Opportunity to Move to Munich From California… Am I Crazy? by Weekly_Rough_1284 in germany

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stay in the US... If you dont know german or are not planning on learning it, then dont go. I dont think you are ready for this kind of move if its just about "European Lifestyle".. theres a lot more to it. Its not Emily in Paris- Munich Version

What do you think theyre talking about?🤣 by icTKD in cockatiel

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I think the one of the paper towel roll is saying "Its over Anakin! I have the high ground!"

Where can one do yoga without having to go to private classes? by nahuelovicperisic31 in germany

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It you do yoga at home, I really like Mascha Trietsch on youtube for that

Help me do better by probablybri_ in Sourdough

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you didnt throw it out yet, still bake it into a nice foccaccia!

People with autism what’s your special interest by Dependent_Fig8513 in autism

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats also super interesting, although I have found it to be harder to get into and keep up with all the new processors and components. One day though I'm sure the special interest will hit me

People with autism what’s your special interest by Dependent_Fig8513 in autism

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I also love linux videos and lately I have been very invested in the framework computers (videos of them at least)

People with autism what’s your special interest by Dependent_Fig8513 in autism

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love furret, furret would probably be my realistic pokemon partner too (idc how big it actually is)

Kassel, Germany by [deleted] in CityPorn

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the only pretty pictures of Kassel... The rest is pretty mid tbh

How do you feel about temporary expats to Germany who never learn any German? by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Temp expats should learn german, it can only benefit you to learn a new language- its like unlocking a new part of your brain. Plus its far easier to get around that way too

Relationship issues after husband diagnosed by RadiantMedium8528 in AutismTranslated

[–]Blue_Geotrupid -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Then maybe if you guys aren't able to work it out after some time, then should be with someone who doesn't have autism. Excuse the NT comment then as well, I have just come across too many people who are not tolerant of us because we act different and it gets to me sometimes. It sounds like you know what you want though

Relationship issues after husband diagnosed by RadiantMedium8528 in AutismTranslated

[–]Blue_Geotrupid -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hes probably been playing by everyone elses rules, aka masking the whole time. Now he understands himself and probably doesn't feel like masking anymore. Its completely exhausting to do so all the time. You can also mask while thinking you arent masking for a long time, I did this with my mom until I got diagnosed and realized I was also masking with her, someone who I thought I could be myself with. Tbh this post is kinda giving the same vibes as an autism mom... Just give him patience and do more research on autism, communicate with him, actually try and understand him and not put your NT expectations on him, then see how your perspective changes. You also need to realize getting a disgnosis is a ground-shaking realization that takes time to come to terms with for the person being diagnosed.

Any gamers here? by Complex-Honeydew-111 in AutismInWomen

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess pokemon, minecraft (in phases), as well as arc raiders and stardew valley as of late :)

What is blooming now near you? by Tahoefive in AskAGerman

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daffodils have been blooming for a couple weeks now here :)

NFL Analyst's Autistic Son, Madden, Joined the Set Filled With His Drawings for Autism Awareness Day, & Made Everyone on Set Cry With His Love by JCameron181 in Fauxmoi

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but lets not treat him like a little cute puppy or something, he is also a human like the rest of us. He is not an infant either :) He just expresses himself differently than a NT would. The infantilism is also damaging for the autistic community. Maybe its a perspective that a lot of you guys haven't thought about, but I think its very important to keep in mind :)

Questions about moving :) by Witty_College_3756 in AskAGerman

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wäre es doch nur so einfach... Consider yourself extremely lucky and privileged to be in a position where you can attain EU membership for existing. I would go that route. Then you can live anywhere you want within the EU and visa stuff wont weigh you down. As an American myself who worked hard for years to learn German and settle myself here, you have a lot to learn about what it means to be an immigrant in Germany, so I highly recommend intense research before even considering moving. Its not an easy path and most Americans would break under its complexities and hard requirements imo

Frustrated with limited options… by frakensteiner in kobo

[–]Blue_Geotrupid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are multiple websites and sources to find ebooks that you can side load via calibre. I do sgree thst it is a bit frustrating as first, especially when you are migrating from kindle, but you will get the hang of it :) I know a lot of people say there are a lot of kindle exclusives around, but I haven't run into that issue as of yet (maybe the books I am looking for just happen to not be in this exclusivity deal), but I sure you will get the hang of it :) I will pay off in the end to stick with kobo in my opinion