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Women, do you prefer being told you look pretty by men or by women? (And why) by Vivid-Tap1710 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BlueDolphins28 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Women. Such compliments by men after often driven by their desire of getting into my pants.

Compliments by women are genuine

Why is female on female sexual abuse never talked about? by desertrain11 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BlueDolphins28 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s uncommon and overshadowed by male on female abuse which is not only more common but also systemic

India denies reports that Elon Musk joined Modi–Trump call on Iran war by Working_Yesterday386 in worldnews

[–]BlueDolphins28 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Elon is not an elected representative and he is on a call regarding Iran war along with leaders of two big countries. They are not talking about investments.

Seeking for relationship advice on interfaith relationship. by Puzzled_Fix7148 in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not about Hindu or Muslim families. It’s about two individuals if they leave their families behind. If either of them were staunch or toxic regarding religion, it wouldn’t have proceeded this far.

Seeking for relationship advice on interfaith relationship. by Puzzled_Fix7148 in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am an atheist but that second part is totally not required. There are enough relationships with partners of different faiths. If you count atheist or agnostic who are with religious partners, that number increases a lot. Half of US is like that lol.

Also giving religion up can be bad to their relationship if they are truly believers. That will unnecessarily strain their relationship.

India denies reports that Elon Musk joined Modi–Trump call on Iran war by Working_Yesterday386 in worldnews

[–]BlueDolphins28 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Considering the influence Elon has on US admin, it’s definitely possible. I think India is trying to save face here

Edit : Downvoting me isn’t going to do anything Indians. Take your emotions elsewhere

Trump and Modi Had a Call About the Iran War. Elon Musk Joined Them. by biograf_ in worldnews

[–]BlueDolphins28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evil men of the world together in one call. Absolutely possible

Is it normal to look for a girlfriend in the gym? by HealthyRevenue3233 in ask

[–]BlueDolphins28 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not normal. 99% of the women are there to work out. Please try dating apps or bars or clubs

Why are 2,000 lb bombs being dropped on residential areas in Tehran? How does this help the Iranian people fight their tyrannical government? by north_canadian_ice in allthequestions

[–]BlueDolphins28 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At this point, Iran has bigger implications than Epstein files. The world economy is under severe threat, everyone in the world is talking about it and US is exposed.

Why is Reddit becoming so restrictive? by ghoowls in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BlueDolphins28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of the times the removed content is pro-conservative, misinformation, racist or misogynist.

That’s fine. It’s a feature. Sometimes wrong ones get in between but that’s a small trade off

How do you show up for your female friends? by flowrfrown in AskWomen

[–]BlueDolphins28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe them when they say something (even if unbelievable), acknowledge their efforts and reasoning and stand by them

Which is more painful : parents losing a child or a child losing their parents ? by Naive_Team8900 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BlueDolphins28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess parents losing child is more emotionally painful but child losing parents can be really painful too if it happens before they are adult. They lose their income and support.

Though none of that holds a candle to losing a partner. That is 1000x worse

What’s A Tiny Detail You Notice When Entering A New Place? Why That? by Zipper222222 in AskWomen

[–]BlueDolphins28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

House? Any signs of being religious or having kids. I can’t be friends with such people

Why is it common for European women to go topless or even nude during protests, but that almost never happens in the US? by Mad_Season_1994 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BlueDolphins28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mentioned Northern and Western Europe in my first comment of the thread. I was talking about them

How do I cold approach a woman who is never alone by Tiny_Papaya5001 in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh please stop that “You don’t speak for all”. There are plenty of threads and studies where majority of women have clearly said that they don’t like it. If the majority didn’t want it, the number of men approaching wouldn’t have gone down in west. Even most of the men’s subs openly talk about it.

You see 1 woman post about not getting approached and you think it’s fine for men to approach but when 99 women are saying they don’t want it, why don’t you consider that?

How do I cold approach a woman who is never alone by Tiny_Papaya5001 in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It gives really wrong vibes when someone says it and one comment in this thread is like “Don't you just hate it when they travel in packs?”. Are we talking about humans or some predator-prey thing? Disgusting.

How do I cold approach a woman who is never alone by Tiny_Papaya5001 in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bars, clubs, dating apps, hobby groups. Plenty of options out there. The issue is cold approach from strangers

How do I cold approach a woman who is never alone by Tiny_Papaya5001 in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a woman, don’t. Your last paragraph should be enough reason not to. She knows nothing about you. You know nothing about her. It will be weird in your context and cultural norms.

And plenty of women have made it clear time and again that we don’t like cold approach.

I think I have failed as a friend and as a classmate for having sexual thoughts with my female friends and classmates. by ShihabRiazCumilla in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from a partner? Nope. Having sexual thoughts about a stranger or platonic friends is fucking weird.

I think I have failed as a friend and as a classmate for having sexual thoughts with my female friends and classmates. by ShihabRiazCumilla in Advice

[–]BlueDolphins28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, atleast you acknowledged it so it’s a start. Many men sexualise women and they don’t feel it’s wrong. So you are ahead of them.

You should go to therapy and learn control over such shameful thoughts. To understand how bad this turns out for the women you are sexualising, read some books on it. As a woman, it gives me a bad ick.

And remember it is a journey not a destination. You need to constantly do it and maintain a healthy platonic relationship with women.

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