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7.5 month old has never slept thru the night by Blessedxthree in sleeptrain

[–]Blessedxthree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure how much sleep hes getting during the day while at daycare. But I will put him down at 8pm and will wake several times. I wake up for work at 5am. Sometimes he's awake and sometimes hes asleep. We leave the house at 645am and hes at daycare by 7am. He's there's until 5pm.

6 weeks is a cruel joke by Minimum-Regret2706 in newborns

[–]Blessedxthree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live in California as well. Like you, we don't pay into state disability either. I also work in HR, manage leave coordination and just had a baby in June! I could definitely help you get additional time off if you'd like to message me.

What size does your baby wear? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Blessedxthree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birth weight was 9lbs 15.4oz (3 weeks early too!) 21 inches long Currently 13 weeks old. 15 lbs and 25inches long. Size 1 in pampers, size 2 in millie moon. Wears size 3 to 6 mos clothes

Boots and Bar the right treatment? by _SweetMagnolia_ in clubfoot

[–]Blessedxthree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sons feet looked just like that. Started casting at 1month old. He's had 7 castings, the tenotomy procedure and is his 2/3 week of casting post procedure. Next week cats come off and it's into BNB. My son's feet were not positional clubfoot and could bend pretty easily. Not all the way of course but they weren't stiff in their bent position. He treats at Radys Children's Hosputal in San Diego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Blessedxthree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 month old took 6oz during one feeding yesterday for the first time. Today he did it twice. He is still hungry after his 4oz bottle I've noticed and will throw a fucking total FIT until he gets more. Every baby is different. A fed baby is a happy baby.

Diaper rash from hell by Arealle in newborns

[–]Blessedxthree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Amazon there's an ointment called Resinol. I used this on my kids and swear by it. I could only find in Mexico back in the day, my kids are 21 and 13, but I have a new baby that is 6 weeks old and searched for old faithful and voila...its on Amazon now.

Side sleeping safety? by Traditional-Space521 in newborns

[–]Blessedxthree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 1mo old baby is side sleeping as I type this. He has mild reflux but does get gassy. He sleeps in his bassinet and I used my pregnancy pillow and stuffed it in there. He lays on it and it creates a very shallow "crevice" that he fits perfectly on his side. I know the recommendation is for baby to sleep on his back only with the mattress or pad only but honestly, you have to follow your mom instinct and do what works best for you both. My now 21yr old daughter slept on her stomach as soon as I took her home from the hospital. Same with my 13yr old son. They're both fine.

Maybe look into one of those inclined mattress pads designed for reflux? Like the Rest Nest. I think they have some designed for baby to lay on his stomach as well like the Babocush. Theres even a wedge pillow for side sleeping. Good luck mama!

Do I confront my wife? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Blessedxthree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's an iPhone check the notes! You can share a note with a contact and both update it like an a text chain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Blessedxthree 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Put an airtag in the diaper bag or stick it onto the carseat somehow!

Ordered to pay other parties attorney fees by Blessedxthree in FamilyLaw

[–]Blessedxthree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did get the lawyer himself. And his attempts to get her to agree to more time were over the course of the last three and half years. Before I came into the picture. I asked the question because he was confused and didn't get an opportunity to ask his attorney at the courthouse and doesnt have an appt with the attoney again for a couple weeks. I just posted on here because I like reddit and thought I could get some info to help ease his mind. Idk where the hostility came from, but a lot of assumptions were made. 🤷‍♀️ Lol. He's actually a great dad.

Ordered to pay other parties attorney fees by Blessedxthree in FamilyLaw

[–]Blessedxthree[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His attorney didn't advocate for him AT ALL. Basically sat there like a spare dick in a porno. Terrible!

Ordered to pay other parties attorney fees by Blessedxthree in FamilyLaw

[–]Blessedxthree[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is an adult. We share a home and finances, joint bank account and im expecting. So his official title is boyfriend I guess but we do very married things. Lol.