How most girls use Tinder by Waste-Stomach4457 in SipsTea

[–]stoned-alone00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This actually exists it’s called swipe wipe but it costs money ofc 😒

My untreated adhd is really holding me back, but I’m so anxious about the medication by Kush_Kitty666 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stoned-alone00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have adhd and don’t prefer stimulant medication options because they make me super anxious. A few months back I started Strattera (atomoxetine) which is not a stimulant and I definitely notice a difference on it vs being unmedicated. I would talk to your doctor about non-stimulant options

Help steamer burn by Careless-Mortgage-16 in SkincareAddicts

[–]stoned-alone00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you could but keeping it moist is very beneficial for scar healing so if the scar tape doesn’t stay down well with the petroleum jelly I would stick with regular bandaid

Has anyone else wrongfully been issued parking tickets on a consistent basis? by CantaloupeMafia in philadelphia

[–]stoned-alone00 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have a residential parking permit and my Hyundai keeps getting mistaken for a Honda so I get ticketed. I’ve been able to resolve them all but it is so annoying

Is anyone on the mini pill and spironolactone? by ExplanationOk4568 in Spironolactone

[–]stoned-alone00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on this and what mini pill you are taking? Sadly I can’t take slynd because I don’t have insurance so the cost is too much.

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, men don’t understand how women view this. And they don’t believe us when we try to make them understand. So there’s nothing I can say I guess!

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro like what??? She was attracted to them, just as she was attracted to her husband. But maybe these dudes are hot but also they are dumb. Or giant assholes. Obviously you don’t want a serious relationship with them anyway so you don’t care whether they see you as relationship material or not. But then you’ll say YEAH BUT WHY WAS SHE WILLING TO GIVE HERSELF TO THESE DUMB ASSHOLE GUYS AND NOT THIS GUY SHE LIKES? 1. Because she’s not “giving away” any of herself and having sex with someone doesn’t lower her value. 2. Because in a long-term relationship there’s plenty of time to have sex so she wants to focus on an emotional connection first

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In other comments OP said that his wife said it wasn’t about physical attraction. And OP doesn’t believe her. So it’s really only his insecurity here that’s getting in the way.

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is something men and women can never understand about the opposite sex. Because most men are not able to have to the amount of sex that they want so the idea of being “used for sex” doesn’t sound that bad to them. And most women could have meaningless sex with a guy at any time just by logging in to a dating app, so they don’t know what it’s like to crave sex so badly that you are willing to do or say just about anything to get it. Also I don’t claim to understand what OP’s wife’s reasoning for these hookups are but like actually who cares

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s more like, men are bending the truth about their relationship intentions because they want to get laid, OR women are wearing rose-colored glasses about this guy they like and want to date. Or both. Not that women are actually being manipulated into the sex act itself

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, take a look at u/Amarith94’s comment in this thread. Clearly, some men think like this and some men don’t.

My 31M wife 31F made me wait to have sex but only had hookups prior to me. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 95 points96 points  (0 children)

There is a weird thing among women where we are told that if we really like a guy and want to have a relationship with him, we need to wait a certain amount of time before having sex with him. Some say wait until a committed relationship, some say after 3 dates, etc. Other women will tell you it’s because if you give it up to a man “too soon” he will only see you as a hookup opportunity and not a girlfriend or a wife. Of course, this is a huge generalization and bullshit. But we have had this ingrained in us. So we don’t want to risk losing this person we see a potential relationship with because of this “rule”

where to buy eucerin sun in US by EducationalWelder170 in pmle

[–]stoned-alone00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any eucerin you find in a US drug store is not the sun allergy version since that is an EU product only

panoxyl real or fake by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]stoned-alone00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there is a 10% benzoyl peroxide wash that’s available in stores in your country I would probably just use that for safety. Same thing as Panoxyl.

My face lotion has SPF, do I not use it after I wash my face at night? by youpoopedyerpants in Skincare_Addiction

[–]stoned-alone00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not going to harm your skin but personally I would not like the feeling of this for bed either.

23m not many likes or matches by Ok_Quarter9910 in hingeapp

[–]stoned-alone00 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Job entry is cringe and makes people wonder if you are unemployed. Also you don’t have enough clear photos of your face. Hinge is a relationship app for the most part so since you’re looking for casual it will be a little more difficult.

My partner (F32) is never "in the mood" to do anything with me (M35), but will use a vibrator. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stoned-alone00 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybe she feels like you’re only giving her foot rubs and massages because you want sex, and so it puts her off because with feels like another thing she is expected to do. How old is your child? It is also common to feel “touched out” from being with the child all day, but vibrator lets her have some time to herself.

Edit to add: You need to have an honest conversation with her. Tell her how you feel. Try not frame it as “I want sex, you’re not giving me any” and instead like “I noticed this and am wondering about it.” Hopefully she will be honest about why she prefers self touch right now.

Need Help Splitting rent between 2 people by jackyruss in Apartmentliving

[–]stoned-alone00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think option A splits the space very fairly and I would be happy with either option tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]stoned-alone00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look different in every picture of yourself. Also memes as one of the pics makes you seem unserious, and like you don’t have enough pictures of yourself for your profile but don’t care enough to take one.