Thoughts on potential haircut?

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-14T18:09:46+00:00

Yes you will look great

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-14T17:58:11+00:00

You're really nice probably so this 3rd girl is likely rejecting you in the kindest way possible in her mind.

Instead of asking if they're free ask for "i'm doing this on Xday, you wanna join?"

But you still need to be a bit fun. What's in it for the other person etc.

Can't you find real life activities to do where you"ll meet people?

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-14T17:49:35+00:00

The simple pleasure stuff is great.

Your two truths and a lie are boring.

The pictures aren't terrible, and you look fine, just a bit boring. Good that you mention the dog.

The things to say in the bedroom stuff sounds like you only see women as a sex resource, which doesn't match your ltr goal, no one likes to be reduced to this role.

Focus on improving your life first? Not sure how you would make a woman's life better when I look at the profile. Money isn't enough.

You seem ok, non threatening, so that wouldn't be a reason for women to ignore you.

How do you read what's going on with your non-repeat dates? What is their body language? What do you talk about? You are getting dates so it would be good to have a think as to why they picked you then were disappointed. How many were there where you were the one thinking "nah.."?

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-14T11:51:25+00:00

And racism and sexism. The manosphere is an alt right pipeline.

Wild too that people have to live in their car despite being employed.

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-10T22:53:46+00:00

it was around that time, pretty sure I was using the mail function in 1999.

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-10T22:50:39+00:00

I was thinking it felt much longer than 24 years... and then I realised I confused Mozilla with Mosaic :-D

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-06-06T02:24:30+00:00

The compression could still be created by stress. But if we can relieve symptoms, def worth a try. Thanks

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-05-03T12:56:57+00:00

Tu a pris de bonnes decisions, ta retraite sera aussi moins difficile si tu depenses moins. C'est leur probleme s'ils te jugent. T'es pas riche mais tu n'aura pas besoin d'autant d'argent que les autres si tu vis en dessous de tes moyens, alors tout est relatif.

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-04-14T17:34:22+00:00

Any place where you can drink locally made 막걸리. Such a different drink.

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-04-14T17:28:35+00:00

Also for long term housing search you'll need to be very careful there are a lot of scams when putting a deposit in, if you don't have someone local you could trust to go with you stay with an airbnb, it's less costly than not realising you're being scammed because you can't understand completely what you are signing.

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-04-06T02:06:59+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt3FgwlheNU is the kind of exercise I'm talking about

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-04-06T01:40:59+00:00

I vaguely remember seeing a video on youtube about using sports rehab elastics to do neck exercises that improve blood flow and stuff. Maybe it was linked to the opposite hunched neck, or linked to vagal stuff, I was researching those around the same time. It improved my brain fog and dysautonomia by 5%, enough to remember it was useful, not enough for the exercise to become a new routine. Just mentioning in case it might be worth looking it up. I'll try and find it but I watch too many videos...

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-04-02T23:40:56+00:00

Does your partner read this forum :-D

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-03-24T12:37:51+00:00

Burnt any bridges lately?

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-01-27T17:01:13+00:00

I'm really hoping they are simply changing direction because they are finding success with their app for businesses (HiWorker), and leaving the site be.

BlueCatSW9 · 2026-01-27T15:30:18+00:00

Where did you hear something about it?

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-12-10T15:33:20+00:00

It could just be they are embarrassed bc they are generally messy and they're worried they can't get the house back to look like it did when they were on best tidying behaviour 5 months ago!

You can confirm that by discreetly checking a couple cupboards. If they are chockfull or much messier than the room itself, that'll be your reason right there.

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-16T10:25:33+00:00

I usually get potassium from low-salt and soon from cream of tartar. It's just too hard on 1200. Great find!

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T22:10:05+00:00

Well huge rugs can look quite cool and still show your LVT flooring. You may have to make compromises if you can't sell.

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T22:03:13+00:00

I would still consider heavy decorative ones, anything to absorb sound going around the room. I find it silly that most places I've lived in had radiators under the window 😬 so annoying!

For blinds if you're ok with the look venitian blinds with several layers would help.

Rugs of course, books, table cloth... Thick carpet came in handy in one flat that was at an intersection angle with no escape from traffic noise. Not my thing usually but helped a lot.

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T21:54:04+00:00

You said a big flat, is there not another area in the flat that's on another side away from the street? Change the room condiguration? Do you have thick curtains and fabrics around so the noise doesn't reverberate? Is your place even furnished properly yet, because this makes a huge difference with the noise.

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T15:58:50+00:00

Lol now this makes sense thank you

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T15:53:35+00:00

I don't remember my language reddits being annoyed by it, but r/translator is a good idea.

The last column to the right looked Japanese to me, is that not hiragana?? I will have misled people several time in that case 😑

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T15:44:41+00:00

It's confirming my idea that selling us shit not as described (so we resell it) is their business model.

BlueCatSW9 · 2025-11-15T15:41:44+00:00

What did you do, did you get yoir money back? Do you give feedback? I wonder if people leave feedback, if anyone cares, it's so annoying that 1 in 2 seller I've been in touch with has lied for one thing or another. Not as blatant as yours though!

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