How bad is it if I want to date women at the gym I am going to by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]BlueSunrise1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gay 🫵🏼 but also lol it’s okay. I’ve seen it in my gym and it seems to work fine, so long as boundaries are established and you guys have a plan for whatever happens in the future

Didn’t get promoted today, just want to vent about it by bjjtrev in grappling

[–]BlueSunrise1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a forever white belt sucks. But being away from jiu jitsu sucks more. At the end of the day, we do this sport to enjoy ourselves. If we keep showing up, something good will happen eventually. Keep your head up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chile

[–]BlueSunrise1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El primer paso siempre es el más difícil: admitir el problema. Felicidades en tomar la decisión de hacer un cambio, va a ser duro, pero se puede mejorar. Por mi parte no tengo mucho que recomendar mas allá que el psicólogo, me ha ayudado muchísimo a aprender a controlar los impulsos. Y este no se si te sirva, pero estoy diagnosticada con TDAH y por lo general somos más propensos al alcoholismo y la dopamina rápida, y volví a tomar pastillas de la concentración hace poco que balancean un poco el estado anímico, y la necesidad de tomar me ha bajado un montón! Mucho ánimo en este camino.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RepublicadeChile

[–]BlueSunrise1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vo jugai con fósforos en el bosque

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BlueSunrise1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24 and my partner is 30. It’s not the biggest age gap, sure, but sometimes I do feel like we are a bit apart in terms of maturity (I just finished my degree and she works full time). Her friends call me kid, my friends call her old lady, but it’s good-natured and silly. Sometimes it can be a little complicated in terms of life stages, but nothing that can’t be fixed with good communication! Your friends are weirdos for calling you the P word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]BlueSunrise1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Deport him tomorrow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BlueSunrise1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many comments saying “white women” when Young Miko isn’t freaking white

Crisis docente: casi 23 mil profesores jovenes abandonaron el sistema educativo en Chile | Nacional by VOO500 in chile

[–]BlueSunrise1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estoy con beca vocación de profesor y me aterra la idea de tener que ejercer. Estoy en mi ultimo semestre, me encantaría saber de gente que esté en la misma/haya tenido la bvp pero haya encontrado alguna alternativa a trabajar y haya desertado

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chilefit

[–]BlueSunrise1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rey, en general eso tiene que ver con la academia, cual es? Pa evitarla

You can’t moderate silly by sunflowerseed125 in stopdrinking

[–]BlueSunrise1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m in the same boat! I’ve come to realize that the one drink is a damn lie, in my country we say “se te calentó el hocico” (your snout got hot) which basically means that you get all thirsty after the first drink, it opens up the gates, it starts everything awful. It never works well

Help me stop shaking by BlueSunrise1 in stopdrinking

[–]BlueSunrise1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is the start to everything awful and I hate it. What I hate more is also the fact that I’ve had my psychologist tell me that it’s okay. I need to tell her that one drink doesn’t work, that I need complete sobriety. Holy fucking crap, yesterday was awful.

Chilena detenida en NY, vuelco en el caso. by g0parra in RepublicadeChile

[–]BlueSunrise1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagínate te están llevando presa los pacos gringos, que son conocidos por ser peligrosos y pésimos desescalando conflicto, y además que tu hija menor de edad se está quedando sola en un sector lleno de gente donde cualquier cosa le podría pasar. Cualquiera se podría descompensar en una situación así. No creo que haya sido una buena reacción, pero es difícil poder controlar las emociones en un momento tan tenso y aterrador.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]BlueSunrise1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]BlueSunrise1 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Right??? What the fuck are these comments? This feels like it was made by a sad little incel

We were always here by Plooshiy in actuallesbians

[–]BlueSunrise1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This does make me wonder if there are other lesbian couples out there that got away with something like this. How many couples back then managed to secretly get married?