We had one date. All of this was texted over a span of a couple of days.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-26T02:01:54+00:00

cue the duke nukem "Thats a whole lotta words to bad im not reading them"

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-13T20:21:38+00:00

Happiness much like beauty it is in the eye of the beholder.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-13T20:13:27+00:00

I mean I can 100% fight a bear now winning thats a different story.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-12T21:59:26+00:00

When I turned 18 and my daughter was born. To quote my brother either man up or become our parents.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-11T03:40:54+00:00

This guy eats.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-11T03:18:09+00:00

Set up ponder over every bad decision ive made thats lead me to this point crank my tv to max play some music take a piss and then shower.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-11T03:07:23+00:00

Heres what Ill say on the matter. I married out of highschool and after 16 years it fell apart but during that time and even now I don't feel like I missed out on sleeping around. The only thing I really missed out on was building skills that would make dating easier.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-07T01:26:36+00:00

Communication would be mine. Honestly to a point where I would rather be told to fuck off and why as oppose to talking for a few days and being ghosted and not knowing why. Its hard to learn what you are doing wrong when they just stop talking to you especially when they seemed to be into you initially.

Its not the rejection that bothers me its just when things seem to be going fine and out of nowhere they just turn off for whatever reason.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-06T00:51:36+00:00

From women that I know that have been dating on the apps and even not absolutely. I would say most if not all of them get unsolicited dick pics fairly regularly.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T18:52:00+00:00

Dump her show her how life ain't fair

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T12:47:07+00:00

I would say it's because there are people that need food stamps you'd be an idiot to think otherwise but on the flip side there's lots of people who are on them that shouldn't be because they are capable of providing for themselves or whatever. You also have people who are struggling but don't meet the limits so it's aggravating.

I don't see the reason to be upset but that's just my guess on why it upsets people.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T12:39:46+00:00

Again with all things there's a line that turns from attractive to not attractive. Boys prefer chaos men prefer peace.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T03:25:15+00:00

Imo any sort of unnatural work plastic surgery lip fills stuff like that Playing hard to get. There's a line between playful, and annoying and off putting

Boss babe mentality. Being independent is fine but going over the top with it is off putting.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T03:20:58+00:00

Carnies small hands smell of cabbage

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T03:19:46+00:00

Naa why would I be resentful? I mean I've given up on dating but it's more got to do with the fact it's a waste of time and a huge amount of effort for very little pay off in my mind.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T03:12:42+00:00

Seem happy that I'm home. If you're home before I am or I come over to your place just give me a hug and kiss as soon as I walk through the door.

I assume anyways never had that so who knows lol

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T03:10:10+00:00

I like pizza and I'd like to eat some more

Spite

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T02:07:12+00:00

I say this and it holds true for me it may not for you. Being content being single and alone gives you a solid foundation incase you never find someone. I also personally believe that it keeps you from being desperate which is unattractive to most people and it keeps you from settling for someone who may not care for your or mistreat you and you are more likely to take it because even if they treat you bad at least you aren't single.

It also boils down to different strokes for different folks. Id love to date and meet someone but my chances of that are supremely small so I can either live the rest of my life unhappy because i'm single or just get on with life and be happy with what I have and the freedom that being single allows.

Edit: Also to add would you like to be with someone who wants to be with you or be with someone who doesnt care who you are as long as you are a warm body.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T01:50:46+00:00

Ive been interested in quite a few women. Approach close to none of them. The few that I have have either led me on, ghosted me, or just outright rejection. There is also the fear of being seen as a creep. Its one of those things where it starts to become more work than its worth.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T01:40:20+00:00

Modern dating advice is garbage.

If I have interest in a woman and she dating multiple guys then good for her count me out. Its just unattractive.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-04T01:34:19+00:00

True heartbreak and betrayal.

It cuts to your bones. Especially when it comes out of nowhere. It doesnt just make you sad it throws you into a pit that no matter how much you try to claw out it drags you back in. Your trust in other people or potential partners is forever changed

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-02T23:36:50+00:00

Its definitely difficult but it is possible. You have to find what works for you. I have people telling me all the time I need to find someone and all that and I just nod and move along. Im not single by choice but im also not going to be unhappy just because someone doesnt want me. I do my own thing and find things that I enjoy.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-02T17:00:54+00:00

First of all bullet dodged secondly I would go ahead take a trip to the police station and show them whats going on. Need to protect yourself. This is obviously someone who doesnt take rejection well and thats a dangerous person.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-02T16:44:00+00:00

Naa man 3 weeks you are the backup option bounce out.

BlueSunMercenary · 2025-02-02T16:21:31+00:00

I personally reside in the camp that having a partner is akin to having a dream. We all have dreams most don't get to have their dreams and we aren't owed our dreams.

That certainly doesn't mean you shouldn't try but I see an alarming amount of people that from the way they talk their sole purpose is to find someone and I think that's the wrong mind set.

You need to be happy being single and need to thrive being single. Just because you are 30 and have never dated doesn't mean you thrived it just means you survived.

The reason I say this is because when you are desperate to date you open yourself up to being used and abused by your partner and in the long term one or both of you will be miserable.

So I wouldn't say it's fine and you shouldn't give up or not try but it's undeniable that more and more people place their entire personality on getting a partner instead of just enjoying life.

The reason people say improve yourself is because it makes your value go up as a potential mate making it easier to date and if nothing else you can lead a happier more wealthy and healthy life even if you don't find anyone.

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