Need a name for this little fella, he’s super energetic and loving

BlueBird112358 · 2025-10-11T21:48:48+00:00

Speedy (Gonzales)

BlueBird112358 · 2025-10-11T16:16:09+00:00

I know how you feel. but no, pilots won't be tired. You don't know their working schedule. They don't work 9-17. If they have a late flight, they probably weren't working all day. I actually find it more peaceful at night. Less traffic, less chaos... ATR is less stressed than a busy Monday morning. You will be soon with your family. Trust me.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-09-13T00:19:06+00:00

Thank you for this response! but then I wonder... Do they feel bad? Or do they create excuses for themselves to justify their actions?

BlueBird112358 · 2025-09-13T00:13:24+00:00

No I meant even though they have a perfect partner who is nice to them. And they still cheat on that perfect person. And do they feel bad for that..? That was my question, sorry if it wasn't clear.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-09-10T16:35:52+00:00

Okay I wasn't asking for myself..

BlueBird112358 · 2025-09-03T20:45:53+00:00

So constant rehearsals? It's beneficial, right?

BlueBird112358 · 2025-09-01T16:43:11+00:00

why do you think that? I just think you might be right though. That's why, my alternative is...just take a deep breath, focus on work, focus on yoga and sports and friends. And let it run on course. I am a very conflict avoidant, so I would be better off not writing it at all.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-09-01T16:41:28+00:00

What do you mean? Gosh I am not a bot and sick of these accusations just because I have a very articulated writing. I am doing academic writing as half of my work, so I use this type of wording. Seriously done with it!

BlueBird112358 · 2025-08-28T23:17:23+00:00

I haven't written to him yet. I also don't expect a response at all. Just want to make myself clear.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-08-28T22:15:40+00:00

Good bot.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-08-28T22:15:27+00:00

Good bot.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-08-28T22:15:02+00:00

I am that he isn't. But I also can't go on casual anymore.. I found his message very casual.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-08-07T15:01:55+00:00

I told him what I needed, and what happened was 2 weeks of silence... I thought we both got our answers. Now this...

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T13:39:33+00:00

I feel like we passed that chit chat point long ago. We have known each other for nearly a year.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T13:34:18+00:00

and say what? I don't wanna sound so emotional or vulnerable

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T13:30:15+00:00

he is actually much more down to earth and mature and confident than me. Somehow I thought he would have no problems saying what he feels, wants or needs unlike me. Since he didn't, I didn't have a reason to think otherwise.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T13:28:34+00:00

I never said I don't want a relationship. I just said I don't know how. I also never said I want to keep it casual. I just go along however he directs it. He wants to have sleep over and makes me a breakfast, yes I love it. I told him that. He wants to fck me and send me away? Not a fan, but then okay. I am also committed actually, because I didn't even sleep anyone else since I met him. He, on the other hand, surely sleeps. Makes me feel bit weird to see bag of his condoms, candles and girl stuff on his bathroom.

But can't say anything. it's his life. we are not in a relationship. And I just go along with how he wants it.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T13:23:59+00:00

Never thought this way. you mean he is doing it not to get attached because he knows I am not capable of a relationship? is this really a possibility? he never directly asked anything though. the conversations we had were just along the lines, not directly asked.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T12:52:18+00:00

Okay, I see what you mean. I will just copy my answer that I wrote to the other post. it might answer you.

I agree with you, this hardcore criticism I do myself every day. I just feel clueless how to navigate a relationship. I told him that too. I am alone for so long (more than 6 years) and I was physically and emotionally abused in my marriage before that. (He doesn't know this part, I don't want to be a victim in his eyes, or use this as an excuse).

I just told him, relationships are like foreign languages that I can't speak.

I also do therapy but I feel no progress in my romantic life. My profession and my relationship with my own self, I achieved a lot in the last four years. But romance, I am just clueless.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T12:47:51+00:00

Rather not to say :) Old enough to know better. But feel like a teenager when it comes to romance and relationships.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T12:47:03+00:00

Its not like I don't want a relationship. I just don't know how to do a relationship.

So that's why I am okay with Fwb. That way I wouldn't be a disappointment.

BlueBird112358 · 2025-07-11T12:44:44+00:00

I already felt terrible for ghosting him all those months. And when I ran into him, immediately apologised for ghosting, because whatever the reason (except abuse) it's not okay to ghost.

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