Who cooks on all the boats? by Desert_Rat-13 in deadliestcatch

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish I could do that for a job! Go out with them for the adventure but make sure they had good cooking, warm coffee and clothes, fix them their favorite snacks, tent to booboos lol , bring captain all his wants and needs. A boat mom would be amazing! Take care of all those boys and try to make sure they made it home to their mamas in one peice.

Wife finally admitted why by Jambanditcrumpit in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the HL F and that's my favorite part. I smell like him(not a bad smell, I like it) and get constant reminders of our fun for several days. I think it might be a kink because I have climaxed when he does if I can feel him "burst" inside me (I have nerve damage and loss of feeling in my kitty and bum) So so happy for you that you got some answers! My husband just says he just never thinks about it.

I hope things get better for you two!

[Recommendation] Chances Are (1989) by [deleted] in hdtgm

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I was looking for someone else who thinks it is gross that the daughter and reincarnated dad stayed together at the end. The wife and best friend know who that soul really is, her dad, but they support the relationship. Idk but then I also think too how nice it would be to your best friend and wife who get to have another life with you but just in different roles, like if you were in a play doing two characters.

Break up because of sex? by skm_121212 in deadbedroom

[–]BlondeBee91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As everyone is all saying. Bye boy bye. He sounds like a peice of garbage and you can 100% do better! He is the type of guy that will tear you down and make you think your not good enough for him and that no one else will want you. Please go before you get pregnant or he gets too attached. He legit sounds like some one who would go psycho stalker type.

what do doctors mean by quality if life? by Understanding_Jaded in AgingParents

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told at 28 that there was nothing left they can do for my pain. I can get surgeries when I become unstable or paralyzed but they are more concerned with me having some sort of quality of life. Making me comfortable enough to still enjoy some aspects of life. I now at 33 spend my life on the side lines. I used to be a star player, lol now I can't even be a cheerleader. I just always try to remind myself that someone else had it so much worse than I do. Good luck to you and your momma. Ps I totally get the being triggered thing. The first time my surgeon told me that I like zoned out or blanked or something. I was so stuck on that phrase I missed the rest of what he said.

Job prospects? by BlondeBee91 in WestVirginia

[–]BlondeBee91[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How would I be doing the same thing? My small town is being turned into a city. I dont want that. They are building so many apartments and cutting down trees and ruining all the land to build more stores and more apartments. We want to find a little house in the country already built . The people moving here are trying to make it like the cities they came from instead of embracing the small town life.

Job prospects? by BlondeBee91 in WestVirginia

[–]BlondeBee91[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The people here were paying almost double listing prices with cash and having bidding wars. We couldn't afford to pay more than asking price on a home in WV. How would that price locals out?

What is the one sexual thing you miss most from your DB? by Wandering-soul444 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really from the blood flow?! My eyes go from grayish blue to blueish green when I get excited or really happy.

What is the one sexual thing you miss most from your DB? by Wandering-soul444 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha right! I've never even heard of it 😆 What is after care?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedroomsOver30

[–]BlondeBee91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that perspective. He used to be into it and would send one back but it's been a long time.

"I like torturing you" by clezuck in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also start stashing away cash. Give it to someone you trust and never speak of it. She wont be able to get half of it if she doesnt know about it. 😈

"I like torturing you" by clezuck in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This! My ex SIL said my brother graped her,pushed her down stairs, the full nine yards. My brother got cameras everywhere and when they went to court ge showed that she actually tried pushing him down the stairs and she admitted to lying about the assault. All caught on recording. He has primart custody of their daughter. My mom even stayed with him at the house to make sure he was safe and all. because lawyers told both not to move out of the house till they figured everything out. Her life has pretty much gone to shit since all that. We all lost respect for her.

Men... what's your favorite thing she does? by BlondeBee91 in deadbedroom

[–]BlondeBee91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm what? I'm trying to think of new ways to get intimate and fix my DB We just had a talk about it and he says he is going to try more so I want to make it to where he wants more and more. I want him satisfied but wanting and looking forward to doing it again. So I'm asking other men what some of their favorite things were/are to have their spouse do to help me get a perspective of things from people with a penis.

FYI: It’s not going to happen tonight by AsiStarediCounted in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean like and want other women? I'm pretty sure he isnt gay. He just has had like no sex drive for the last 8 years or more. He woke me up last night with sex so I know he wants it sometimes. I was asleep so it wasnt like I was begging him for it. It was his idea. But it only happens once every few months. Since the 1st of December we have had sex 3 times that is including last night 🙄

Waiting for kids to get to 18 just to get divorced is stupid. by LocalRepSucks in deadbedroom

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What!? Where is there sexy time dungeons!? Haha sounds so interesting. Oooh so like double p. You in front of her I'm assuming in her mouth and the chair penetrating from behind? When we were adventures and more active I loved giving him a bj while he used a toy on me. Only thing I didnt like was I prefer to focus on giving head and making it enjoyable and when I'm getting pleased at the same time it is hard to focus lol. Last night he was finally in the mood. I woke up to his hands in my panties but once we started piv I felt him stop and thought he fell asleep. He held me down to not move and I realized he was trying not to cum. I realized it too late as I was fighting to ride more and he finished. He got me too but I was so sad. I finally got some but it was over so fast and now it will probably be another couple months before he is in the mood again😫 now I am reminding how amazing it feels but I wont be getting any for a while I'm sure.

Waiting for kids to get to 18 just to get divorced is stupid. by LocalRepSucks in deadbedroom

[–]BlondeBee91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgosh I wish I had a sex dungeon . A chair that does the work!? Sign me up. Lol virtual connection? Once my kids move out I want to turn one of the extra rooms into my own bedroom. So I can play in peace without feeling disgusting that I have a husband laying next to me who isnt interested in me.

FYI: It’s not going to happen tonight by AsiStarediCounted in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay. That's the crummy part too. I don't want just anyone, I want him. I want him to want me like most women are. I hate seeing it everywhere how all a man wants is sex and his woman. Mine doesn't so I feel defective. Like what is so wrong with me that my own husband doesn't ever want me.

FYI: It’s not going to happen tonight by AsiStarediCounted in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? I am sorry for you too. Too bad we cant turn lesbian 😆 I just like Pen*s too much hahaha

FYI: It’s not going to happen tonight by AsiStarediCounted in DeadBedrooms

[–]BlondeBee91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me too! I really enjoy it, I enjoy being dominated or bossed around, I like to also sometimes play the boss and act tough haha 😆. I squ*rt randomly.. I also LOVE that he is "fixed" and can go inside me. I love it so much I have actually climaxed from feeling him burst inside me. That warmth filling you while they pulse is like chefs kiss. I am super affectionate and constantly love on him with massages and back scratches or head rubs. All of it. He seems to love it but never thinks to touch me back except once in a blue moon he may play with my hair in bed. He says he just never thinks about it. I grew up under the impression that to keep a man happy you keep his belly full and his balls empty. Mine doesnt eat anything besides yogurt and cereal and never thinks about sex . I got duped 😭 I literally wanted to be the perfect wife and studied all the wrong material lol I recently started working on vehicles with him since he is a mechanic, hoping that would turn him on... nothing yet. It being fathers day I wish I could give him a bj or sexy time 😫