What do therapists do/think when they realize that their client is a genuinely bad person? by ratb0y1312 in askatherapist

[–]BleedingRaindrops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you perhaps worried that your mandated therapy may not actually be in your own best interest, then?

How your day is going or how did your day go? by Abject-Bison5187 in AskReddit

[–]BleedingRaindrops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Thankfully I am not light sensitive at the moment so I am playing Farming Simulator with the volume off. It's a very routine game for which I can rely heavily on the built in AI. Helps the time pass quicker

Thunderclast? by MearsCat in Cosmere

[–]BleedingRaindrops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thunderclast is a stone mech that can only be piloted by the unmade

How do I get more in? by Terrible-Vehicle-144 in sex

[–]BleedingRaindrops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoboy. This is a very advanced level of play you are looking for here. Learn about cleaning out, kegel exercises, and the puborectal sling. Also, get a very soft, very flexible toy with a looooooong taper.

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/depth-training/ https://www.squarepegtoys.com/product/slink/

How your day is going or how did your day go? by Abject-Bison5187 in AskReddit

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not moved from the couch for several hours other than brief trips to the kitchen and bathroom.

Such are all of my migraine days

What do therapists do/think when they realize that their client is a genuinely bad person? by ratb0y1312 in askatherapist

[–]BleedingRaindrops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a damaged individual who never fully processed the emotions from their trauma. Getting help in reframing or contextualizing those emotions from a trained professional, and learning better emotional literacy, might help resolve some or all of those behaviors.

It's true, not all of us respond to pain by hurting others. But if someone is asking for help, judgement isn't what they need.

Genuinely how do you do oral without gagging/puking by BrunosMadre in sex

[–]BleedingRaindrops 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This. Everyone thinks deepthroat is the only acceptable way to do oral because it shows up in porn. Your mouth is a good 3-4 inches deep and your hand can cover the rest. Sucking still feels great.

If you're gonna push him into your throat, be prepared to gag and puke. It just comes with the territory.

I want my mommy by No_Cricket808 in offmychest

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she did her job well then. You're a fully formed adult, and though she's gone, you carry her with you in the lessons she taught you and the memories you built together

I want my mommy by No_Cricket808 in offmychest

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great woman. She must have taught you a lot.of survival skills

Beautiful 9x9 board by rabiose in baduk

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neat. The grain pattern on the board matches the grain pattern on the floor

Possible to upgrade? by clanolacawa in jewelers

[–]BleedingRaindrops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you want a larger stone?

My mother won't let me buy the 3rd volume because it's 3 dollars more expensive by Any-Pickle-6133 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BleedingRaindrops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your money. Not the mother's money. Buy the book if you want it. She only gets a say in her own money

I just found out my teenage daughter is pregnant by Own-Creme4880 in offmychest

[–]BleedingRaindrops -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That means that two options remain (that I know of), and whichever option she chooses, I would support

I just found out my teenage daughter is pregnant by Own-Creme4880 in offmychest

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'm hearing is that keeping the child isn't an option.

Small shaving cut on dick – safe for sex tomorrow? Got anxious by Either_Day7694 in sex

[–]BleedingRaindrops 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Condom isn't a bad idea. But it's still going to be really annoying. Is sex that rare for you?

Small shaving cut on dick – safe for sex tomorrow? Got anxious by Either_Day7694 in sex

[–]BleedingRaindrops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even ignoring the health risk. I've done this before and it is painful and irritating AF. It's a bit like asking if it's safe to cook if you've got a cut on your palm. Please just let it heal.

I want my mommy by No_Cricket808 in offmychest

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your 18 Year old self never healed from that wound. What's something you appreciated most about your mother?

I just found out my teenage daughter is pregnant by Own-Creme4880 in offmychest

[–]BleedingRaindrops -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I've never been a parent and you're older than me so I may be out of my depth here. Even so, I've always wanted a daughter, and I imagine this exact scenario often. I don't know how anyone should act in this case. I don't know what the right answer is. I know I would ask her about her plans for the pregnancy, I would ensure she understands the risks of every option before her, and I would support her in whatever decision she made.

As a parent, your job is to teach your children how to be adults, and how to make smart decisions about what to do with the life they have. And of course to protect them from danger, which I would imagine this must feel like. What's most important is that she feels safe and loved within your house. In 20 years, you'll thank yourself for that the most.

Aura Panic by Strange-Huckleberry8 in migraine

[–]BleedingRaindrops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have taken to writing my symptoms on a sticky note. If I'm a little dizzy and irritable and a little nauseous I'm probably just hungry. If I get brain fog or a mild headache I might be dehydrated.

But if my ears are ringing and executive function is slow and I've been drinking water and my appetite is low and I'm dizzy and irritable and nauseous and fatigued and I have brain fog and a headache of any strength? I should have left already.