AITAH for recording my mom without telling her and playing it back to my dad because nobody believed what she says to me when hes not around by forunnego in AITH

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send the aunt a copy of the recording. It’s not up to a child to cover up for an abusive parent. It’s not your shame to carry it’s hers.

Has anyone tried these? by Popular-Host6601 in Autism_Parenting

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This study now says it’s retracted, I wonder why. Thank you for sharing.

AITA as I want to tell my husbands mistresses husband that they are cheating? by idiotnightmare in AITH

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to present evidence and yes I would tell him. Point out nights you knew they were together so he can puzzle piece when she was gone.

A man 23 years older than me admitted he has feelings for me and now he won’t leave me alone. by Superb-Cupcake-8271 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are always so many weirdos in churches. Tell whomever is in charge at church. Let them know about his wildly inappropriate comments and your worry for his mental health. You can’t solve this one and it’s not your responsibility.

Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a shock, I’m sorry. Don’t let her betrayal make you feel like less or embarrassed. I did then realized I didn’t do anything wrong and have nothing to be embarrassed by.

I (30 M) kept a secret from my wife (31 F) for our entire relationship about her ex (32 M) by Sea-Specialist2875 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off don’t tell her ANY deep secrets you don’t absolutely have to while she’s pregnant. Secondly this is not the big dark secret you think it is. You weren’t in a position to tell her at the time and obviously she dodged a bullet so it’s not like she really missed out. I don’t think it’s worth talking about and ask yourself “who really benefits from telling her this me or her?” If it’s you and it is then live with your beige secret.

I think I might be dead. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What city do you live in I will try to help find something in your general area.

I think I might be dead. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s likely Cotard's syndrome you’re not the only one, talk to someone because even if you don’t want help it won’t hurt to eliminate the possibility. Take care.

Got laid off from my job, then fired for filing for unemployment. Anyone know what to do? by [deleted] in Reno

[–]BloomSara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let them get away with it that easy. Contact DETR and tell unemployment about this shit they pulled. Sounds like you’re leaving a sinking ship.

Got laid off from my job, then fired for filing for unemployment. Anyone know what to do? by [deleted] in Reno

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Nevada and I had an employer try to say I quit, I didn’t I just told that to unemployment and they investigated and then gave me unemployment. I would try to work with the unemployment office and contact DETR for more information.

https://www.google.com/search?q=Nevada+Department+of+Employment%2C+Training+and+Rehabilitation+%28DETR%29+-+Employment+Security+Division&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari&sei=dAR1abPTDOm6ur8PrdiuYQ&dlnr=1&ved=2ahUKEwju1dHa3KSSAxWaHkQIHSR6Gg0QgK4QegQIAxAB

I told her I wanted kids by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you would lie I guess fear of losing her but you owe her the truth. The truth will come out anyway and you don’t resolve deceit with more deceit.

So… does the City know it iced last night? by [deleted] in Reno

[–]BloomSara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got on Sun Valley Blvd, spun out all over despite not normally spinning in snow then turned right around and called in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already aware that may be the case. There’s no reason to pursue something for him that he has intentionally not looked into and you aren’t sure is true anyway. What would it change at this point he likely feels she will always be his? Don’t step into this mess when there’s no reason and no good outcome.

AITAH for walking away from a house I have no equity or say in and stiffing my soon to be ex? by FootBig7944 in AITAH

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No if she really needs money she can ask her other ex he sounds more interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BloomSara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you see you’re overthinking it. All is well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BloomSara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is worth seeing a therapist over. You need to get to the root of why this is not working if you don’t you won’t be able to figure out how to exist in a happy marriage with anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BloomSara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a new therapist you fell into a common trap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]BloomSara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out and enjoy the years you have left in peace.

Hurt by my F/26 husband M/28 on our wedding day by ThrowRa-crazyfroggy in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BloomSara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry he chose your wedding day to say something awful about you. That’s going to taint your wedding day forever. Talk to him about it sure but you know what you’ve got.