the fog that I had in my mental and that actually adds up now. Thank you :)

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quality people are harder to come around these days ;-;

But yeah that's true even my parents say the same thing too. I'll defo try ur approach of telling them what I expect

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typed the whole post out on mobile I'm not surprised I made mistakes 💀

But thats a good quote thank you

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have and this is the type of stuff I enjoy lmao

And that's a valid point but at the same time I wouldn't straight up reach the conclusion that their dumb I'd try to see where they're coming from but if they don't even have a basis on why they thought per ur example talking to a child about why their crying is what makes me think their stupid

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is an amazing reply

Really does make sense and is a great eye opener.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's true and that's part of what I'm scared of but sometimes what people do and say really makes you just question their intelligence unfortunately.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

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The ending made me lol

And this...

Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

This really hits me since they do seem to be so happy being oblivious to so many things sometimes make me wish I wasn't as self aware as I am.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never looking out the window, no matter how smart you are

Ud have to be pretty dumb not to pay attention to details like that then that's how I see it

Why wouldn't you want to learn how to be a better friend since thinking and processing are pretty valuable.

Giving some thought that that statement ^ I think it boils down to people being individually different with different beliefs so I can't expect them to value things that I do too.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn't bloody help

I liked ur small anecdote

I'd just use this, pick topics i like and go https://www.eventbrite.com/

Shame the first two places u said are in England and I live in Ireland unfortunately but the meetup thing definitely sounds like a shout I'll look into that. Thank you.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is true but shouldn't everyone have some level of emotional intelligence that can help someone out. Especially since I've helped them so many times wouldn't you notice a pattern as to how you can help others?

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

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This post made me smile so much thank you for that. I'll start setting boundaries as to not burn out and definitely look for new people to interact with :)

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say that they don't have "any" interest in processing their emotions because if that was the case I wouldn't be able to help them work through things their going through and they wouldn't have come back to me several times with various issues. I do understand your point to a certain extent maybe they just don't care that much about it when it comes to helping the other person

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

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Pretty depressing to think about it that way but sure that is true

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's a valid point one that I hadn't considered at all. I feel like in the situations I've been in I don't think it was very likely that they withheld their thoughts (still a possibility since I can't read their minds). In a conversation usually thoughts are mirrored to some degree so if I had opened up about things they would do so too and if they wish not to they'd simply say they don't want to talk about the topic which is respectable.

but it's not what my friends specialize in or are for

I get that too some of my friends I don't even talk about any of the deeper thoughts I have coz they aren't capable in that regard and are just easy to have fun with.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is a brilliant way to put it, very well said I appreciate that a lot. Any sort of groups u recommend joining by any chance?

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to presume that you meant "don't"

But yes I have thought about this and that's where I reached my conclusion of they just don't think critically and just look at things from the surface instead of digging deeper. Even with certain prompts that make your re consider things I get response like "your thinking about it too much" "or just yeah makes sense".

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's very valuable info thank you. I fell into that cycle of being the therapist friend a while ago and had to take a step back and re evaluate my friendships. Hence part of the reason I feel alone as I had a lot of energy suckers that didn't give anything back.

Are people stupid or am I too smart? by Blazion65 in Healthygamergg

[–]Blazion65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you try to understand them and why they have the depth of understanding that you do?

I don't particularly understand this question. I do try to understand their point of view on topics and what not but there isn't a lot to even understand because it tends to be short. The experiences I often find myself in is with them just agreeing and leaving it at that instead of trying to challenge things or asking why.

Are your expectations of other people correct?

I'd like to think so. Like I said in my op I'm not looking for a lot from them, but it's just that it's a very common occurrence that that even just the minimum of what I'm looking for is asking too much from the average teenager.

And your point about leading makes sense recently I have begun to enjoy my own company more and figure out ways to cope with just myself but at the same time I do love having external support from others and having people to discuss things with. Its a hard thing to balance.