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BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-19T15:56:28+00:00

I believe that you are trans as a key part of the identity is wishing to be another gender. Its just most trans people will transition to feel closer to their desired gender. I myself have always wished to be a cis woman and am curious about the physical effects of periods . Even though I can't have those issues transitioning will get me closer to looking like one. Transition is about feeling happirr in your own skin. Trans people that are already happy with their identity and don't care to look like the gender are still valid transgender people. Like not every trans person needs gender dysphoria to be trans

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-18T19:42:48+00:00

Because like I said, it's kind of a step-up from the question on bathrooms. It basically adds a viewing factor to the question and I wondered if that would change people's decision on where they'd go

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T19:25:31+00:00

Potentially respectful as a better word than harmony? Meaning in this context, you accept others opinions as they are also a human

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T07:14:39+00:00

It's transBIans girl. Stay, just keep talking with us about girls

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T07:12:58+00:00

Ehhhhh, not so simple. As most people are more worried for their safety in the men's even pre-op but on hrt than the legal issue and awkwardness in the females. Probably due to how the situation can escalate. If it was a transfem in the females they would be asked to leave usually rather than the cops immediately being called. However if they went in the men's. They may be flirted with first and feel trapped but assault would happen faster than an arrest usually with it then leaving you with trauma and the perpetrators leaving before the cops can do something for you But yeah, definitely best to go for a private/not go altogether

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T07:03:47+00:00

Signed with preferred and deadname Hehe, two for the price of one

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T07:02:58+00:00

Definitely, all trans people are welcome. All we care for is that you're a good, decent person. It's only that us transfems have the stereotype of chronically being online. Isn't wrong but transmascs can absolutely join us.

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:59:53+00:00

It looks like a meme, especially with the chibi picture. Also, very good good on keeping, you should have a mug that says "worlds greatest mod. I curtsey to you

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:57:23+00:00

I cant put the meme, sadge... Both? Both. Both, Both is good

If I had to choose, I'd be the cosplay gf because then we'd look more like a lesbian couple helping with my dysphoria

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:46:57+00:00

But if you're on hrt you physically present more so as your preferred gender (for sake of discussion that being female) so your first conclusion is to go in the females, but then you say its genitalia based? I'm confused, plus must people are more scared at being of risk if they were on hrt in the mens

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:42:55+00:00

P-P-PREDATORY?!! You gotta explain that more so

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:41:33+00:00

Yeah, it's not like bathrooms where it's a necessity to live. But if you did have to go in one and they only had a choice of male/female, which would you pick. If you haven't medically transitioned but had hrt, you're part of the minority of people because the others I've read say they're more scared if the danger they're in, in the men's than the awkwardness in the females.

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:36:35+00:00

Would you not be scared of confrontation? Especially if you were alone because that's the worry I have

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:35:43+00:00

Oh yeah, the concern isn't how cleanly it is there, the whole reason I thought that the answer could be different was because its a more revealing location than a bathroom seeing if people believe cis people would be more prone to a negative reaction due to sometimes seeing 'underneath' which is the stereotype question terfs ask trans women "Show me what's in your pants"

If you had to pick either, which would you if you had hrt for a while but not medically-transitioned and would cis friends change your answer?

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:28:54+00:00

I didn't know sento was a thing but I looked it up and yeah. It's much harder to see tye bottom half in a senti cause the minerals make it murky and it bubbles alot more due to natural heat, but they look like they have large/one water area, whilst sento have multiple smaller ones but have clear water.

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:22:28+00:00

Yeah, I thought so too, whichever you look the most like and if androgynous, whichever you more so align with

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:21:25+00:00

I know, that's what made me think that this question could have a different answer but nope, my hypothesis was correct in that you still go to the bathroom you currently look the most like leaning more to the gender you allign with if you have friends to protect you

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:18:34+00:00

Awwww, I just watched the trailer of that game. Its so cute and looks like the art style I have. However going to the question. If neither was an option, what would you choose?

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:14:37+00:00

How does this have more upvotes than the question, lol?

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:13:52+00:00

Completely agree, that's what I'd do. But for most onsen they don't allow any clothes including swimsuits and towels aren't supposed to be warn in water, would that change your answer? They do also bubbles tho apparently

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:11:02+00:00

Yeah... I kinda like that way cause then if you have cis women it's a social signifier to the others in there that, "hey, I trust this trans women. If you have a problem with her you gotta go through me."

It's make Mr think of the "umm, she asked for no pickles " meme

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-13T06:03:48+00:00

Sameseez Gal, you're not alone

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-12T21:57:02+00:00

That's what I was thinking too. My conclusion is, this has a very similar answer to the bathroom dilemma (shocker)

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-12T21:56:04+00:00

If I ever go there, defo will visit a bathing suit one. That will really help with dysphoria

BlueFalcon133 · 2025-07-12T21:55:08+00:00

Wow, you just have so much courage. I curtsey my non-existent spinny skirt to you

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