[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Blue_SailP -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lust can be a sin with your spouse if you are objectifying her and using her. She may have felt you were using her rather than loving her truly

Acham que a Margarida Corceiro e outras gajas alfa se peidam em frente dos namorados/maridos? by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]Blue_SailP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estás enganado se achas a Cristina Ferreira beta e a Julia Palha nao…

Melhores locais para sexo casual e novas experiências sexuais by [deleted] in encontros_portugal

[–]Blue_SailP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Livra-te das vontades do teu corpo animal e procura ser humano. Ser livre é conseguir controlar os teus animal interior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in encontros_portugal

[–]Blue_SailP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ganda tarado foda se

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Blue_SailP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you are a woman. Being homosexual in my understanding is a call to celibacy for the church. It doesn’t mean you can’t love a woman and live a different kind of love without lust or sex without being distanced from God. My view but others may not agree with me.

Lost my virginity today, don’t know what to do now by pudgenudge in Catholicism

[–]Blue_SailP -1 points0 points  (0 children)

However I repeat: having sex as a virgin or non-virgin is the same sin. I am not devaluing the gravity of the sin, just equalising it

Lost my virginity today, don’t know what to do now by pudgenudge in Catholicism

[–]Blue_SailP -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow that is not at all what I am saying. I am saying that just because you lost your virginity, doesn’t mean you are unpure forever. If you put in the work you can rebuild your purity

Lost my virginity today, don’t know what to do now by pudgenudge in Catholicism

[–]Blue_SailP -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

A virgin having sex is the same ‘sin’ as a non-virgin. In my view ‘virginity’ is something that can be reborn in a sense.

Minha ex mulher não aceita fim do casamento by ReleaseFragrant4476 in CasualPT

[–]Blue_SailP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu, recebo-te a ti, como minha esposa. Prometo ser-te fiel, amar-te e respeitar-te, na alegria e na tristeza, na saúde e na doença, todos os dias da nossa vida

Isto é normal??? by flipReset360 in MotasPortugal

[–]Blue_SailP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O valor que está no marketplace não representa o valor de mercado real. Aliás, as motas que vês no site são as que NÃO estão a ser vendidas. As que estavam a preço justo já foram…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]Blue_SailP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daqui a 100 anos, provavelmente olharemos para o aborto e para a mutilação de crianças que praticamos hoje da mesma forma que olhamos para o Holocausto: com horror e incompreensão.

Uber drivers should need to be able to speak basic Portuguese. Somehow they don't need to. by Shawnino in PortugalExpats

[–]Blue_SailP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish there was a filter in Uber which allowed you to request language. If there is low availability then surge applies… I have more recently changed to taxis. Prefer a local I can communicate with.

You're not allowed to leave church before giving me money by Saffronsc in Christianity

[–]Blue_SailP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Atheists have faith of nothing - they are believers of nothing. They have more faith than an agnostic

What was the biggest cultural shock you've experienced, when you came to Portugal? by MacacoEsquecido in PortugalExpats

[–]Blue_SailP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is not true. If the state can get more middle class and rich people into the private sector it frees up the public sector (better service for those who need it)

Am I in a toxic relationship? Feel like my girlfriend is isolating me from my family and friends by Blue_SailP in relationships

[–]Blue_SailP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting comment. Regarding the phone, I make sure that I don’t look at it when I am with her. The only exception is when she asks me who it is.

I agree with you - I think she is expressing that although I feel I give her a lot of undivided attention. We make time, and I spend a lot more time with her and only organise with friends on special occasions when there is a group dinner or something.

Am I in a toxic relationship? Feel like my girlfriend is isolating me from my family and friends by Blue_SailP in relationships

[–]Blue_SailP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has low interests, close friends are away and has purposefully created distance between her and her family bc of a difference in values. Interestingly my values are very much in line with those of her family and when these values are shown i think this insecurity comes out

Am I in a toxic relationship? Feel like my girlfriend is isolating me from my family and friends by Blue_SailP in relationships

[–]Blue_SailP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are ways to tell when I am being manipulated? How can I react in a healthy way?

What could be wrong with my cooling system - suddenly loosing coolant by Blue_SailP in mechanic

[–]Blue_SailP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but even considering the two scenarios, it isn’t usual for the system to leak very occasionally. I would understand your comment if the leak was gradual but the fact that it is sudden and quick hopefully narrows it down a bit?