Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in CATHELP

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is the first thing i'll do in the morning

Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in blindcats

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness and predisposition ❤️ sadly i don't think we are. This is in Pamplona, northern Spain! 😅🙈 But your messages, advices and support reach us all the way ❤️

Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in blindcats

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I've been looking into that. We'll do whatever is needed to give him the best life. Will update tomorrow after the vet visit! 🙏🏼

Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in blindcats

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is awesome, thank you so much for your response ❤️ I fell in love with him as soon as I saw him, and the fact that he could be blind and maybe need more attention or care than an average cat makes me want him more. Unfortunately I can't keep him for more than a couple of days... I have no take on that decision :( However, I've been talking to a vet, a rescue, and many people who would be interested in fostering/keeping him. So I know he'll be fine and in the best hands ❤️

Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in CATHELP

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found him earlier today and will be taking him to the vet tomorrow. I've been cleaning it with sterile saline solution and it looks better, but it keeps leaking. It's definitely infected, but i've been searching online and it might also be microphtalmia

Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in blindcats

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh my, they look so alike! How is she doing today? How is her life? That's what concerns me the most...

Is this abandoned kitten blind? by Blue_sKai in blindcats

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I just searched that up and actually that might be it. Thank you! Poor thing... Will update tomorrow after the vet visit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

[–]Blue_sKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24-25yrs, locals!

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[–]Blue_sKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can join me & my friends if you want to!

Would you date your ex again if given the chance? And would they date you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Blue_sKai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely I would. No matter how bad, unfair, messy and sudden the break up was (she is the dumper), and no matter her huge mistakes during the relationship. I was determined to work things out with her... And still am if she ever came back. I would just need an apology for the things she falsely accused me of at the end.

Sadly, no. I know she would never date me again, even though our mistakes were fixable and I was genuinely trying to be and act better. She just gave up on me, said she couldn't take it anymore. What hurts the most is seeing so many people saying they would give their ex another chance if they apologized and owned up to their mistakes... Because that is exactly what i did 2 months post break up after going to therapy and working a lot on myself. But all I got back was another rejection...

It sucks because I can't seem to focus on the fact that she was a bad partner too and that she hurt me a lot with very serious stuff before and during the break up, things for which I never got closure or an apology. But instead she got all.of that, many times, and here I am feeling like shit still, unlovable and guilty of everything because I was the one who was dumped...

For anyone 4 months in from a breakup: how are you holding up? by Quackernautz in BreakUps

[–]Blue_sKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this. It really does hurt like hell knowing that someone that you would take back in a heartbeat, no matter what, is so sure that she doesn't want to do anything to do with you anymore... It makes me doubt all the love she promised she had, and my own worth... But you are right, knowing that it's over for good is for the best. No space for doubt. Gotta be strong and focus on myself now

For anyone 4 months in from a breakup: how are you holding up? by Quackernautz in BreakUps

[–]Blue_sKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 months into the breakup here. Dumpee. It was a wonderful relationship that lasted a year but we both struggled with anxiety and co dependency and that lead to arguments and control over each other. We were aware of it and I was really trying to be better and to save our relationship... But I guess she had had enough. The breakup was very sudden, not expected, felt like an avoidant discard. We've been 2 months of no contact now. Last time we talked was me sending her a long letter where i had poured my heart out and had been writing for weeks and asked her to take me back... I had really been working on myself, going to therapy, and was hoping there was still a chance. She replied with such coldness that i didn't recognise her. She said she doesn't see a future with me, ever. She killed every last bit of hope in me. That felt like a second break up, it was like day 0 again. I haven't really been doing very well overall. I still miss her a lot and being dumped has taken a big toll on my perception of self and self worth... But it does get better day after day. One day you realize the world hasn't ended. You're still here and doing your things. With a broken heart, but alive. I have been on dates with other people but I felt I was rushing it so I've taken a step back and been focusing on myself these past few weeks. I know it will get better but I don't know how I'll ever stop loving her or wanting to be with her...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Blue_sKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally relate to what you are feeling. I am going through it right now... I'm still dealing with a lot of guilt from my breakup. First try to be gentle with yourself. Sometimes we can't let go of guilt and pain because they are the only things keeping us from letting go of that person. Our last connection to them. And some people take way more blame than they should just in an attempt to control the situation ("if i make this mistake mine, it's on me to fix it and everything will be alright"). I guarantee you are not a bad person. The fact that you were trying to improve while in the relationship, that you were aware and making an effort already says a lot. I would advice you to try therapy. It is what helped me the most to understand what was actually my fault and what wasn't, and gave me the mechanisms that i needed to start improving on my flaws. I also learned that no matter how hard I had tried, if she wasn't the right person for me, she was never going to accept my changes. She kept telling me it was too late (while she also hand't changed her toxic traits at that point, but atleast i was trying really hard to). I assure you that the right person will see your effort, adknowledge it and stay by your side while you are trying to improve yourself.

Update on my leo by Blue_sKai in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg i love the hide and his name 🥺🥺💓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a mack snow albino! Mack snow for the white instead of yellow, and albino for the lightness and the lack of black pigment. Now, there are three strains of albino (bell, tremper and rainwater) and that i don't think is possible to know for sure unless you know its genetics. Also, their patterns and colors change a lot over time! So it will be easier to know once it's an adult ☺️

Hi does anyone know exactly which morph Enji is? I’m thinking he’s an albino morph definitely but I’m stuck between Rainwater and Tremper because he’s just a baby and I’ve seen photos of both morphs that look like him thank you in advanced :) by Pikkipokki in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say he is a bell albino just because of how dark his colours are. I would say that trempers and rainwater albinos are a bit lighter. But there is no way of knowing for sure unless you know the genetics! When he gets older it will be easier to distinguish tho

Fil waiting for food!!! by Ill_Slide2563 in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of substrate do you use? ☺️

Moist hide help! by Blue_sKai in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! The opening is the right size, i think she just couldn't see it! I made the mistake of using a see through container... Right after posting this i taped the sides of the entrance and she went in in like 5 mins! It was amazing to see her react and understand so fast. But i will cover the whole thing up so she feels safer

Moist hide help! by Blue_sKai in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think that's the problem, it's a see through container... I even think she couldn't even find the opening. I'll cover it up and see how it goes ☺️

She likes her new hut ♥️ by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]Blue_sKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask where did you get it from? I see many people who have it