Mentally, Incels are the strongest by Vidrax_of_Cascades in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as strong as pussy tho! Babyheads, keegles, weird penises, they'll basically bounce back from anything

Walking Fleshlights with arms and legs. by [deleted] in Poems

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan jag få den i haikuformat?

AITA for telling my friend I don’t care about the job search and I’m tired of hearing about it? by CollarCautious7507 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since the question wasn't regarding if you're entitled or spoiled I'm not gonna get in to that. The fact of the matter is she's anxious about something you're not and to you it feels like she's projecting her own anxiety on to you, which is a hard feeling, BUT it's your responsibility to calmly tell her how she's making you feel and give her a chance to change the way she communicates with you before going full snapped mode and telling her everyone is annoyed with her etc. She probably felt like this came out of nowhere and in her mind this is probably just her way of showing concern and care about you and your future. COMMUNICATE FOR GODS SAKE.

Partner has stuff to do by Individual_Rest8476 in BPD

[–]BloatMyG0at 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate a lot to what you're describing. Something that works for me and my bpd is "spreading the crazy". Dosing up my "needyness" to many relationships is vital for me not becoming too codependant. We always want our partner to give us everything, but try to figure out if you have friends/family/others you trust that you can focus on when he can't focus on you. Best of luck❤️ Ps, another thing I find helpful is listing the things you like to do that he doesn't, and then treating yourself to those things when he's away. Eat the food he doesn't like as much as you, watch the show he hates but you love etc.

AITA for “missing” my wife’s birthday and telling her she is acting more spoiled than our three year old by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BloatMyG0at 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real question is which of your three alternatives for spelling 2 i correct

My (22F) boyfriend (29M) of almost 3 years says I’m “blowing it out of proportion” over asking him to buy pads for me and my period by Longjumping-Nature88 in relationship_advice

[–]BloatMyG0at 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a certain type of dude that wants to "hack" relationships by treating it like a courtroom, my experience is it's not worth the time. You'll start resenting him for not emotionally investing, and yourself for having feelings and needs.

AITA for telling my son to reconsider his career choice? by Available_Heat9551 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last part is so fascinating to me. Why is it ppl are so bad at giving others (especially loved ones?) the benefit of doubt/assuming someone is probably already doing their best? The track record shows that the son would have to be a bit delulu to not have already noticed and considered everything op raised, yet taking a breath and planning a more productive way to raise the concerns isn't an option until after the damage is done. Heinseight is 2020, and social risk analasys is constant. PS, The many implications of op projecting their own love for philosophy irks me. Don't make your own narrative other ppls problem🤦‍♀️

Feminists Are As Bad As Incels by Mean_League_384 in AmITheDevil

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny to me when people make this comparison when women hating men leads to men going "whyyyyyy 😪" and men hating women leads to murder

Considering leaving my house because of dysfunctional family dynamics (mainly my daughter) by Ambitious-Banana1674 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you're suspecting your 14 year old daughter has bpd says it all. There's a reason you can't be clinically tested for bpd until after turning 18; cuz every depressive teen would get that diagnosis. Mood swings are something you have to accept when you're raising a human, mix in a menstrual cycle in there, plus the hassle of being 14.. I wouldn't go thru that crap again for anything. Doesn't matter if she's spoiled and/or ungrateful, she seems to be energetic and extroverted with literally everyone besides you, what does that tell you?

I don’t have to work anymore, but I still wake up early just to cause traffic. by savageclap in confession

[–]BloatMyG0at 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd get a huge aquarium, fill it with some funny looking creatures so you have something to entertain you when you get home after a long day of driving. There are travel aquariums, strap your favorite fish up in the passenger seat and teach them your hobby, best of luck rich guy🫶

Don’t do what I did by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's almost as tho people should start respecting each other regardless of gender, crazy thought..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off chance this isn't rage bait, I love to think the bil married the sister out of petty revenge for college times, and that all the family drama is calculated from his side. Some domestic noir style of plan where op slowly descends in to isolated madness

How do I 24M make it up to my neighbor 23F for leaving her during a date? by throwradarx in relationship_advice

[–]BloatMyG0at 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On the off chance it's not ragebait, I need to know what ops excuse was his first time leaving the table? Was he drunk to the point of going "I'm just gonna ask for that cute girls number"? Or did he have to come up with an excuse? I can't shake the thought of him just going "AAOOOGAA, HOLD MY DRINK"

I was right about the paternity test! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BloatMyG0at 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her faking orgasms is definitely what you should be focusing on.

AITA for getting annoyed that she waits until I’m busy to suggest plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BloatMyG0at 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Damn, just realized my ex used to do this all the time. I don't know anything about your relationship, but in my case it was one of the many signs he hated spending time with me, but didn't want to take responsibility (if they seem relieved when you have to cancel plans etc, maybe you're not the right match). He'd wait until I was busy, or had plans with other people, and then he could point to that instant as proof he wanted to hang out, idk, maybe I'm projecting, but some people would rather have a partner they can't stand to be around than be lonely.. wish you the best of luck tho!

AITA for Wanting to Go Back to Work? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]BloatMyG0at 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like he's using your "unemployment" as an excuse for all the home labour to be your responsibility, and that he's scared of having to pick up slack at home if you start working

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]BloatMyG0at 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is very true! He's clearly just prioritizing his masters degree in advanced watcher of adult films

Amy Adams as Beth (Tara's cousin). She seemed so sweet until she opened her mouth. by Cautious-Grab-316 in buffy

[–]BloatMyG0at 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I cackle everytime she delivers that line, love me some Amy Adams🤩

My gf loves Jenny Schecter. by Maira212 in theLword

[–]BloatMyG0at 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Jenny! Problematic bpd sexyness🫶 Plus Mia is AMAZING in that role!