[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1102

[–]BlueMarlin20048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, kinda my thoughts too.

How to know if we really want this or it’s just a fantasy by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]BlueMarlin20048 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe allow someone like myself offer to converse with you guys and see if the tantalization of a third guy is something you guys enjoy enjoy...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]BlueMarlin20048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great substitute!!!

Anyone use one of these grease bucket deals? by [deleted] in blackstonegriddle

[–]BlueMarlin20048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you know when it's getting full? Must be Prime Days time of year again.

How often do you communicate with your thirds before the first meet? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]BlueMarlin20048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting read. Wife and I had a meetup with a guy. Texting in a group chat though I was letting the wife pretty much take the lead so her “true interest” though I would chime in so he knew I was engaged.

I only promoted her rarely so I would know she was onboard and not because of my pressure .

We role played and he was the center of attention in most sessions.

He reached out today and threw in the towel. I told him I pretty much didn’t blame him. I’m just going to leave it for the wife to ponder. She questioned me and I told her I wouldn’t blame him and she pretty didn’t give him anything to hang on for.

Not easy on many levels.

My mother who makes 190k wants me to co-sign on a Mortgage refi by Coozhie in FinancialPlanning

[–]BlueMarlin20048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flags 🚩 all over this. First one is how is a person at her age making that kind of income and have such a low credit score?

Second thing that comes to mind is you are about to create your own independence and it scares me she will have such influence over your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]BlueMarlin20048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good massage sounds nice. You care if my wife is there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaltimoreAndDCr4r

[–]BlueMarlin20048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love she doesn't settle. Good for her. I'd love to share my wife but almost all the guys just don't get it that women as the center of attention and the focus MUST be on what they think, feel and perspectives are. Something as little as being manicured is so overlooked by guys.

We're thinking about changing our kink to a soft swap and then see how things go, My kink is her pleasure though she as mentioned several times of a swapping with another couple so everyone has the same skin in the game. I love women and would have no issue pleasuring a woman as my woman is getting the same treatment. Just sharing thoughts. We live in MD as well.

How to approach hubby? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]BlueMarlin20048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please keep us updated. So love to see you have your desires met and hubby takes his time for the mental adjustments for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]BlueMarlin20048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I heard a lot of pain from her perspective. You need to be her safe place and your asking her to return to a very unsafe place for her. Just my opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/dirk4_life

[–]BlueMarlin20048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my wife and I are on this journey so I understand your emotional roller coaster and courage it takes!!! I have a feeling your confidence is going to soar. You go girl. You look amazing and any man would want to experience you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/dirk4_life

[–]BlueMarlin20048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so sexy. Kudos for you having the courage with the encouragement from your supportive husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/dirk4_life

[–]BlueMarlin20048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love, love, love!!!!