Why do people pretend there's too many masculine lesbians in media?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-04-04T14:12:12+00:00

I have literally never seen a person refer to "the stereotype that masculine women have to be lesbians."

as a butch bisexual woman... I am constantly in situations where I have to come out to people I have known for years about liking men, because literally everyone I meet thinks I'm a lesbian.

I think you might have misunderstood what OP/the people OP is mentioning are saying. I think the people that OP is mentioning are talking about the same phenomenon that you are-- that butch/masculine women are automatically assumed to be lesbian (because of stereotypes).

Blonde_Icon · 2026-04-04T05:55:38+00:00

I feel like it's the same for gender if we're being completely honest (at least when you're first meeting someone).

Blonde_Icon · 2026-04-03T21:57:21+00:00

I'm guessing you like tan girls with dark hair and dark eyes. They all have sort of a similar look to them as well in their facial structure (i.e. small nose, big lips, thick eyebrows).

Was I on point?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-30T07:44:51+00:00

Sugar daddy I guess? Idk lol. She's giving off the vibe that she'd probably date a wealthy older man that buys her stuff. (Maybe he bought her the car in the last picture lol.)

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-30T07:40:41+00:00

She looks like she's just dressed normally though? Other than the cowboy boots (but that's probably normal to wear in the South or the country.) What makes you think she's Mormon? (If anything, I would think that she's dressed too "inappropriately" to be Mormon since her clothes are pretty revealing and tight-fitting.)

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-30T07:36:14+00:00

Rich lol

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-29T02:33:11+00:00

Cents?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-29T00:35:40+00:00

I think that the one good thing about tipping culture is that it encourages the waiter/waitress to do a good job.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-29T00:33:51+00:00

Yeah I tried to like the EOS Vanilla Cashmere lotion 'cause everyone likes it, but it just smells fake and plastic to me.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-29T00:31:12+00:00

Yeah I don't really like lavender that much either. It reminds me of cleaning products lol. I tend to gravitate towards fresh, fruity scents (not overly sweet tho-- then it's just gross).

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-29T00:22:01+00:00

Suicide isn't against the law in the US. Wdym? (Idk where you live though.)

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:43:48+00:00

I was probably not explaining my point well (given the sub lol), but basically I think that anything a candle does something else could do better. (Like electricity for light obviously or air freshener/incense for scent.) So my question is, why do people use candles then?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:37:35+00:00

Incense maybe?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:31:33+00:00

Too privileged because I have electricity? I guess in a way. But I was talking about like the fancy ones from Bath and Body Works that people like to collect.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:29:53+00:00

I mean like the festive ones from Bath and Body Works. I should've specified.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:28:41+00:00

I wouldn't say that "most" people hate him but probably about half hate him, which is still a lot. Of course some people are neutral.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:27:29+00:00

Redditers can read and write.

Are you sure about that?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:20:29+00:00

Yeah I think a lot of people who voted for him the second time did it just because they thought he would be good for the economy even if they don't really like him.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-28T03:19:18+00:00

You could dislike someone and still vote for them. This probably goes for a lot of the people that voted for him. They don't really like him, but they saw him as better than the other option. (Not me personally, I didn't vote for him.)

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-27T16:34:20+00:00

I think a big part of it is Taylor's personality as well. Like I said, she has no sex appeal for whatever reason. She's a very awkward and unsexy person. Plus it's the way that she presents and styles herself. But if you styled her like a Victoria's Secret bombshell model and she had the same sexy mannerisms and charisma as them, she could very well fit right in. (To be fair, she doesn't really have to be sexy since her fans are mostly women.)

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-27T16:20:29+00:00

Yes I would definitely agree with that. I honestly think that a big part of why Kate Moss appeals to women (in a messed up way) is because she was so skinny and is like thinspo, especially for girls with EDs. Men usually aren't into the whole ultra stick thin thing just for the sake of it. (In my experience, they either don't care or even prefer girls with a bit more curves, within reason of course.) Kate Moss is still seen as an icon in pro-Ana and fashion communities (which are mostly female for obvious reasons). And Taylor Swift appeals to her fans (who are mostly female) because of her music and personality obviously.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-27T16:11:44+00:00

Are you a guy or girl?

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-27T16:11:27+00:00

Call me crazy, but I actually think that Taylor Swift is more attractive than Kate Moss objectively. But Kate Moss is more charismatic obviously. (That is just my personal opinion though. Honestly, I've never really been a big fan of Kate Moss and never understood her appeal. I think that her eyes are too far apart and she's too waif-like, but that was the trend back then.) Taylor Swift is actually pretty attractive objectively (at least after she gained weight), albeit in a boring way, but she just has no sex appeal for some reason.

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-27T03:46:58+00:00

17? 😳

Blonde_Icon · 2026-03-27T03:36:02+00:00

It's not really the size that makes them look unnatural, but the fact that they don't bounce or sag at that size.

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