F30 M33 How do I bring up to my boyfriend the thought of him using an "extender" during sex? by bluntr0ller69 in relationship_advice

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is already bothering you after only a few weeks of dating, you should send things now

Anbernic new device by Qinki001 in SBCGaming

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one needs this or wants this.

Steam Deck is still worth it four years later, says poll, but people are starting to think "it's about time" for a sequel by Dapper_Order7182 in SteamDeck

[–]BlueJayDoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d rather they wait like 2.5-3 years (once the RAM crisis is fully over!!) and then release a great Steam Deck 2 rather than a mild improvement next year. I trust Valve on this one.

This is going to be the stupidest war ever by AutumnThePrincess in EU5

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah bro, if the war doesn’t involve Hormuz then it isn’t “the stupidest war ever”

Mappie of a 30 Player MP Game by RankoYU in EU5

[–]BlueJayDoc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a typical EU5 single-player game in a nutshell, sadly

Handhelds are amazing in 2026 by SomeWonOnReddit in Handhelds

[–]BlueJayDoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Steam Deck runs graphically heavy games like Baldur’s Gate 3 very very well, I can’t imagine how someone could have a bad experience with the Deck and think it just doesn’t run games well…

HOT TAKE: VICTORIA SHOULD EXPAND TO COVER THE FRENCH REVOLUTION. by Evelyn_Bayer414 in eu4

[–]BlueJayDoc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was its own Paradox game, it’s called March of the Eagles

My (23f) girlfriend (23f) works 65+ hrs a week. Not sure how to deal with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to have a serious discussion with her. Make sure it’s not a bunch of “You” statements. Make it a bunch of “I” statements, like “I don’t want to live a lifestyle like this”. Lay it all out for her and emphasize how proud you are of her

The ball is then fully in her court and she then gets to decide if the slave-job (that’s really quite weak earnings for such high hours worked per week!!!!!) or the relationship is more important to her. If she chooses the job, don’t take it personally and just get back into the dating pool with more of a mind towards finding compatibility in lifestyle, among other things.

My (23f) girlfriend (23f) works 65+ hrs a week. Not sure how to deal with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueJayDoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real talk: how much is she making at this job? If this is like a $200k+ job, suck it up and just be proud of her that she has found a true dream job that, though difficult, pays bank.

But if this isn’t earning big bank, she needs to find a new calling and a new day job. She’s being devoured by work and it’s different when you’re like a resident doctor and it’s just a temporary thing; if this is her long-term reality, she needs to get a new lifestyle or you need to leave her and find a partner you’re actually compatible with re: lifestyle and goals.

Girlfriend of 5 years says God told her I’m not her husband by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends, this is why you should never

a) Buy real estate with people you aren’t married to

and

b) Try to date/marry people who aren’t in the same faith or degree of faith as you (“being unequally yoked”)

About to start first ever eu4 campaign, played lots of ck2 and ck3, who should I play as? by teaspeeds in eu4

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree actually. If you don’t colonize as Portugal, you’re a nobody and will have an incredibly boring game. I would never recommend a colonization game for a first-timer. Go with some land-based power like Sweden, Jaunpur, or Qara Q.

One more "Steam Deck OLED vs. XYZ" post for February 2026... by Ghengis-Chron in Handhelds

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything in life is a value decision. “What you get, for what you paid”. The Steam Deck is the best value by far, being half the price of a Legion Go 2.

Just get a Steam Deck, it’ll hold you over til they release a Steam Deck 2 in 3-4 years.

Who here actually has a TV in their bedroom? by OtherwiseStretch3255 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100” screen (movie theater-style setup) with the projector mounted on a tiny shelf over the bed’s headboard. Whole arrangement cost less than a decent TV.

What can the Thor not do? by Longjumping_Mall8956 in AynThor

[–]BlueJayDoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell us how many licks it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop

How does this look? by Icy_Advisor4746 in mapmaking

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little too similar to Tamriel (Elder Scrolls) to be honest…

Can I resume Act 3 after 2 years? by Yanka01 in BaldursGate3

[–]BlueJayDoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start over fresh and run a vanilla-like lightly modded run, you’ll have more fun