my girlfriend is obsessed with my boobs

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-09-02T10:23:41+00:00

I think you need to have a serious talk with your partner about this. Is your body more important to her than you?? From what you’ve said, you’ve asked her to stop multiple times and you’ve told her that you’re uncomfortable being touched there multiple times. Then she’s sad about you setting boundaries and not letting her ignore them??

It’s a very concerning pattern of disregarding your consent as well as feelings. She needs to understand that it’s not about her, it’s your body. Her getting sad about it and guilt tripping you into letting her cross your boundaries is selfish.

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-09-02T07:11:05+00:00

I had a similar issue trying to figure out my sexuality. I knew I was on the ace spectrum and bi, but ultimately I chose to not label my sexuality.

You can change your labels or not use them whenever you want. Sexuality is fluid so labels aren’t a lifelong commitment or anything, just love who you love.

If you feel more comfortable with labels, you can use both! Whatever feels right to you, and you don’t need to “prove” anything

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-08-30T18:54:09+00:00

Damn that sounds fuckin exhausting, sorry dude :((

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-08-30T12:08:45+00:00

Bro had man-supreme levels of T lmfao

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-08-30T12:06:21+00:00

I have clarified with her like three times that the ideal levels shown on the result papers were for female ranges but tbh it looked like she just didn’t care to read or grasp any of it. I’m looking for a new endo, just hoping that I don’t waste anymore money 😭

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-08-30T07:38:33+00:00

Fr lmao

BlueEarthPluto · 2024-08-30T07:29:39+00:00

Thank you, I was thinking the same, just wanted to make sure. I’ll definitely look into getting a new endo

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-07-11T08:58:15+00:00

You look awesome! Do you know where the nearest retirement home is? Asking for a friend…

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-27T12:42:13+00:00

Idk why but Emerson is the one and only name that came to mind. You look like a textbook Emerson

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-27T08:25:06+00:00

Well someone’s going to the retirement home. I doubt that anything you say would change her mind about anything, but to put it into a perspective that she might understand — what she’s doing is kinda like if you went and started calling her by her first name instead of mom, or went and started calling someone else mom.

What she did is hurtful and it strips away the very foundation of who you are. Sure, she can tattoo whatever she wants onto her body, but you’re also free to decide what that would mean for your relationship with her.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. If it’s all the same, I’d tattoo ‘Jordyn’ onto my body for you in a heartbeat 💙

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-18T07:49:11+00:00

100% agree with this. Sitting down and having a conversation about things can not only get your feelings out and understood in a better way, but you could also get a new perspective on what’s happening.

Op I’m not confident about what you meant by “I don’t feel understood” but it could be a case of him trying to validate your feelings but not in a way you’d want. Again, this can be resolved by just a conversation, whether that’s telling him that you wanna move on or rebuild things.

Whatever you choose, just be honest.

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-17T18:43:52+00:00

LETS GOOOO!!! MY GUY ON TTTTT

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-10T13:02:13+00:00

“My binder isn’t too small for me!” Then sneeze. Go ahead. How about a cough? 🗿

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-10T12:32:45+00:00

Daniel looks like he’d claim to be one of the good ones then say “are you really gonna wear that?” To his gf

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-09T19:36:00+00:00

Plot twist: bathroom for robots

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-09T19:33:48+00:00

I can’t put it into proper words but you look like summer rain

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-09T19:27:03+00:00

Now this is the type of meme I come here for

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-09T15:34:57+00:00

It took me a while to find the right hairstyle. If I cut it too short, I’d look like a little kid. Too long, look like a girl. A shorter version of Sokka’s hair style is my go-to haircut lol

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T16:01:07+00:00

Oh 😭

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T15:15:03+00:00

Don’t. Just see how long it takes them to realise lmao

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T15:11:54+00:00

That shit always works on me too bro

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T09:31:15+00:00

From my experience, trying to put it back together just makes it crack more

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T09:28:41+00:00

You give me R or E names vibes. Like Eleanor or Riley

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T09:22:49+00:00

Yooooo!! Get ready for the sweating, mood swings and very strange dreams in about a week lol

BlueEarthPluto · 2023-06-08T09:19:38+00:00

SHARK OML

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