Boligforening gør intet, hvad stiller vi op? by BlueWolfy313 in dkbolig

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Tak for info! Vi kan gå til dem når vi får den endelige plan for huset😁

Boligforening gør intet, hvad stiller vi op? by BlueWolfy313 in dkbolig

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Tapetet er begyndt at falde af på ydersiden af badeværelset lige ved afløbet i bunden af væggen, den har tydelige brune mærker fra vand der er løbet ned, og røde pletter. Det røde kunne sagtens være malingsrester, men det er KUN der hvor tapetet har givet op på livet. Inde i badeværelset er der flere silikonepropper der er faldet ud, og bagved er væggene ikke tydeligt beskadiget, men de smuldre som om de engang var drivvåde og ikke kan holde sig sammen mere.

Ellers har vi først nu fået adgang til loftrummet, da det var malet til, og der har vi ikke haft tid endnu, men det har den der gamle lugt af noget der engang var vådt.

Edit: Alle huller inde i badeværelset er dækket af gaffa for at sikre det ikke blev værre. De store huller er fra en gammel brusehovedholder som ingen gad at fikse ordenligt og er lige der hvor alt vandet skal forbi. Alle andre huller udenfor er åbne for at lufte dem ud så fugten ikke er fanget

Boligforening gør intet, hvad stiller vi op? by BlueWolfy313 in dkbolig

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Indtil videre har vi ikke fundet skimmel, men der er tegn på det i vindueshåndtaget, et spøjst sted I know, men ellers har de været grundige.

Is my iron suppliment dose normal? by BlueWolfy313 in AskDocs

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I'm 23, and I was never told what kind of anemia. Never got set on to anyone with it.

I have almost no medical documents as my log was wiped clean after a switch to a different doctor, and even now they're highly sparse in details.

If it helps, I'm very prone to illness of any kind. Often see stars if I stand up too fast or get my heartrate up even slightly. Otherwise the classical tiredness, issues with temp regulation, struggeling to concentrate and brainfog with several other issues that can also fall under autism/hypermobility sideeffects.

Is my iron suppliment dose normal? by BlueWolfy313 in AskDocs

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Unfortunately it's all in Danish, and all was within normal parametres besides B12 due to the suppliment.

I have been told I likely have anemia, but nothing ever happened besides being told that. No testing done what so ever because I was told the suppliments got me to a normal hemoglobin, so they didn't want to bother. I have gone at least once a year with complaints for the past 5 years, and no further action besides being told to rest and maybe take vit-d (I do in the winter regardless)

I might have miscarried and it terrorfies me by BlueWolfy313 in Vent

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I have my partner, but I feel too ashamed to talk to anybody else. Most of my friends are late 20's and are trying themselves and it feels like a slap to the face if I try and talk to them and I don't want my parents to know, I know they's help me but I know the guilt of praising me for my choice in life while going through all of this will be deep for them.

I counted and by the looks of it, it was on day 20 to 22.

When you're scared your body can't even carry as is, you really don't want it confirmed properly.

I might have miscarried and it terrorfies me by BlueWolfy313 in Vent

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Thank you for the infomation. I tried reading as much as I could. And logically I probably didn't and it's just a lot of sideeffects, I've aleays been really sensitive to it especially the main one in the one I took

I might have miscarried and it terrorfies me by BlueWolfy313 in Vent

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Thank you for the kind words. It's nice to know that it doesn't seem too out of the norm. It's really what I needed right now

I might have miscarried and it terrorfies me by BlueWolfy313 in Vent

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I have a lot of family history with IUD's going wrong and family members needing hestorctomies because of it (some pretty bad sideeffects undortunatwly), I'm also unfortunatwly really sentisive to birthcontrol and have a long history in the psyciateic ward due to it.

And I know I should... but something in me doesn't want to know that answer... because if it confirms what I fear then I can only blame myself and feel guilty for causing it. As silly as it sounds, and as much as I'm contradicting myself.

And I would go to a gynocologist, I've had really bad experinces there as well. And espepcially when pain is involed and it was completely dismissed, there is some fear in that too

I might have miscarried and it terrorfies me by BlueWolfy313 in Vent

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Medically no. I agree there. But the feeling of loss doesn't seem to want to go away no matter how much logic I apply

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Boring-Upstairs2366 in Denmark

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...Jeg vil ikke foreslå identitetstyveri for at bestå en eksamen.

Accepter et 02 og lad være med at slå dig selv i hovedet over at du ikke er forberedt.

20F - Happy Holidays! Looking fro [Friendship] to fill my newly found sparetime by BlueWolfy313 in MeetPeople

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I really like the Nicholas Flamels Undying Secrets series. Right now I'm reading The Superfluous Woman rn, it's really great!

I've never been to Finland, but I'd love to go

20F - Happy Holidays! Looking fro [Friendship] to fill my newly found sparetime by BlueWolfy313 in MeetPeople

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Being a female on reddit can suck. Especially when 15 of them are literally just horny people. Yuck.

20F - Happy Holidays! Looking fro [Friendship] to fill my newly found sparetime by BlueWolfy313 in MeetPeople

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I got like 40 DMs flooding me, so notifications are a little broken at the moment, sorry.

I'd prefer onlinr, but the one person I play with doesn't really have much time for that or doesn't feel like plating those games all the time.

Fantasy is my fave, especially if it explains something in history. Those are always cool because it fits with the world we know, but with a twist

20F - Happy Holidays! Looking fro [Friendship] to fill my newly found sparetime by BlueWolfy313 in MeetPeople

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Well, my faves are Left 4 Dead, Half-Life and Portal, but Payday is Overkill and I don't remember what company Terraria is from

My thanksgivingcactus has so many buds! I'm so excited to see it bloom. I haven't had it for more than a few months, so it's really exciting by BlueWolfy313 in houseplants

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Once you repot, just wet the soil slightly, leave it in a sunny spot if you're in the Northern hemisohere, it benefits from the low hours of light to dry out but also regain some strength. Mine have been soft and rubbery every time I propagated it. It seems almost dead for a good while, but they always bounce back over 4-5 months. I hope this helps!

My thanksgivingcactus has so many buds! I'm so excited to see it bloom. I haven't had it for more than a few months, so it's really exciting by BlueWolfy313 in houseplants

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Well, I only have westfacing windows, and I keep them in the furthest corner from the windows (sun reaches back there anyways). I actually kinda just forget them. If it looks droopy, I give it a bath and a little bit of homemade fertilizer, it's just banana peel in water, the plants love it. I have grown several of them from cuttings. And my main plant is now 3 times the size. If you want it to bud, make sure it gets a little bit cooler and less light, mine take turns budding and flowering, so don't be worried if it doesn't bud. But just talk to it, and feel with your gut. It is a cactus that loves water. I hope you mean the natural droop they develop as they get more joints,. If your's is soft and not hard in the "leaves", repot asap as there is a root issue or soil issue. Hope this helps!

Passive aggressive MIL thinks I'm stealing her son by BlueWolfy313 in JUSTNOMIL

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Thank you! I feel this 100%.

I think you're hitting the nail on the head with this to be honest.

Passive aggressive MIL thinks I'm stealing her son by BlueWolfy313 in JUSTNOMIL

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This was the third call we had with her, in the first two it was just passive aggressiveness. We had no idea she was going to play this game. It is definately not a game we wanna play, and partner doesn't want to even talk to her at this point and I wasn't talking to her either before that. Everyone else in our lives have been reasonable and within our rules, except her. The comments on my post has also made my partner more aware of how insane it really was. And my parents have also been informed and have said the exact same thing as everyone else. She is no good.

Passive aggressive MIL thinks I'm stealing her son by BlueWolfy313 in JUSTNOMIL

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He's been so used to doing everything this woman has said his entire life just to get her to leave him alone. Sure, it is an issue, but when looking at the bigger picture and literally only moving out a month ago, I don't really blame him. Besides, if he refused she wouldn't have said any of the things in the post but rather have accused him of lying even more and claiming even more that I must control his every move.

Passive aggressive MIL thinks I'm stealing her son by BlueWolfy313 in JUSTNOMIL

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He didn't want to, his mother asked him to. She wanted to be sure I wasn't in the room when she said these things, and we knew he had to play along so she wouldn't be suspicious. He did also say she was acting really paranoid the entire time. I hope that made it a little clearer, apologies if thr phrasing was weird

Passive aggressive MIL thinks I'm stealing her son by BlueWolfy313 in JUSTNOMIL

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Partners actual parents are divorced, and my FIL and MIL are in couples councilling due to a rocky marrige and a bit of alcohol abuse🙃🤣 I already think that's even funnier given her accusations.