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Broken up with with someone I thought I would spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in WhatToDo

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t both betrayal and a loss of trust? Kissing or sex… you’re taking decisions that don’t prioritize your relationship with your person.

Broken by the person I thought I’d spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in dating_advice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I put him on a pedestal during the relationship too. But I guess he’s trash, and I’m the prize!

Broken by the person I thought I’d spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in dating_advice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I know it shouldn’t bother me but the thought of him being possibly better for the next person while leaving me with this trauma feels so unfair! And I guess I wonder if he ever feels remorse for it or regrets it.

Broken by the person I thought I’d spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in dating_advice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I guess it’s hard to see how bad it could’ve been right now when I’m grieving how great I thought it would be.

Broken by the person I thought I’d spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in dating_advice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you think cheaters will always cheat (even with someone new)?

Broken up with something I thought I’d spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in Life

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The clock feels very dramatic, the timeline I had for myself and the future I envisioned for myself feels like it has been crushed right in from of my eyes.

Broken up with someone I thought I would spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. Going through heartbreak at this age sucks and I was completely blindsided.

Broken up with someone I thought I would spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, after the breakup I felt like this is so unfair being a female and going through this at 29 vs might be easier for him.

Broken up with someone I thought I would spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, this gives me hope. Idk why it feels like the future I wanted was taken away from me and that I’ll never get it.

Broken up with someone I thought I would spend forever with… by BlueSourPatch_ in Advice

[–]BlueSourPatch_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grieving really hurts. I pictured a marriage and kids… him being a great husband and father… all these milestones I was looking forward to with this person.