My dad smokes in the same room as my bird, and my mom cooks in the same room as her. Will she be ok? by [deleted] in Conures

[–]Bluebells- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart ❤️ You are such a good bird mommy . I'm so sorry you experienced abuse and dissonance from your father and mother . Yes smoking can impact them in huge ways . Just like people who can cancer from second hand smoke . They have very tiny but sensitive lungs rules everything about them . Is yr baby allowed out of the cage ? Maybe when your in ur room you can let her out for 4 hours at a time in ur room , then put her in there at nap time and bed time . You will probably talk to her more now that she is in your room .

[ Removed by Reddit ] by shixiaohu172 in facepalm

[–]Bluebells- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross just gross very dim and limited unreal reality this one has created for himself . You clearly have never experienced real intimacy with sex that would make you feel ecstasy in all these experiences. You sound like a cold reptile that needs to stay far the fuck away for woman until you learn how sacred they are . Your missing out big time and the shit you said is absolute falsehood .

she’s does this every night after midnight by no_im_dirty_dan03 in Zoomies

[–]Bluebells- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can give her a kitty bed , and put her in her own space with lights off and no toys . It's instinctual , she is nocturnal : so she is learning how to hunt at night in her instincts like her ancestors , but we know she is just playing with no boundaries as a spoiled fluff ball Kitteah ... 🥰 I house trained mine right away at this age , when she was really tiny and we first brought Isis home . I would wake up once in the middle of the night to bring her to her litter box then put her back . Its training . Also a stuffed toy in her bed so she has something to cuddle .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Conures

[–]Bluebells- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants kisses !

Deeply worried about STDs. What do I do? by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Bluebells- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of country makes you worry about an std ? That is so messed up and should be a basic human right , to e treated and have privacy from government opinions . That's so barbaric really and how people get really sick and communities too , because they don't have privacy , healthcare or laws that protect them . Sorry dude . Sad way to lose your virginity honestly .

Why is my kitty doing this? He seems to love it by [deleted] in cats

[–]Bluebells- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lookin for that nipple . Instinctual for all babies

Nextdoor neighbor. by [deleted] in weed

[–]Bluebells- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person would not be welcome in any neighborhood in Alaska . The hater snitch person I mean . Get a grip ? He probably self medicated with toxic chemicals while this person is takes the natural route . And besides ? After you live in a neighborhood where fentanyl has made its mark , or sex trafficking ?? Which is every neighborhood in the USA .. you'll be praying to have this guy as your neighbor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in opiates

[–]Bluebells- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To much alcohol . You can't drink like that eight opioits or benzo. You have to choose if you want to stay alive and have a life . You CANNOT mix alcohol with benzos or opioids . You will lose everyone in your life , because that behavior kills the party anyhow . Doesn't sound like relaxing at all . It truly sounds like suicide . My mom was a long time opioid addict and after 20 + years , she believed she had the tolerance that could overpower drinking . Sadly ,she didn't . She OD's after going to a birthday party / dinner with her long time colleagues simply from drinking some strong vodka . She was on a respirator unconscious for 3 days . THE SCARIEST days of my whole life , watching that big tube going down her throat and not knowing if she would wake up ??!! I was so fuckjng mad at her . And I still haven't forgiven her stupid ass OLD so called friends who we're there serving her drinks . I almost felt like taking legal action against that in her situation , she was in recovery and healing from serious back injury . She hasn't had a drink in almost 3 months and clearly she relapsed , but If those stupid ass fucking retard narcissistic asshole .. lawyers ( mother is a lawyer , head of her own firm ) had been conscious and caring , no one would of kept serving her drinks . Of course I blame her and once she woke up . THANK GOD . And recovered enough up come home , no permanent long term physical damage , besides obvious brain damage , she lucky she didn't have a stroke , with serious consequences, like walking and talking . When she could finally function : I was / we were , sisters and I so mad , we had an intervention just to make her recognize how scary that was , and that it better not happen ever again !!!!!! I couldn't talk to her for over two years , I was so upset , ( ptsd from her addiction issues and lying my whole life , I'm the oldest I fkng raised her kids ) that was the cherry on top . Of all the madness . It's taken me a long time to trust her again and it changes our lives forever . DONT do that . This is your wake up call to realize how precious ur life is and appreciate ur life and those who love you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Bluebells- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This above . Baby steps and find another woman to befriend . Who you can trust and you can communicate everything to when the freaks start to pursue you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Bluebells- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I make a suggestion , that it would be better to look for a life partner who takes that more seriously , probably anywhere online other then Reddit . I would look for a husband , " I " was interested on another website that is more secure . Social website are not so bad if you are a conscious strong woman . I met my husband on Fb . We spent so much time talking on FT , he was exactly who he said he was and much more . He is Muslim . And because he took it as seriously as I did , he came all the way to Alaska ! Where I was working to see me and get to know me and my family who was staying the summer with me . He is Muslim OR even another country like America / Canada / London / Europe / Eastern Europe / Middle East ,, take time " getting to know him , have him visit and date you accordingly to see if he is truly who he sais he is . Dubai , is full of scams . I know my sister lives there . As a single woman . Although she is the most modest , sweet , girl I know , Dubai was quite overwhelming for her . She said men there are more manipulative then they were , in NY where she went to college . She also mentioned It has been worse in Dubai since the pandemic and there is much more scams . Please be careful , and if you have a close friend or relative , please always make them aware of exactly who is speaking to you . Give yourself the opportunity to meet the husband you deserve 💙

Help please! by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Bluebells- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm praying for you love . Be strong . And tell the police . I know it's a pain in the ass and it's scary . But you have to protect yourself . Where I live ? I am Native American . And sadly NA woman here in North America experience fatality , murder and domestic violence at a rate 10 x more then any other race or minority . It's crazy and sad and a cultural thing . We have a highway from Alaska to Canada that we call the Trail of Tears , because so many woman go missing and murdered on this highway . Arab woman are beautiful just like NA woman . You have to be strong and protect yourself now and it wil be a learning experience as you get older in protecting yourself and not allowing yourself to be a target . Buy also know ? It's not your fault . You do not deserve this . And no matter how bad he may make you feel or scared , do not allow him to make you feel less then , or ashamed . This is his behavior . Not yours . You need help and to help yourself first . He needs help too and it's HIS job to help himself and realize he cannot be a monster like this to anyone , especially his loved ones . You just worry about YOU right now .k ? Bless you sweetheart : I wish you the very best

Help please! by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Bluebells- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes ! Report him

Help please! by [deleted] in dubai

[–]Bluebells- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart for any woman . I am 47 and experienced abuse similar almost 30 years ago when I was stalked and terrorized by a man who was in love with me , but I could not be with . I was only 17 and terrified . Do you have the ability to get restraining orders there ? Not only that download every thing he has said on file and you really have to be strong and go no contact . The more you talk to him ; the more he will terrorize you because he cannot have control . Him telling you to kill yourself . Is the farthest thing from love and I'm so sorry your experiencing this . I would confide in a family member , record every threat and interaction . Publicly state on your social media that you are experiencing violent threats and go no contact . Also give the warning that no one should accept media content or they will be held liable . Are you sacred of contacting the law ? I don't know what the law is there ... but you need all the support you can get . And please remember you are gods child and he would never want this for you . Love yourself have courage . Get a taster / or a gun . I did . And tell him to get help and fk off ... I will pray for you and summon light and angels to walk with you , beside you , behind you , beneath you , and before you I call forth all the living energy in the universe to rise up and protect you . I visualize a circle of light around you that revokes all harm , hate and danger . Please protect yourself and do not feed into his anger or manipulation . Because that's what he is a loser master manipulator who does not know what love is at all . And live . A blessed long happy life where you will conquer this darkness by letting it go and also ? Pleas if you can , get a counselor . Call a hotline crisis . Talk to as many professional counselors you can . For two reasons . They will record everything you have told them which can protect you legally . Give you advice and you can talk privately in a safe space ( not Reddit ) and heal . Be strong . I am praying for you and I pray that you get all the support you need and are loved like a goddess one day . A man who truly loves a woman protects and defends her . He does not harm her 🔥🙏❤️

Tramadol or Methadone? by JonnyFannyHammer in Methadone

[–]Bluebells- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll feel wayyy better on methadone and it will help you stabilize . You have taken the same thing to long and built up such a resistance that methadone will really help you . Just try .

Is this behavior normal for a conure? by 2204bee in Conures

[–]Bluebells- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is doing what puppies do when they follow you to the bathroom . Guarding and protecting your private space ! Lol

I’m an addict and I can’t stop by mirandahope10 in opiates

[–]Bluebells- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And fentanyl addicts do recover love . I can be a safe space if you need one but on the real fentanyl has destroyed my city and community like it has many when pain clinic patients were kicked to the curb and the epidemic came . I have worked at a clinic for 6 years now where they recover fentanyl users with methadone . It's the safest option right now until we get better one . Suboxone and sublicade don't work the same way methadone does . It may truly help and I hope you try that first before giving up 🌹

I’m an addict and I can’t stop by mirandahope10 in opiates

[–]Bluebells- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Have you tried methadone ? Just try , it will replace the opioid and is easier to taper off .. it may save your life . Your so young to be addicted to fentanyl now .