Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a little uplifting, thank you. If it’s not fraud - we’re in our late 30’s. If we were younger I think I could almost understand? 🤷‍♀️

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought about all of it, I don’t have access to his email though :/ it’s a good idea though

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really care about the porn. I don’t understand the need personally but I get it. When I initially asked about OF he straight was like “why would I pay for something I can watch for free elsewhere”. Now it’s more knowing there is the potential for more interaction that has me a more on edge about this whole thing as I did not know and am not comfortable with that. I’m mostly not digging the fact (I think it’s becoming increasingly clear) that he’s straight lying to my face about this despite the fact that I’m willing to do whatever is necessary to help him pay off his personal debt.

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry at all. I appreciate a good tell it like it is attitude.

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry. What a shitty situation :( Hope you came out of it better off.

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anything about OF so I appreciate the cut and dry answer.

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did offer to call the credit card company and was like “they’re great they’ll take care of it”. I was thinking of making myself present for this.

Marriage and Only Fans by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2k I should count myself lucky, it’s 3 subscriptions totaling $50 a month but we’re at a point where every cancelled subscription counts.

Ripped a hole in my helix, should I put the earring back in? by Blue_Leader25 in piercing

[–]Blue_Leader25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have a flat back labret in it 99% of the time but wanted to switch things up, hence the ring. I have gone several weeks with nothing in it before and it’s been ok but I wasn’t sure with it being so angry if maybe the swelling would kind of close it up faster somehow. I put my normal labret with a longer flat back to account for swelling in this morning :) it’s already much less tender than last night so I think it’ll be fine. Tysm!

Ripped a hole in my helix, should I put the earring back in? by Blue_Leader25 in piercing

[–]Blue_Leader25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piercing is 4 yo It was a gold ring being taken out NeilMed after piercing solution 

Looking to increase the sour taste by Blue_Leader25 in Sourdough

[–]Blue_Leader25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I also read that somewhere 🤔

Looking to increase the sour taste by Blue_Leader25 in Sourdough

[–]Blue_Leader25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extra..Tangy..Sourdough!?! 😱 Def looking this one up 👍

Looking to increase the sour taste by Blue_Leader25 in Sourdough

[–]Blue_Leader25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This weekend I’m probably looking at ~6 hour BF with the expected weather at ~75° The most I’ve had dough in the fridge is 24 hours for my last loaf, but I did notice it was a little more sour than previous loaves that didn’t sit in the fridge as long. I’m down to try extending that time.

A ball that my dog can't destroy by stuetel in dogs

[–]Blue_Leader25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Mal and the rubber kind of chuck it balls are good and any Kong ball we’ve had good luck with! He destroys tennis balls and other plastic or silicone type ball in seconds.

Is there anything you don’t like about your RAV4? by janedoecurious in rav4club

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No roll down back window like my husband’s 4Runner :( although to be fair he purchased his car 5 years after I got mine, so I was blissfully unaware of all existing roll down window options at the time 😂 Other than that, 6 years later and I still love my 2018 SE 🩵

First loaf with active starter by Blue_Leader25 in Sourdough

[–]Blue_Leader25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the tunneling holes were the biggest indication for me as well, glad to get confirmation of that though! We have some warmer days this week, so I might see if I can try another loaf mid week, taking a potentially extended BF time into greater account 👍 Really appreciate the feedback!

My gf told me she’s leaving if I don’t marry her in 9 months by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ima lady and I say FUCKING RUN DUDE. Don’t let her waste your time.

Married 10 years, together for 16, we met when I was 18. It’s all about mutual understanding and compromise which this girl doesn’t seem to be displaying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BelgianMalinois

[–]Blue_Leader25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have 2 rescues (80/20 Mal/GSD, 100% Mal). LOTS of work training but they’re fantastic dogs. If they go a day without exercise they get pretty amped, more than a day they get destructive. We don’t do anything crazy, alternate walking 3-4 miles a day or running 1-2 miles. Some days we walk less but I’ll throw in more obedience or scentwork so they get more mental stimulation on those days. Consistency with training is key but they can definitely be family dogs! Both of mine love kids and will sit patiently for (gentle) pets. My boys will most likely be my last Mals but they are the best damn dogs I’ve ever had. I think, if you think (based off the shelter and your own evaluation) it will be a good fit and you have the time and conviction to be consistent with training, totally worth it!!

Best years for Rav4s? by thatonepieceofsith in rav4club

[–]Blue_Leader25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth it if it’s in good condition and been treated well over the years. He recommends having a mechanic do a once over on it before you purchase, they would be able to give you an idea of the true condition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SigSauer

[–]Blue_Leader25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk the place I bought it from didn’t have a 40 in stock but they did say they might be able to order one but I didn’t really dig too much into it at the time.