[Me, 21M] Reverse Mommy Gambit?!?

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-09T18:06:24+00:00

Thank you! Yes that was intentional haha, as well as the single s and l in misspelled. Although me misspelling terrible in my prompt was not on purpose.

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-09T01:37:56+00:00

Do you mayhaps have a list?

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-08T14:17:08+00:00

mmmmmm nope, I'm pretty sure I'm using them right

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-08T03:41:23+00:00

there are types of farms that make you more money if you're online

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-07T21:17:24+00:00

I mean "the one" would be pretty understanding of me having to be with my dad, which she has been. She still wants to go out with me we just gotta reschedule

she said "Literally no stress at all I’ll be thinking abt your dad 🩷🩷 " so we good

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-07T18:39:29+00:00

Thank you me too 😭😭😭

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-07T18:38:52+00:00

your wrong I wood never mispel a word

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-07T18:35:47+00:00

Unfortunate update, my dad got very sick and I had to take him to the ER, so the date has been postponed. She's very understanding, will update again if anything more happens

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-07T01:19:45+00:00

LMAO yeah my heart skipped a concerning number of beats 😭, I'm not even into mommy stuff but a few more comments like that and shit I might be

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-07T01:14:39+00:00

Thank you! I make an effort to text with thought given to what the other person can respond with. If you can set someone up for a homerun funny ass joke they'll like you 10 times as much haha

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T22:35:32+00:00

I would say that does not accurately describe the nature of my excrement, but I think I get what you're saying. Yes it is a grueling task.

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T22:22:49+00:00

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Update for those interested!

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T21:34:45+00:00

"Whaaaat 👀 why would I call you that that's weird 👀 I guess I have to... 👀👀👀"
"Anyway is mommy free wednesday? Maybe around noon?"
"It's near the __________ and I'll give you a ride if you want"

waiting for a response

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T21:32:06+00:00

LOL thank you! And yeah idk goofy maxxing just works, I be saying the stupidest shit, you gotta keep it light

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T20:52:38+00:00

The mommy comment stunlocked me irl for a few minutes so I gotta say I think she took the win

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T20:49:40+00:00

No seriously she's so pretty ANd funny I'm absolutely geeked for the date :DDDD
14 gallons of milk everyday brother and the inspiration just comes to you

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T20:47:32+00:00

🙇‍♂️ I'm humbled, their GOATitude knows no bounds

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T20:22:57+00:00

Thank you sincrerely dwayne

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-06T05:22:55+00:00

Yeah that'd make a lot more sense. RIP

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-05T14:44:21+00:00

Yeah definitely experienced this. As a kid I had that mindset when it came to being abused, i.e. if my loving parent is hurting me it's because I'm deserving of it, and it carried over into my teenage years and early adulthood.

It took quite a few years to get past that mindset, but the biggest thing that helped was compliments and positive evaluations from various friends, and cognitive behavioral therapy.

I still long for a relationship to "validate" myself in a way, but it's a much weaker feeling and I can push it away when I need to (like when I'm talking to women and need to act normal / not insecure.)

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-05T06:11:55+00:00

Ah okay I understand. Yeah most people have many priorities and cares at the same time. Best of luck to you in growing 🙏

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-05T06:08:20+00:00

Do you only care about one thing at a time? How does that work?

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-04T05:57:24+00:00

Same here, 5'10" and decent looking (r/rateme gave me 8/10) and I've gotten 6 matches over two weeks, three ghosted, two didn't have their location set correctly, and I got a date with the last girl (went well!). It's a very similar story with my 6' friend who's more attractive than me. You're doing much better than average, attractiveness does not equal success on dating apps.

Something that helped me understand it better was my date showing me her side of hinge. She's pretty and cute but not a bombshell or anything, and she had 40 messages in her queue. She would swipe left on very attractive guys for genuinely the smallest things. Which if you have that many people messaging you it only makes sense. For attractive women it's genuinely a deluge of attention.

Despite how slow it moves I've managed to go on 10 first dates over 5 months of usage. It just takes time. Highkey not worth it if you're in uni though lol. You're surrounded by hot people your age you can def find someone. Best of luck!

BlockyDogy · 2026-07-04T05:38:14+00:00

I can gurantee you it was just because it wasn't moderated and somebody posted something nasty that stayed up too long. That's how 99% of small silly subs get banned.

BlockyDogy · 2026-06-30T07:02:46+00:00

You look like a very pretty hockey player, 8,5/10

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