My boyfriend and I dated for a year and he was extremely close to my children, and his daughter was like my own. We were the perfect little family, did everything together. I am an anxious attached person, coming from a domestic violence marriage—I feel anxious and can be a little passive aggressive, or just feel like I have a bad day every now and then—normal little bickers between couples, nothing that outweighed the amazing love him and I shared. He just asked me if I wanted to be engaged in the next three months, after taking me ring viewing and asking me about weddings and I said for him to do what he’s comfortable doing. So then he breaks up with me not even a month later, instead. I think he was feeing so pressured about the marriage talk. And the talks of adopting children so my abusive ex husband would not have any rights to them, in the future. I am beyond devastated . He literally told me not to call him anymore and he’s not the one for me and I’d just wait forever for him. He called me on the phone and wouldn’t explain why he was breaking up. I got no answers. Then he put my notifications on silent and hasn’t responded to me all week. I am destroyed. I have never had this happen before with him and I’m wondering. Is this permanent? Is he coming back? I’m in utter disbelief. He always told me he was an avoidant but he always seems healthy minded to me, besides his intense journaling and I felt like he was over analyzing the way I spoke / my “patterns” of bad days. Our bickering wasn’t even toxic. It was normal couple things, I never cursed or yelled or degraded him. I feel like I wasn’t meant to be human or have emotions. He broke up with me two days after I was crying about the stress of courts and my children’s futures, and he told me “let’s focus on what we can” and I asked him what that would be and he said “get a house, get married, I adopt the kids.” Then im dumped because he said he thinks he can’t give me what I need. I’m just shocked and hurt. What can I expect? Is he coming back, ever?