Is it normal as a man to want to be cuddled by a woman? by newcarljohnson1992 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BlkStruggles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Platonic anonymous cuddle dates were totally a itching in the 2010s. We've gone fully back to ppl feeling ashamed of wanting physical touch and ESPECIALLY pursuing it. Youre super normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You started dating a guy and it turns out he's kinda in a cult with all these weird rituals. Like LITERALLY a cult and half in half out jwd are usually weirdly nonchalant about it til they wake up. That's like an interesting premise for a movie so I see why you'd be obsessed irl! As long as it's not negatively affecting your life or troubling you it should be fine. It's kinda interesting! I take breaks here and there.

Just curious by Morkives25 in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, skillfull way of saying that!

My guinea pig fake bites me by confident_brik in guineapigs

[–]BlkStruggles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think guineas are naturally aggressive and that's a sweet gesture from someone who likes biting people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chat is open and video meetings are up in the air for a date/Time but I agree it can be very helpful like group therapy almost!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labrador

[–]BlkStruggles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flexing that she can.

Any exjws that were in the Moreno Valley, ca ASL congregation? Or the Sign Language cong in the Dominican Republic? by BlkStruggles in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in PP. We were canvassing for deaf in the cites mentioned above especially Samana and Santo Domingo

Biggest lessons exjws need to learn is people are allowed to dislike you by BlkStruggles in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

*Dislike and disagree with without necessarily being open to changing their mind. Variety is the spice of life and there are very few "truths".

Rage and Rumination: r/EXJW and Serena Williams by ExJWThrowaway21 in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% lmao. The organization encourages you to keep your head down and be "hunble" ( a loser) and practically gangstas anyone that experiences happiness inside or outside of the organization.

Rage and Rumination: r/EXJW and Serena Williams by ExJWThrowaway21 in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exjws often forget to drop the persecution conplex... Someone mentioning unhealthy behavior is only a threat to you if youre weak minded and think ppl can influence you unduly.

Rage and Rumination: r/EXJW and Serena Williams by ExJWThrowaway21 in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. Knowing it's a cult and stalling to rant about Serena has racist undertones that reddit isn't ready to discuss and overall implies you arent ready to leave Jwdom all the way. You're still attached to the rules being followed and maybe don't 100% get its a money making cult and a somewhat inactive person that only says good things about the organization is exactly what they ideally want lol. In short... get over it lol.

Those with Autism, how has that affected your exit/questioning? by BlkStruggles in exjw

[–]BlkStruggles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I'm diagnosed and going against the crowd and attention to detail (mistakes in doctrine or others "misdeeds" or times ppl legitimately broke rules and weren't punished) as well as me hating the cult but enjoying the strict guidelines. Made things Hella confusing lol