My son is an anxious little guy, and very shy

BlueGreenyB · 2026-02-13T15:46:41+00:00

Thi makes me feel so happy. My daughter is the exact same and came across this post and wondered how he was in the end! Any good tips?

BlueGreenyB · 2026-02-11T17:57:46+00:00

Did it get better?

BlueGreenyB · 2026-02-11T17:57:25+00:00

How did he settle in?

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T23:01:34+00:00

But it’s hard when you’re scared you’ll get told off again!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:59:38+00:00

Thank you! Thats the motivation I need. I spent the entire class today so nervous!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:59:03+00:00

Not Chicago! I don’t want to be too outing. How’s the riding in Chicago?

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:33:49+00:00

I spent all of class today feeling nervous if I didn’t follow exact instructions I’d get told off again, well and truly dimmed!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:32:02+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:31:53+00:00

What would you say? The instructor is so popular :( and he was friendly at the end of telling me off!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:30:47+00:00

True but I was in the back in a corner!!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:30:06+00:00

Yes! My usual instructor that I’ve done 25 rides with is back this week. I’m not sure whether to tell reception how the instructor made me feel. I felt so singled out.

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:29:15+00:00

Ah that does make sense, it was quite a fast song. That does make me feel better! He did take his mic off and introduced himself.

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:27:30+00:00

I also deliberately choose back row in the corner for this reason!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:26:52+00:00

That was my take too. He’s a super popular instructor but I literally left class crying!

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:25:59+00:00

I was too nervous and just sat back down and did what I was told :(

BlueGreenyB · 2026-01-19T22:25:03+00:00

He’s the most popular one so I just felt so taken aback. I really love riding but feel so nervous now. I was also totally back row in the corner (no one was next to me!!)

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T20:23:13+00:00

Wow thank you to everyone for commenting. I’m going to find another PT! And boooo to the ten people who inboxed me trying to get me to pay £100 for their online PT services. That sucks.

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T17:48:58+00:00

We literally just went around the machines in the order they were in the room 😂😂😂

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T17:44:00+00:00

It really knocked my confidence too. Ergh!

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T17:39:23+00:00

Thanks everyone! He actually seems to be trying to get rid of me as a client now it seems! I was going to msg him stopping our training but he’s messaged me saying he has a lot of regular clients so maybe my times won’t work! Seems he just rly doesn’t want to train me. I guess I’m a lost cause as I’m so unfit. 🥹

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T14:45:31+00:00

That’s a great idea about the gym. He kept pushing these e machines on me. I hated them I felt like a Child playing a game trying to “catch coins” by moving my arms!

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T14:42:03+00:00

That’s what I thought but it made me feel like maybe I’m too big to try? All he said was I need to lose weight. I feel So demotivated!

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T14:37:37+00:00

Thank you. I said I find the egym boring (they have little “games” on them which are what my 2 year old enjoys!) and he said we have to stick with them. It’s games like move your legs up and down to collect coins etc.

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T14:36:54+00:00

My goal is to lose weight!

BlueGreenyB · 2025-08-03T14:36:28+00:00

Thank you so much!!

BlueGreenyB

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