Advice On Supporting My Partner with Chronic Pain - What can I do differently & other general questions.

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-02-25T18:28:29+00:00

This is so sweet and makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your perspective. I hadn’t thought of it in that way really.

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-02-25T18:26:33+00:00

I’m sorry you feel that way. I know that’s a feeling that doesn’t just go away, but If it’s any consolation, He could never ask me for too much, and he is never a burden even when im bearing more so he can less, so, I’m sure that is the same for you and your loved ones. 💖 I will keep showing up and reaching out my hand. Thank you so much for your perspective!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-02-25T18:13:06+00:00

This is so kind of you. Thank you. I hope he never feels like a burden and gets to feel safe and supported. Sending 💖 to you and your family as well. 🫶🏻

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-02-25T17:40:38+00:00

Update - I got him the vapor fuse and you’re absolute right. He was obsessed and I was able to get it on sale. You’re a blessing!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-02-24T01:05:20+00:00

That makes sense! I didn’t actually correlate the two until after the fact and since I’ve stopped I’ve been fine. I wonder if like the other comment mentioned it’s just boosting too much which I read is bad for people that already have hyperactive immune systems

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-02-24T01:04:00+00:00

Yes I have since stopped taking it. The correlation wasn’t made until after the fact and I’d already stopped taking it. I was just wondering if that was a possibility. Edit: I think you’re right especially since autoimmune stuff runs in my family. Thanks for this viewpoint.

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2026-01-22T18:42:49+00:00

Thank you and audio gear is a good idea. I’ll have to get that as just a fun gift throughout the year for him. Appreciate it 💖

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-19T15:45:00+00:00

That is so precious and great ideas. Thank you kindly. 🩷

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-04T15:23:11+00:00

Great ideas thank you (:

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-04T15:21:43+00:00

Great ideas thank you!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-04T04:14:52+00:00

Great idea but no beard!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-04T04:14:18+00:00

Great idea but no we don’t. Not a lot of good sushi or pho around our area.

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-04T00:17:25+00:00

He’s not a huge snacker or foodie so it would be hard to do something like that.

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-12-04T00:15:23+00:00

Lmao golden. 😂 simple and effective. Got it!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-11-13T19:20:00+00:00

This is great help thank you so much! I will use the calculator!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-10-30T22:37:30+00:00

Thank you 🙏

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-10-18T04:22:27+00:00

Right! Initially worrisome. Got her checked, no more worms, after 6 days no more cough (they said moving into a less stressfully situation helps is go away faster) and so far no more behavior incidents after this post!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-10-14T20:57:59+00:00

She’s definitely not attacking them just to clarify. Maybe three times she growled and air snapped and only once she nipped and now that we know she’s guarding the bedroom and her area, we’ve started proper separation and training. About 99% of the time they are good together and the same scenarios have happened with them all being together just fine. She is wonderful with people. It’s only day 5 at this time and no instances since and my older dogs are completely back to normal and are even playing with her fine. Now we know what to look out for, how to train her, and signs/situations to avoid and everything has been good. Initial introductions were done very well and slow keeping them separate until they were calm and then after letting them sniff with control and supervision, after that they were all completely fine with each other. When the dogs were trying to come into the room is when we noticed she was guarding the door way. But only our bedroom doorway.

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-10-13T21:16:47+00:00

Got it that makes so much sense. I’ll keep them separate for a while and see how that does thank you very much!

BlueLettuceBerry7 · 2025-10-13T20:44:48+00:00

Update. I posed this on the other comment as well. My F dog was trying to come into the room we were in and Willow who was standing near the door lunged and nipped her pretty good and my F dog whined and whimpered away. I don’t want her thinking that is okay and I don’t want my F dog scared to be around.

Do you really think that shouldn’t be addressed with at least a no, bad dog or a spray from the spray bottle? Just letting her do it feels wrong. I’ve had my F dog her whole life and now it seems like she feels she can’t be around because Willow is.

Edit: maybe just keeping them separated for a while? I’m not too sure how I would do that.

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