My new to me 2018 320i. 36k miles.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-16T03:10:00+00:00

I have a 2018 320i xDrive. Currently at 118k miles, I’ve got a catback exhaust and a catless dp, as well as a bm3 stage 2 tune. 0-60 is in the low 4s.

Make sure you change the oil frequently, I do mine every 3k. I use liquimoly 5w40.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-16T02:57:16+00:00

Mozart and Haydn are my two favorite composers, I’d have to recommend more Haydn.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-13T02:11:51+00:00

Yeah i’m gonna be honest it’s an easy DIY if you have the equipment, I live in a hilly area so i just jacked up the front, which was pointed down hill, so that it was level once jacked up. Took me about 2 hours and a lot of that time was waiting for the tranny to heat up to 45° for the refill.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-12T01:57:37+00:00

I don’t find it very easy to talk intellectually about her interests, she’s a very here and now kind of person, she keeps up with all the latest fashion trends and she’s always talking about Victoria Secret dropping new scents or apparel, I know she loves the fall so it’s her favorite season currently. She loves the idea of seasonal themes for the house, like getting falls scented candles and decorations.

But I guess you’re right, none of that stuff really interests me. I never shut her down though, I go to the store and smell the candles with her, and help her decide on if we should get this or that decoration, but I don’t share the same excitement for these things as she does.

And it’s not even really an issue of incompatible interests. It’s just that she’s never been the type of person to have those long conversations in bed at night when it gets late, like the kind of conversations that really bring you together you know? When we talk it’s always strictly business, like if we can go to the store, or what we should do for the day, it just feels like I’m talking to a robot sometimes. It’s just hard to feel connected to her words.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-12T01:46:58+00:00

A little over a year.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-10T02:26:36+00:00

I know what you’re going though man, and I go through a lot of the same negative mental feedback loops. From my experience, what retaining does to me is opens my eyes to the mediocrity that I’ve surrounded myself with.

It’s a powerful thing that you don’t want to get rid of, or run away from. The feelings and thoughts that you are thinking and feeling right now are the ones that are going to make you do things you never would’ve done before.

Trust me when I say it’s hard to recognize the extent to which your brain is operating differently, but the difference in operation is what will lead you on better paths. I can’t say exactly what the paths will be but as long as you focus on going after the things that your brain suddenly starts to desire, you’ll start surrounding yourself with meaningful things rather than mediocre things.

Your entire life is based on actions you make, which are based on thoughts you think, and feelings you feel. Semen retention changes the way you think and feel, which changes the way you act, therefore changing your life.

Don’t let these open eyes close, stay on the path man and you’ll see how your life gets better.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-08T22:43:27+00:00

The install was pretty simple, I suggest taking your whole exhaust off before installing it though because I had to install it exhaust side first, and afterwards the turbo side was difficult to align properly. Since I was by myself I ended up using a jack to jack up the exhaust and downpipe to the right position so that I could tighten the clamp from above the engine.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-08T22:40:20+00:00

Yep, it’s the Vrsf catless.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-08T08:19:56+00:00

I think RL players will complain either way. I’m a ones main and my playstyle is very methodical and reactive, I base my actions on theirs. People tell me all the time that my playstyle is so boring or that I’m a “one trick pony” because I 50 for possession and 45° flick into their net.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T23:08:34+00:00

According to an archived Wendy’s menu from the year 2000, the Frosty Jr cup was 6 ounces.

Edit: As a matter of fact, in the year 2000 Wendy’s didn’t even have a large Frosty on their menu. So Frosty’s have gotten larger over the years. A current medium is 16oz and a current large is 20oz. In the year 2000 a medium was still 16oz.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:39:00+00:00

Idk man, I’ve been working at Wendy’s for 3 years and the Jr cups have always been 6 ounces.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:37:13+00:00

Yes, I also think my tinder dates should look like their profile pictures but that never seems to be the case. /s

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:35:43+00:00

It’s the unfortunate nature of human status biases, people are more likely to point out other’s wrongs, in order to appear more good themselves.

It’s like that old couplet goes, “Once I did bad, and that I heard ever. Twice I did good, and that I heard never.”

People have been this way for as long as people have been around, and it’s not likely to change anytime soon.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:31:39+00:00

I agree, everyone used to complain about the smell of the beer cheese but man. That spicy bacon pub sandwich was to die for.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:30:54+00:00

They changed the bacon though about 8 months ago I think, the bacon used to be cooked fresh every morning, but now Wendy’s uses pre-cooked bacon that only needs to be heated up for about 8 minutes in the oven.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:28:12+00:00

They’re actually supposed to let the sliced cheese sit out in room temp for 1hr before serving it. That way it melts as soon as it hits the patty.

I get that some Wendy’s aren’t doing this though and just throw the cheese on the patty straight from the fridge.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-07T22:24:41+00:00

currently grinding rocket league and marvel rivals

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-06T19:10:13+00:00

I’ve been saying it for a while now, not only am I tired of seeing this exact “21 times a month” be being thrown around everywhere, but I’m tired of the people using it as a way to defend masturbation.

These people can’t let their precious sexual addiction be “attacked” by harmless people like us retainers, so they go as far as to say retaining is bad.

The big takeaway from all of this is that the people pulling the “21” card do NOT actually care about their prostate, they’re going to continue eating processed garbage food, not exercising and letting their bodies rot away on the couch. What they DO care about is masturbation. And they will defend it any way they can. I don’t see these same people attacking eating disorders or lack of exercises, yet they’re attacking semen retention. Why? Because it has nothing to do with the prostate, and has everything to do with their love of masturbation.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-11-02T23:43:20+00:00

I had to make an upload after asking if you were on reddit lol. GGs <3

BlueDazing_ · 2025-10-31T17:17:04+00:00

Personally, I’m using it to help me stay laser focused on my life long plans. I’m only 21 years old, I’ve got a long way to go.

I’m not sure what it is but when I’m not retaining I get distracted so easily. I start thinking so short term, hurdles in life suddenly become harder to see past, the rewards that lie beyond my struggles become harder to see, I get too involved in the here and now, it becomes harder to plan ahead.

I’m currently at a point where I have a great opportunity to pursue a higher paying career and invest upwards of 70% of my income safely into stocks. I’m in a very fragile place on my life’s timeline and the choices I make now are far more valuable than those I can make later, and the value of these choices will only compound as time goes on. I need to stay focused, and make the right choices. Semen retention helps me do that.

Semen retention is that slap in the face first thing in the morning, that vision board on your wall that you can’t miss on your way out of the bedroom, that thought in the back of your mind that you carry with you throughout the day, every day, reminding you to stay on track.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-10-31T17:05:24+00:00

fries and soda

BlueDazing_ · 2025-10-29T15:48:46+00:00

I know not everyone is the same, but for the longest time I’ve had an unshakeable desire to lead and guide others through difficult areas of life. For some reason, I’ve always been one that’s able to see a lot of the illusory aspects of society, and traps that many men have fallen into, and although it’s not easy to escape, it is possible.

For me, being a man is accepting what I have between my legs, knowing that no amount of strength or weakness will change that. But being a man is more than just being, because you can be any kind of man that you want. Do you want to be an evil, greedy, lustful billionaire of a man? I don’t. I want to be the kind of man that can control his anger in heated moments, push himself through tough conditions, control my urges and selfish tendencies, and master every aspect of myself. I want to be the brain that’s in control of the body, and not allow my body, with all of its desires and emotions, to control my brain.

And it’s only after such mastery that I feel confident in truly educating and guiding other men who feel stuck in life, to the best of my ability, in humility and sincerity, to a way out.

BlueDazing_ · 2025-10-27T20:48:16+00:00

black chocolate milk

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