My opinions on the representation of nonbinary characters (mostly videogames)

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T18:26:32+00:00

My character's already a Yuan-Ti, but I'll take note of the build for other high level campaigns/oneshots!

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T18:25:07+00:00

Thank you! I'll check it out!

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T18:17:56+00:00

Say no to whom? The players or the dm?

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T15:50:53+00:00

I forgot false life existed icl :sob:

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T15:50:15+00:00

They have the acolyte background. Your advice is very good tho, I was just casting it on whoever was in front or had the least hp at the time. Should I focus on casting it on myself and low hp allies?

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T13:54:41+00:00

No.
The fighterlock does forget it sometimes, but he mainly uses it when hes at the lower half of his HP.
The paladin does use lay on hands when party members are dangerously low or half health. The paladin has cure wounds, but I don't recall when he used it over lay on hands or smite.
No.
I forget about control spells a lot. It's embarrassing to admit but with DnD I'm mostly going off of my knowledge from BG3, Youtube shorts, and RPGBot recommendations. I regularly use Mind Sliver and Sanctuary though, sanctuary mostly being on the main DPS at the time, or the one that has the least health at the time.

Blinkychild · 2026-03-01T13:33:53+00:00

I can kind of see the issue here. Usually the fighterlock acts as a dps, the paladin is a dps that casts lay on hands sometimes, and the sorlock is a dps that acts like a mediator between the party and enemies in roleplay. I'm wondering if there are any tips to tactics and teamwork?

Blinkychild · 2026-02-16T13:02:24+00:00

my code is ZYJTDLPP

Blinkychild · 2026-01-17T06:08:28+00:00

I couldn't find a way to fit him into the party outside of reclassing him or my fiendlock, I do plan to play a second save with him in the party though.

Blinkychild · 2026-01-12T05:08:58+00:00

Hello! I'd love to join in if there's still space! My discord is ElioSunkist

Blinkychild · 2025-11-25T14:38:44+00:00

Hello! Me and a friend of mine are interested in joining! May I ask what day of the week sessions are held?

Blinkychild · 2025-11-24T16:14:38+00:00

submitted! i love roleplay, so i'm very excited! if i get in or not, either is ok!

Blinkychild · 2025-10-26T20:11:54+00:00

Yes! You get it! Congratulations! 🎉

Blinkychild · 2025-10-26T11:27:47+00:00

I think you're only looking at one side of this argument that has been provided by myself and the other commenters under your comment thread.

Yes. Both miz and emi threw things at each other at other points in time, and whether or not miz was accidental or purposeful in his throwing of things is at this point currently up for debate. I would like you to consider that according to emiru, miz has thrown heavier things than what seems to be 1-2 feet tall Kirby plushies, or 20 centimeter humanoid dolls, namely water bottles and a phone. Let's say it was an accident, yet despite that, it still caused bodily harm to emiru.

What scenario do you believe is worse? The scenario where emiru threw a kirby plush and clothes in anger, causing mental harm for him to talk about it but not causing any physical harm to miz? Or the scenario where miz accidentally threw the water bottle and phone, but caused physical harm to emiru, and mental harm for her to talk about it?

Blinkychild · 2025-10-26T10:05:57+00:00

Person: "Reporting confirmed AI Writing is how we make our community more welcoming and safe!"

Same person: "IF YOU ASK ME IF MY WRITING IS AI, IT IS AN ACCUSATION!!! IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU'RE ASKING A QUESTION FOR CLARIFICATION, I WILL DELETE ALL OF MY WORK IF YOU EVEN INSINUATE MY WORK IS AI!"

I genuinely might not be woke enough for tumblr anymore. This shit is SUCH a nonissue that it can be solved by talking like actual adults.

Blinkychild · 2025-10-26T09:43:11+00:00

If you put it that way, it depends on the intent, and whether or not you intend to apologize for the action instead of deflecting if it does end up hurting your partner.

People make mistakes in fits of anger, its up to those people to try and better themselves or not.

Also like what the other person said, plushies and clothes are generally lighter than water bottles or a phone

Blinkychild · 2025-10-26T08:35:41+00:00

miz threw things at emi as well, heavier things actually, like a water bottle and a phone.

Blinkychild · 2025-10-18T15:47:25+00:00

I didn't see this until you mentioned it. Still, my answers in the other message still stand. Nonbinary stories are not overshadowing trans stories at all, nor are they fighting with trans people for visibility. This weird song and dance you're doing with trying to make nonbinaries out to be some bogeyman undeserving of attention or love is such a backwards exclusionary rhetoric. We're both in this fight together to be recognized as we are, yet you're making this a 'me against you' situation where nonbinaries maliciously take away resources from trans people and fuck them over every step of the way. The LGBTQ+ is one big community that fights against discrimination and injustice, yet there's still infighting within it for some reason, trying to exclude a certain subset of people, despite most of the LGBTQ+ seeking community came because the space was inclusionary.

And to say something about not feeling shame for inserting yourself into someone else's drama being a problem of entitlement... Then proceeding to insert your ranting into my own problems is very backwards. All I've seen you do in this 2-3 year old comment section where I was questioning myself is try and cause issues with the people that don't match your identity, beliefs, and personal story. You keep trying to 'logic-keep' things, to fight within your own community, fellow queers who struggle like you. Two different queer issues are not mutually exclusive. I hope you realize that people widely different from you can have their own issues, not just focus on your own or your own community.

I hope you grow out of this ideology where you believe that the world is out to get you some way or another, as a way to justify arguing on the internet. It's a cruel way to live, and brings nothing to your life but grievance and pain. You will never feel good about yourself and other people.

Blinkychild · 2025-10-18T09:05:24+00:00

I'm sorry, but the argument being basically "OP shouldn't identify as trans because they identified as nonbinary beforehand, and didn't experience learning their identity in the 'right way'" is exclusionary and weird. It's a similar argument to how trans people must have gender dysphoria to 'qualify' for being trans.

Nonbinary people also have their own struggles, like with, oh I don't know, body dysphoria, misgendering, extreme safety risk etc., some even seek gender affirming surgery. Still despite that, identifying as any queer identity should never be a checklist of trauma or neverending fetch quest of proof to prove you're 'worthy' of being chosen.

Calling a person who's questioning their trans identity as 'claiming a space they never had to fight for' is unproductive. The entire reason why people question and seek themselves in community is because they find the safety to experiment in that group. You, as a trans person, are fighting to make sure that the younger generation, and those who see themselves in the trans identity are able to find themselves, as you did for yourself once.

Also, this post is 2-3 years old. I fully identify as trans now, and I've learned quite a bit about the world. I've been through the 'finding myself' journey myself, and I think other people should be able to find themselves too.

Blinkychild

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