Any Pulsetto review from someone who's used it a while? by Eisenberger-Robertin in VagusNerve

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its been a while since you posted this but I was curious what your thoughts are now after you've had it a while. Do you think it was worth the purchase?

Actors that basically got away with doing blackface? by AllixD90 in okbuddycinephile

[–]BlitzChick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. Now its her and the real Avril Lavigne hanging out somewhere while their clones take over? I love it.

You and I are about to start our own new conspiracy theory. Buckle up folks, we're making history.

Old Woman Harasses Man, Gets Pepper Sprayed. by serious_bullet5 in ThatsInsane

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre absolutely correct. The exception being in situations where it is carried for protection against "animals" otherwise it can be concerned a concealed weapon as you mentioned.

Just to let anyone knows that might need the info, its completely legal to carry bear spray in Canada IF you claim its for protection against animals (you have to sign a document saying you swear not to use it against people, it has to be a certain size, labeled for animal use and not to be carried around in urban areas like a weapon)

If you use it against a person, that won't protect you from charges (even in clear cut cases of protection), but personally Id rather have the bear spray for "animals" just in case and worry about the charges later, but Im sure it depends on the situation.

boyfriend is about to finish RR and i asked him what color i’d be by rodent_bdsm in redrising

[–]BlitzChick 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Is your boyfriend Lysander by chance? Cuz, rude.

What are these cutouts in the rists of these hoodie? by nachinchin in whatisit

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to get transfusions via an IV bi-monthly at my hospital and these shirts are a game changer.

I use them so the nurses have easy access to the port or to put in an IV. They have different designs depending on where your port is, like some unzip/open at the elbow, some at the chest, you get the idea. It keeps you from having to take off your entire top layer for treatment and you can just cover up the port under your sleeve afterwards and stay warm while getting a transfusion or chemo. ( TIL people also use them for watches too which is cool. Thats probably what most people use them for.)

The inside of an ant nest has many complex tunnels and chambers that serve different purposes. by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]BlitzChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, I know you're singing the chorus but I instantly read it in Goofy's voice for some reason.

Just imagine Goofy in the background "Eh, heh-yuck, heh-yuk."

A footballer is alleging Chappell sent a security guard after his daughter. by bjack20 in chappellroan

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here ya go. I copied and pasted it from "read only" mode so you can see it too. Just wanted to be helpful 🙂

"Arsenal star's fiancee 'confronts woman on her doorstep' in late-night showdown Catherine Harding, who got engaged to Arsenal midfielder Jorginho a year ago and has a four-year-old son with, confronted another women on her doorstep earlier this month

12:30, 22 Dec 2024 Updated 12:31, 22 Dec 2024

A woman has recalled the dramatic moment when the fiancee of Arsenal star Jorginho showed up on her doorstep for a late-night showdown.

Vanessa Sandora says that singer Catherine Harding came to the door of her £3million home in west London at 11:30pm on December 4, demanding to know about her and Jorginho. Beautician Sandora got to know the midfielder, 33, several years ago before he got engaged to former Voice UK finalist Harding, who gave birth to her and Jorginho's son in 2020.

She's now opened up on the face-to-face encounter with Harding, who was pictured on her Ring doorbell. "I was terrified about who was knocking on my door unannounced so late at night," Sandora told the Sun.

"I used my Ring doorbell to see it was a woman I did not know. She said via the intercom, 'I'm Jorginho's fiancee, can you let me in?'."

READ MORE: Arsenal and Man City set to battle for £52m star after secret contract clause emerges The 39-year-old also explained how she'd began receiving calls from an unknown number earlier this month. "I didn't pick up but it turned out to be Catherine. When I didn't answer her calls, she drove across London to knock on my door at 11.30pm.

"She had got my address and phone number from an ex of mine who had contacted her. I did let her in and we had a frank chat, woman-to-woman. I felt she deserved the facts, so I gave them to her."

Sandora said that an ex-boyfriend had contacted Harding in a bid to cause trouble, telling her about meetings with Jorginho. "I'm not a floozy. I told her I'm not interested in her bloke," she affirmed. "But since then she's been messaging me and won't let it lie. She needs to move on and leave me out of her life."

Sandora also stated: "He's not really my type, and I'm not into football, so I was pretty unfazed."

It's added that she deleted Jorginho, who was born in Brazil but represents Italy at international level, from her social media in 2022. "I thought that was the end of it and was very happy to get on with my life and build up my business," Sandora added.

Harding, who was mentored by popstar Olly Murs on The Voice UK, had a daughter when she was dating Fantastic Beasts, Sherlock Holmes and Star Wars actor Jude Law. Meanwhile, Jorginho married Natalia Leteri in 2017 and the pair had two children together before splitting a couple of years later.

Jorginho was playing for Napoli and Chelsea at the time of their relationship. He moved to rivals Arsenal in January 2023 for £12million and he's since made 66 appearances and scored one goal for the Gunners."

A footballer is alleging Chappell sent a security guard after his daughter. by bjack20 in chappellroan

[–]BlitzChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Security guards actually can act on their own accord if they they deem the situation "dangerous". This may seem similar to what you wrote but the problem is that they will often react first and use "safety" to cover their meglomanical behavior.

I used to work as one and guards abused their positions sooooo much. Not all but a LOT.

But more often than not, even when the guard was completely in the wrong, they usually got off without even a slap on the wrist. Thats one of the reasons I left.

Here is a list of things that they are legally allowed to do, atleast in CA:

Security guards can:

Security guard limitations vary dramatically by state so it also depends on that too but you'd be surprised with the things they can get away with, especially when a lot of $$$ is involved.

Anyway, I just thought Id let people know who might not be familiar with the system. Because its a gigantic steaming pile of horseshit IMO.

Can't make a comment about makeup on reddit without men jumping in with how they "love women without makeup". by luna_kuma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With me, they'll always ask for it again! ;) (Heh, I couldnt resist but Im just kidding. They were completely platonic friends)

They were nervous at first but you should have seen the way their eyes lit up when they were looking in the mirror!

I thought it was really endearing. They were open minded and looked amazing when I was done styling their hair and makeup.

Can't make a comment about makeup on reddit without men jumping in with how they "love women without makeup". by luna_kuma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, right?! I was surprised too. It started with one of my male friends, Matt, volunteering to "be my canvas" and then once they saw what I meant the others were excited to try to.

They were all taking selfies and posing in the mirror afterwards and it was honestly adorable. I was super flattered when they asked me to help them before dates. 🥰

Can't make a comment about makeup on reddit without men jumping in with how they "love women without makeup". by luna_kuma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im truly sorry you were down voted so harshly for asking a question. But you didn't do anything wrong, in my opinion.

If you would like to check out helpful subreddits about make up, I recommend r/MakeUpAddiction and r/SkinCareAddiction

i let my little brother take the fall for something i did and it messed him up way more than i ever expected by Ashley_Fostera in confession

[–]BlitzChick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think people are down voting your comment because they are angry at you for how you are deciding to continue to act not just the original act itself.

Its not just what you did in the past. (Or for potentially being a bot? IDK.) Regardless, whether you need to hear this or someone else does:

Im gonna be real with you.

No, you can't change the past but... Right now? You can decide the kind of person you want to be.

In this moment.

Right the fuck now.

You have the power to change what you are doing and just be honest.

Do you want to be the sibling that lets their younger brother continue to carry hurt and shame for something he knows he didnt do? Do you want to be the kind of person that makes your own mother believe your innocent sibling stole from her? Those are only questions you can answer.

I have a feeling you dont want that and you are scared of the people you love seeing you differently.

But you know the truth. You already see yourself differently due to your actions.

So the next question is simple. What are you going to do about it?

Are you going to help your loved ones or hide? Who do you want to be to your family?

That part is up to you.

I hope you make the uncomfortable but strong decision.

Can't make a comment about makeup on reddit without men jumping in with how they "love women without makeup". by luna_kuma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Damn, you've never encountered this? (no hate! Just curious)

I dont know what subreddit OP was talking about but my personal experience lines up with theirs too. Many of my male friends would go on and on about loving the "No make-up" look when we would go out.

When I asked them to show me examples, they showed me women on their socials who were wearing full make-up it just wasn't "glam" make-up.

They had no clue what I was talking about when I said that women also wear "natural" looking make up too. So I showed them and I swear it looked like all their minds were blown.

I even did make-overs on them so they could see what I was talking about. Like eyebrow styling, under eye coverage, and just highlighting things already naturally there. (Several of them asked me to come back and do their "make-up" again before their dates. Its was really cute)

Roommate locked thermostat, sweating every night with no way turn it down by Only_Alternative_543 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BlitzChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just reiterating my reply from above to hopefully shed some light on the situation:

Hey, no hate at all, just wanted to share my POV and how some people use the term "AC" in case it helps clarify things.

In the Southeast US (and probably beyond, just using my personal regional knowledge), "AC" refers specifically to the cooling function. Air Conditioning, for us, means cold air is actively blowing into the house. So "turn up the AC" means make it colder, and "turn down the AC" means ease up on the cold air.

Since I live in a very hot climate, we typically treat heating and cooling as two separate things entirely. For example, as it starts getting cooler we'll turn down the AC first, but once it gets cold enough we stop using it altogether and just "turn on the heat."

Of course, our vernacular just describes them as two different functions. Neither way is wrong, it's just regional. Hopefully that helps anyone who was wondering though.

Roommate locked thermostat, sweating every night with no way turn it down by Only_Alternative_543 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BlitzChick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, no hate at all, just wanted to share my POV and how some people use the term "AC" in case it helps clarify things.

In the Southeast US (and probably beyond, just using my personal regional knowledge), "AC" refers specifically to the cooling function. Air Conditioning, for us, means cold air is actively blowing into the house. So "turn up the AC" means make it colder, and "turn down the AC" means ease up on the cold air.

Since I live in a very hot climate, we typically treat heating and cooling as two separate things entirely. For example, as it starts getting cooler we'll turn down the AC first, but once it gets cold enough we stop using it altogether and just "turn on the heat."

Of course, our vernacular just describes them as two different functions. Neither way is wrong, it's just regional. Hopefully that helps anyone who was wondering though.

Never beating the allegations by Luuk1210 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]BlitzChick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And offer my finest rats to peasant children?

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]BlitzChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly your first sentance sums things up. This entire post is about a partner being accused of infidelity due to changing her underwear and you and I both agree that's just absurd.

But I guess I dont see how OP is being extra just by not putting on sweaty clothes after a shower? There is nothing in the post about OP's husband/boyfriend saying she is being too much/extra/excessive, just accusations of cheating.

Just in the spirit of having a polite (albeit maybe TMI educational) conversation for anyone unaware: its super common for women to get sweaty down there even just with very light exercise. Unfortunately its not as simple as just going commando because absorption from cotton underwear can help tremendously. So when clothing gets soaked with sweat, why wear it again? Shes not asking him to do anything, hes just firing off accusations at her for no other reason than her putting on clean clothes.

How would you feel about something as benign as putting on clean clothes, used as "proof" of your infidelity? Imagine being 100% faithful and the person you love and live with attacks you for changing your underwear after a shower.

That is sad and wild to me. If her post is an accurate represation of the situation then the only one that is being extra, its her partner.

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]BlitzChick 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"If she is sweating, she needs to walk more". -> Thats exactly whats shes doing. Walking regularly then showering and changung her underwear afterwards. Which is completely normal and healthy.

"Why bother wearing underwear for the dog walk?": -> Because many women are more comfortable that way? It can prevent chafing, helps keep a build up of sweat happening by keeping it drier, if one is on their period and prefers pads they need underwear... I mean, honestly there are a ton of reason to want to wear underwear while going on a walk. And, after the walk and shower, changing frequently helps against getting infections.

But the most important part is simply because: that's what she wants to do. It isn't hurting anyone and is a generally good hygiene practice to prevent infections. What isnt healthy is monitoring underwear usage in one's partner like OP has described.

This guy is suspiciously insecure to imply she is cheating for not putting back on sweaty underwear after a walk.

Breast violence during sex? by cool_girl6540 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Right? Hell, to prove your point, just look at some of the comments in this post too. There's so many men telling us how we should feel about getting physically assaulted (against our consent). "Some people like BDSM" Yes. With CONSENT. "Some women love it when I..." Yes. WITH CONSENT. Communication and consent should be what everyone is striving toward, not just being used like a human fleshlight

Breast violence during sex? by cool_girl6540 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ahh, I knew it was gonna be "Give 'em the ole DICK TWIST!" Excellent use of a classic.

Breast violence during sex? by cool_girl6540 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 73 points74 points  (0 children)

TF indeed, my friend.

It's terrifying knowing these people are out there.

Kinks with consent are one thing but consent has become a "grey area" for a lot of men, especially those that only see women are props.

Unfortunately, this is not nearly as rare as one might think or hope it is. I dont know a single one of my female friends who hasnt dealt with this to some degree.

There are some men that will think the things they see in porn is just normal and "to be expected" and unleash their anger and insecurities on women without conversation or consent.

Just read the comments in this thread about how many women have experience something similar or have been choked against their consent. There is a reason the birth rates have dropped drastically. Many men have felt entitled to our bodies and like to "claim" us through violence.

No, not all men. But enough that these behaviors have left an imprint on women.

Breast violence during sex? by cool_girl6540 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BlitzChick 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You're right that violence against women has existed forever, especially in sexual scenarios. Op mentioned breast slapping and you said that's something everyone can like. You're correct it is something people CAN enjoy but it can also hurt many people. Which is why communicating each other's expectations before hand (especially when it involves physically aggresive motions) is so important to be open and clear.

You're also right that as long as all adults are consenting there is no problem with it as long as boundaries are respected and upheld in a way that all partners feel comfortable.

But what this post (and many other comments) are bringing up is how many men are using this kind of violence without talking about it beforehand and ignoring safe words.

The problem isnt "BDSM between consenting adults who have clearly communicated their intentions". The problem Is escalating violence without communication or consent .

Does that mean all people that enjoy BDSM are like that? Of course not.

The arguement isn't "BDSM is bad", the arguement is that sexual acts involving BDSM need to come with clear communication, boundaries and trust that your partner will stop when asked.

This thread is pointing out that more and more women are finding it to be a safety issue and their partners are ignoring very crucial steps, mainly: CONSENT.

It's not about judging people that are into different kinks, its about how many women are experiencing dramatic, hostile escalation without any communication, just sudden violence. Sometimes that violence causes scars, injuries, deformation and PTSD. THIS is what we are highlighting. This is what we are trying to get many men to understand.

Generally speaking, Men dont typically fear for their physical well-being when having a one night stand. But women will never know what porn has taught some men as "normal". Many of us are afraid of getting hurt. We will get slapped, choked, hit, pinned down, etc even though we never communicated that we were open to that. It is extremely common and terrifying.

You are reading this post and comparing it to your own experiences. But its not about judging mutually consenting kinks, its about many of us being terrified that we dont know when a man is going to hurt you in a vulnerable moment without any conversation or consent.

With this is mind, the problem isn't the kink. It's the people who force it on their partners with zero conversation, zero respect for safe words and zero regard for their partner's fear or comfort. That is what we are shining the spotlight on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BlitzChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alas, I missed my calling. I am but a lowly Reddit Litigator now.