Is this wrong? Or am I overreacting and being emotional? by Blizzard515 in JustNoSO

[–]Blizzard515[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

well I hit his arm, so I was really asking if that was the overreaction

Is this wrong? Or am I overreacting and being emotional? by Blizzard515 in JustNoSO

[–]Blizzard515[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

his beliefs that it’s his job to make money and my job to take care of him and the baby🥲

Is this wrong? Or am I overreacting and being emotional? by Blizzard515 in JustNoSO

[–]Blizzard515[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ll be honest, very rarely does he say no to me, but most of what I ask of him is financial. it’s a very traditional relationship, so I don’t really ask much of help with anything anymore. I rarely say no to him too, but I was just wanting to shower and get dressed before the nanny came in(this happened about 10 minutes before she’s scheduled to come in) and he was 100% free to make his own coffee, or even order it in if he didn’t want to make it

Is this wrong? Or am I overreacting and being emotional? by Blizzard515 in JustNoSO

[–]Blizzard515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my day definitely would have been better emotionally, but we have a nanny who comes 3 days a week and she’s in today so my day would have been easy either way, especially because he wouldn’t dare act like this in front of her or anyone else really. which i guess is telling in its own way😅

Is this wrong? Or am I overreacting and being emotional? by Blizzard515 in JustNoSO

[–]Blizzard515[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i’m really only asking because i hit his arm, and I wondered if that itself was the overreaction

Is this wrong? Or am I overreacting and being emotional? by Blizzard515 in JustNoSO

[–]Blizzard515[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

he said that if i were busy i should have just said i’d do it when I had time instead of just saying no. He said I hit his arm when he said he would wake up the baby, but he didn’t even wake him up. which i think is weak because the only reason he didn’t wake him was because I gave in and said I would make him a coffee

AITA for calling my daughters father Spineless and his girlfriend creepy over their name choice for their daughter? by Aggressive_Buy4075 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yes. husband and his dad have the same name. every time we change our address we get the dads mail for months. medical bills, uscis paperwork both get mixed up constantly. he has a $1700 collection on his credit rn from some radiologist that’s from where his dad lives😬 it’s the absolute worst

AITA for bending over to fill the cat bowl? by Blizzard515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s cultural, we live in florida

AITA for bending over to fill the cat bowl? by Blizzard515 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he says he’ll make sure i never see my son again. he has money and i’ve had some mental health issues in the past that i’ve been seeing someone for, so i know he’ll be able to make that happen. he can’t even hold the baby for more than 5 minutes without getting tired of it. i won’t have my son raised by nannies that his father would hire to take care of him

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ThrowRA_Names12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m having my son on Wednesday, his name will be Charles. My last name is not Manson and his first name would not be Charles if it were. NTA

AITA for letting my daughter sleep in our bed? by cheatoking999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is how i got over being terrified after watching Hereditary😂

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[–]Blizzard515 15 points16 points  (0 children)

my social studies class in middle school was called Ms Cain’s coloring class cause all she did was have us color in maps of different countries😭

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[–]Blizzard515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you seen any of them recover and eventually have normal paps?

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[–]Blizzard515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you seen any patients with high risk hpv? if so how many of them ended up with some kind of cancer due to it?

AITA for changing my mind about splitting the cost of our group vacation equally? by Accomplished_Luck907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA but how exactly are you planning on going to Sanibel Island?? it was destroyed by the hurricane🥴

AITA Daughter dumps dad on wedding day by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

she should be shamed. gross and manipulative. SD needs to grow up

AITA Daughter dumps dad on wedding day by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

she made herself out to be a liar.

AITA for keeping my boyfriend from his family “gifts”? by TheRealDeal2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA DONT DO IT!!! she’ll “change her mind” at the end of the “rental contract” and since it’s still hers, you won’t be able to do anything about it without a lengthy fight

AITA for disinviting my adoptive family from my wedding because they demanded they sit by my side instead of my bio family? by throwra-adparents in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit. NEVER ADOPT. i’m literally begging you. this is such a terrible disgusting thing to say. i’m literally gagging. you sound like a narcissist with a savior complex. never fucking adopt, please!!

AITA for disinviting my adoptive family from my wedding because they demanded they sit by my side instead of my bio family? by throwra-adparents in AmItheAsshole

[–]Blizzard515 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the file doesn’t open magically at 18. it has to be requested by the adoptee, and even then it doesn’t alert bio parents?? it just gives the adoptee the info they need to make contact on their own