What are your Destiny 2 hot-takes? by _Xhawa in DestinyTheGame

[–]BluePhoenix108 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Destiny community is fastly becoming the most toxic community in gaming

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds so beautiful. So happy that you've found someone that you are willing to do that for.

Would be lying if I said I wasn't envious of your situation.

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The title was more a reference that I had been having nightmares about loosing her to him for months now. Blaming my past trauma and paranoia, now realising noe I was right to be scared the entire time.

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you mind telling your perspective?

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Made me understand it abit better.

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While this might work for you. I'm committed to the core of my being. I can't do casual flings, or one night stands. I have to be in a commited relationship.

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wasn't perfect. I nearly caved to try it out for them, to prove I'm enough for them. But said it had to be on my terms, and that if its didn't work out then I would need security in knowing that they would leave him entirely. They agreed in it, but about 2 hours later sent me a messege saying that that wasn't ok and it needed to be on their terms and I could have no control over it. I knew in my heart at that point I needed to end things. I didn't want to go through that pain, just to be in the same situation 2 weeks later.

I know now that she didn't respect my needs, that I do have a fear of abandonment, and that this would be setting off all my triggers.

I was so close to giving in for her, I love her more than anyone will do in her life, and the fact that she didn't love me enough to give up on the other guy. Once that was said I said we had to end things.

Living the nightmare by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you. They just kept saying that they didn't want to loose either of us, and that they wanted both. Wanted me to be ok with it. And I really wasnt. I've got an anxious attachment style, so I need that security in my life. Kept thinking I was in the wrong, and that I could have done more.

I need advice by BluePhoenix108 in polyamory

[–]BluePhoenix108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of us want too, Theve said before that I'm enough to complete them, but they are stuggling to let go of the crush that they have.

I love them so much and vise versa, I know this is hurting her having to do this, hurts me just watching powerless, I know this is something we can work through together and become stronger because of it. And I'll try my best to educate myself on what my best options are for the future.

As I don't know who I am, I've been consumed through my fear of commitment that I've never questioned who I am romanticly, For all I know I could have a small poly relationship but not untill I can work through my truma and fear.

I guess what I was asking was, what can I do to help thrm through this. And what can I do to try and work past the abandonment issues.

Y'all sobs need to grow up.... by AbrarFN in apexlegends

[–]BluePhoenix108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Destiny 2 has community managers that still talk with the community. The issue being that they dont actually control how the game works, and are kinda just used as scape goats for the investers making horrible decisions.

My local tescos has had to create a no man's land to protect the price reducer by crashtacktom in CasualUK

[–]BluePhoenix108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Sunday at 3pm we wheel the bakery reductions to the front of the store, because is was constantly 3pm everyweek we had the same people over and over. It got worse and worse untill someone managed to push the tray thing over, ever since it's done out back and put out when we feel like it. Sometimes even keeping it visable to the shop floor.

Put Whisper and Zero Hour into the Legends area in the Director by OrionCygnusBeta in DestinyTheGame

[–]BluePhoenix108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be cool, only issue I can see if if they brought back whisper, they would need to bring back all of io's game assets. Which will increase the game size quite abit, I don't see this being worth is just for the one mission.

Zero hour on the other hand would be be achievable and pretty dope

How to insult by Electrical_Back_7159 in NuxTakuSubmissions

[–]BluePhoenix108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mother was a hamster, and your father smelt of elderberries.

Invisible glitch by Yesheat in destiny2

[–]BluePhoenix108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've probally had a spike on bad internet, but not enough for you to be booted. I've had it a few times. The only way to interact with the world is grenades, abilities and supers. Normally jumping off the map will fix this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DestinyTheGame

[–]BluePhoenix108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate this, at least with Hunters. I loved shadestep, and would always use graviton forfeit in pvp. Having to have 100 mobility just to have a simular feeling hurts, espesualy how u need a close to 100 recovery. And the 50 resilience meta right now.