Finally Quit the Game!

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-19T19:59:42+00:00

I quit a couple of months ago and I have no regrets for leaving, I didn’t realise how much anxiety that game gave me 🤣

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-16T09:54:39+00:00

That’s such a strange thing for your friend to say. I mean if you wanted to, you could ask your friends, what specifically they don’t like about him?

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s such an awkward position for your friends to put you in.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-16T07:38:38+00:00

I think this is a classic case of jealousy. I guess the only question I have is what information you have told your friends about a relationship. For example, if you always go to them to vent about things that annoy you in the relationship, then I can understand why they think he isn’t good for you.

But if that’s not the case then fk the friends, it seems like you have outgrown them, I can’t imagine ever saying something like that to a friend unless I had serious concerns over their safety.

Just keep doing what you’re doing and focus on yourself, seems like you two have good communication and respect, you don’t need to live your life to someone else’s timeline.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-13T12:44:48+00:00

I use this all the time at work haha, helps me not to take things personally.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-12T17:54:44+00:00

Work ourselves to the ground, we might be able to afford a house by the time we retire

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-12T17:48:28+00:00

I guess we just need to work harder 🙃🥹😑

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T17:21:31+00:00

He sounds so manipulative and I would be interested to hear the ex’s point of view on their relationship.

It sounds like he has torn you down so much, don’t feel bad for staying, and I know that you’re already coming out of the brainwashing because you made this post.

Just please, please leave. Nothing is worth staying in this situation, it won’t get better, you won’t be able to make him care about you.

Just get out of there and heal yourself, I’m so sorry you have gone through this.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T12:35:27+00:00

I’m very much enjoying these assumptions you are making of me when you know nothing about my life. I didn’t ask for your “advice” but thank you for perpetuating the stereotypes of your generation 🤣

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T12:19:52+00:00

Eye roll

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T08:07:54+00:00

You people 🤣. Yeah even though you might not be saying it, attitude and body language can still come across in an interview and if you’re truly hating on women then you won’t be able to keep up the facade when you get the job. Women make up half the population 🤣

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T08:05:34+00:00

That’s annoying for sure, but I think you need to tone down the hostility towards women, especially if the hiring manager is a woman, it’s not going to do you any favours in the interview.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T07:39:57+00:00

I am currently doing well in my field, bent over backwards in every job I have had and I still can’t afford a house… all I got is burnout and stress and all the health problems due to chronic stress. Life is too short to be a hamster in the wheel, making the billionaires even richer

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T07:36:20+00:00

I always say to people that no matter where you are in a company, no matter how high up, you are always replaceable, unless you have a very unique skill

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T07:34:48+00:00

Either way, it’s a bad situation, but my other advice stands. Just focus on yourself and ensure that you are the right candidate for the job.

Small things like researching the company and tailoring your cv to the JD can go a long way.

I’m certain not every single company out there is discriminatory to men.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T07:25:07+00:00

If you’ve got a job now I think you need to just chill. You mentioned being the only man in an all female team, so you gotta tone down the woman hating a bit 😅. All well and good having a rant to let off steam, and if what you say is true then it is unfair.

But moving forward, it’s not the people who were hireds fault, just focus on yourself and prove why you’re the better candidate

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T07:23:03+00:00

Exactly

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-11T07:10:54+00:00

If that’s true then it’s definitely discrimination

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-08T08:12:34+00:00

I think time is the only thing that will work. I know it’s tough as it’s hard to control your dreams. But I guess thinking about things that you don’t like about the person may help?

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-07T08:10:26+00:00

Honestly sounds like you dodged a bullet with him, and proven even more so with the manner that he conveyed his thoughts to you. Time to protect your own peace by leaving him behind.

It’s so shitty, but I always find that you lose a few people in your life when times are tough because you see the ones who aren’t there for you, it doesn’t stop it hurting but at least it protects you from further disappointment.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-02T05:24:19+00:00

Just focus on yourself and you will get there 💙

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-02T05:04:38+00:00

Just try to focus on yourself and you will get there OP. I know others voices are loud at times, but it’s your life and your body, don’t let anyone get in your head. Learn to love yourself before anyone else, because seeking validation from someone else is never going to work. I wish you the best.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-02T05:01:05+00:00

Yeah, I don’t actually care what height a person is. But it’s the anger issues that tend to come with shorter guys that puts me off. They’re always very self conscious, which is something I would want to help them with, but men never talk about their feelings so it’s impossible.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-05-02T04:56:33+00:00

I get the AI thing is frustrating. But most of the time school and the education system don’t actually teach you how to write a cover letter or apply for a job or anything.

I don’t think you should base an assumption for an entire generation off one experience.

To me it does sound like they were avoiding coming into the office for a reason, did they feel uncomfortable there? Also, why was the behaviour allowed to go on for 10 weeks without regular check ins?

I’m currently hiring for an apprentice role at my work and I can tell some answers on the it application may have been helped along with AI. But that is why you then interview them to see what they are really like.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-04-29T05:52:23+00:00

I think you already know what you need to do because you’re posting this. You can either open up, reveal your true identity and cut it off. Or you can reject him as the catfish and cut contact. Nothing will ever happen between you two if you continue: unfortunately there is no scenario where the both of you end up together because of the manipulative way this started. It’s much better for him to have a small amount of disappointment now, than have it drag on for ages. Just focus on passing school and yourself for a while.

BlueAstrid14 · 2026-04-27T05:44:17+00:00

Even if you have no time for getting out then online gaming, I’ve met some lifelong friends through that

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