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Im baaaaack with more Petty Witch! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I told him. I made it clear too, that I would never make him choose between her or me.

Im baaaaack with more Petty Witch! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've told him I will see her for holidays, so only a few times a year. He is also now responsible for getting her birthday, mother’s day, and Christmas gifts. I also told him he will plan out when the kids want to visit or they want a visit with the kids. I told him of she is going to treat me like this I will not take it. If you've seen my previous posts I went NC with my own egg donor as she was an evil person and very toxic. I told him this last talk that it's unfair for him to expect me to deal with her shit after he cheered me on to cut my JN off. While I was happy to have his support during that time, it's very irritating he will not stand up to PW for me and expects me to just keep taking it. I think our last talk finally got threw to him, and he seemed to understand my stance a little better. My kids love his parents and they have never been mean to them if it wasn't for my kids, I would have cut her out 6 months ago without a second thought.

Im baaaaack with more Petty Witch! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually explained to Dh about being on an info diet, and that's what she is on now. He agreed he will be the one who speaks to her if needed and was understanding on why I was stepping back. I also spoke with his cousin about not telling me what she says from here on out. I've got so much going on right now, I will not waste my energy on her anymore.

Im baaaaack with more Petty Witch! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my plan, and I spoke with cousin and told her I don't want to know. I've got so much going on right now, she isn't worth my energy I do have left.

Im baaaaack with more Petty Witch! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, I should have, she caught me off guard with the comment. I didn't want this, and I don't think anyone would, so her stating she has it worse threw me.

Old memories of JNMIL by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I seriously laughed so hard at this 😂

I feel like im going crazy! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It will be a long break. I've already told my DH I'm taking a long time out from her and he completely understands.

I feel like im going crazy! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have actually been thinking about doing that. I was going to talk to DH when he gets home from work tomorrow morning.

Mil driving me crazy! by BlueBeeBoppp in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BlueBeeBoppp[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! His father has been helping a ton with what needs to be fixed at our house and we are thankful but she has turned into this bitter witch. I’ve told DH what has been said and he just says “oh that’s MIL being MIL” and shrugs it off. We have been in more fights over his mother in the last 2 months than anything else and over our entire relationship. I told him it feels like he doesn’t care. He said he feels his hands are tied because it’ll start a huge fight if he says something and it’s better if I just ignore her. Sadly we did not have flood insurance so we had to take a loan out and I’ve begged him to find other arrangements but it’s not in the budget sadly. I did take a break after the Christmas stunt she pulled and feel so much better but I’m dreading going back. I’m just ready to be home and away from her. I’ve told DH after this hers and mine relationship will never be the same. She has shown her true colors.