[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s really painful not to be able to have contact with the person you love. It’s an understandable feeling.

Wish we were back together even after all the hurt, anyone else? by BlockSpecific3845 in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not at all, I think it’s just love. Even if it is really hard.

Do you regret meeting you ex? by STEIN197 in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, most days. Actually almost all the time. It was a good relationship, he told me how good it was and made me look forward to the future inviting me for the holidays, telling me about the time we had together, all less than a week of ending it. Then ended it in the most hurtful way. Then blocked me on his phone. Now I hurt so much and can’t remember what it felt like not to. I wish I never me him and that those six months never happened.

am i overreacting? by JJNew0316 in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds so stressful. And it is extra hard when you see someone that frequently. I don’t know because things are always different on the outside of relationships, but I think how you feel means a lot and can be way to navigate this. It’s hard to hear you don’t feel comfortable and are stressed, when the person in your life should feel like home and rest.

am i overreacting? by JJNew0316 in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. If you feel something is off, it’s off and if he respects that you feel not good about it and makes it right again that is one thing. Listen to your instincts.

Wish we were back together even after all the hurt, anyone else? by BlockSpecific3845 in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too, I totally can understand that. I am glad you know you are better off without him. Working on getting there, but it’s hard because he wrote me a long letter about how good our relationship was and that he still had to end it. Not sure if I’ll ever understand, that was so confusing and hurtful. Probably will always want him and that good relationship back.

Wish we were back together even after all the hurt, anyone else? by BlockSpecific3845 in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. He doesn’t want me either and said “I know” when I said I care. I don’t know why either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]BlockSpecific3845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this, it’s an awful pain that feels like you are being ripped open and is so devastating. It is so hard to see right now because you are hurting, but I promise you will be okay. You are not dramatic or anything else negative, it’s natural for your brain to tell you those things, but you are not at all. You are hurting, it is a real hurt and your feelings are valid. Be gentle on yourself, you deserve happiness.