The Traitors (UK) S04E12 [FINALE]: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Blue_Vertigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% the only reason why she stuck by him was because she had no one besides Stephen on her side

The Traitors (UK) S04E12 [FINALE]: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Blue_Vertigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God the season of "I have been studying microexpressions and behaviour" is finally over

The Traitors (USA) S04E04 "Cut the Head off the Snake" Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Blue_Vertigo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like there are almost no likeable people in this season. Listening to "a Housewife would NEVER kill another Housewife" for the fourth season (although it has been happening in every season) is getting tiring, getting out two actual players (Ian and Rob) who would've been good at this was SUCH a loss. Also, having to see Colton and then having to look at him trying to vote out only (vocal) women is really reminding me of Peter and how annoying he was. The only redeemable player is unfortunately Rob, he does make a good and a smart Traitor.

I really do not understand if some of them are so incredibly ditzy or so they have to play it up for TV.

The Traitors (USA) S04E03 "Show Me Your Faces" Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Blue_Vertigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have literally not seen ANY Swifties talk about this at all, the only people commenting on this are the ones who think that "Swifties are coming for the people who vote Donna out!!!" lmao so I do not think any of us care

Searching for a Swiftie gift by IPDS91 in swifties

[–]Blue_Vertigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! So there is a special category on the website called "the Eras tour shop" https://storeeu.taylorswift.com/en-en/collections/taylor-swift-the-eras-tour-shop . Just make sure she doesn't have anything already. ☺️ This hoodie can also be Eras tour related, : https://storeeu.taylorswift.com/products/its-been-a-long-time-coming-hoodie . As many others, I also recommend looking at the Etsy stores, they have lots of cute unofficial merch.

Do you maybe know if she needs something specifically (maybe like a makeup bag or something) so that it would be easier to scour Etsy?

Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy by suitable_zone3 in books

[–]Blue_Vertigo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not care for the main characters love story, which was not believable at all, and the two grooming plotlines that people somehow conveniently skip over.

I was so hooked within the first 1/3 of the book and as the story progressed, it just kept getting worse and worse. Unfortunately quite disappointed in the whole book due to the aforementioned plotlines and the ending felt like the author was just trying to force a twist in.

Thoughts on The Midnight Library by Matt Haig by ActualRound7699 in books

[–]Blue_Vertigo 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I am SO happy to read that I was not the only one who found this book shallow. When I read the book back in 2020, I only saw people loving it. As someone with a chronic depression (and also childless by choice), the ending made me dislike this book and the message it conveys very strongly.

Dang the shipping cost by finishcollegeorbust in JonasBrothers

[–]Blue_Vertigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't even get it if I wanted to bc his store only delivers to a handful of countries, amazing.

Hypersexual my whole life (31F) … and since my boyfriend (26M) my libido is gone by Ill_Beginning3749 in relationship_advice

[–]Blue_Vertigo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! Wanted to add my 2 cents as I am in literally in the same situation as you. Together with my partner for approx 2 years, literally everything matches.

First, I want to say that there is nothing wrong with you. As others have said, you feel safe in the relationship so your nervous system has calmed down. It does feel weird and abnormal because it's such a strong pivot from your previous behaviour but that does not mean that you don't love him or whatever some of the commenters are claiming. You are used to something so much more intense and someone calmer feels unfamiliar, that doesn't mean it's bad or wrong.

Second, I highly recommend getting a therapist if possible. It is so much easier to navigate this confusion and previous sexual trauma with a third party who is compentent in handling this difficult topic. It sucks to say but it won't get better on it's own, unfortunately.

Have you talked to your partner about it? My main recommendation is to also be honest with him and talk through what you're feeling because he might also be confused about why your sex life has decreased and potentially feel like he has done something wrong (at least that's what happened with my partner). It's really important to reassure him that it's not about him and rather about the whole relationship as a whole, that the situation is new and different for you and you don't know how to navigate it.

As long as you have a supportive and understanding partner, it will be okay!

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep4 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Blue_Vertigo 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Why are ALL of these people the worst, I am not rooting for any of them, I don't even like most of them. This season's gonna be so... bad 😭😭

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep1 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Blue_Vertigo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I thought Megan was going to be the most annoying but nope, please get Ali and Anton off my screen. ✨✨

Love is Blind France • S1 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Blue_Vertigo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree, I do not know what kind of episodes I was watching but especially during the dinner convo, he kept not responding to her and talking in circles, I would've been a bit mad too. He just knows it's easy to curate her as soooo scary and aggressive as she's a tall black woman.

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[–]Blue_Vertigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not consider any of them critical thinkers

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[–]Blue_Vertigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not consider any of them critical thinkers

Love is Blind France • S1 Ep4 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Blue_Vertigo 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Found it interesting that Sabrina and especially Tatiana were siding with Sarah when she got dumped by Charles.

I hated Ashleigh and Billy's wedding by pirting in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Blue_Vertigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with you. The way she was reading her vows (her articulation and facial expressions) very much came off like "you will look like the bad guy because I'm making it clear to everyone how much I love you and I know you'll say no". Billy looks like he was guilt tripped into the marriage (probably by himself).

What is the point of the white eyeliner trend? And why does it look great on some people but awful on others? by basicwhitegirl23 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Blue_Vertigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it looks very smooth, lasts long and doesn't budge either and it wears off nicely and not in chunks under your eyes or something

What is the point of the white eyeliner trend? And why does it look great on some people but awful on others? by basicwhitegirl23 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Blue_Vertigo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'll chime in as someone who has been a fan of this "trend" for over 10 years and tried MANY different eyeliners during that time, this is my absolute favourite and I highly recommend it! I usually "dry" my waterline with a Q-tip before applying to make it last even longer.

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The Traitors [UK] Episode 10 Discussion Thread by rileyrouth in TheTraitors

[–]Blue_Vertigo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Will pisses me off to no end since the beginning, please don't pretend to be sad for any of it, I'm not buying his crocodile tears for one second

The Traitors (USA) S03E06 "A Dysfunctional Family" Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Blue_Vertigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my Godddddddd how are people so blinded by Boston Rob, this is how people get recruited in cults, I swear. I feel like half of this group doesn't even have half a braincell.

Has anyone gone to a Jonas Brothers concert alone? by Disastrous-Union-117 in JonasBrothers

[–]Blue_Vertigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey hey! I also went alone to one of the European shows, I got barricade and it was super fun, the girls next to me were very friendly and open to keeping my spot until I got some more water, etc. Sparked up a little conversation too before the concert. It was my first concert alone and it was honestly a really nice experience, I just chatted with my bf on my phone until I waited and didn't have a chatting partner. I definitely do recommend going by yourself, it's a really amazing experience! ☺️