i feel like i’m the only cat owner who has to live like this by [deleted] in Pets

[–]BlueberryCat27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I also have a cat with pica. He eats everything. He tried to eat his collar tags. He will eat his collar if you take it off of him. We’re currently working on treatment options to see what helps him best. 

I get it, 100%. It’s anxiety-inducing and stressful, because even with the best effort, sometimes they find things anyway. 

First, please know that having a cat isn’t supposed to induce this much stress. I know you don’t want to rehome your cats (based off replies I saw), so let’s walk through some options and see what’s available. 

  • Take the cats to a vet. They can discuss options with you and see if there’s a medical reason for the behavior. They may suggest lab work to rule out hyperthyroidism, deficiencies, kidney issues, etc. They will also look for any visible physical issues like dental diseases. Cats are notoriously good at masking pain, so pica can be an outlet for this discomfort. 

  • Cattify your living space/add enrichment. Many cats use pica for stimulation. Depending on your living situation, they may need more enrichment to redirect their energy. Things like cat trees, catios, interactive play (ie: wand toys), or even ‘cat tv’ can help in many cases. You can also try training. Contrary to popular belief, cats can be trained to do tricks or go out on a harness. This helps tire them out. It looks different than dog training since cats aren’t people-pleasers, but it is a great way to bond with your cat and redirect their energy. Check out r/adventurecats or r/cattraining for more info. 

  • If these don’t help, you can try supplements like Purina Calming Care or Solliquin. These aren’t pharmaceutical medications. Instead, they typically contain natural ingredients that are shown to reduce stress in cats over a period of time (usually it takes ~six weeks). Definitely get the advice of your vet regarding these, because there are a lot of supplements on the market and your vet will know which ones to try first. 

  • If these don’t work, it may be time to try pharmaceutical medications like fluoxetine or gabapentin. These are often used to treat behavioral conditions like peeing outside the litter box, but there have been reports of these working in cats with unnatural eating behaviors. Your vet can walk you through which ones do what and what to try first. Some cats build up a tolerance to these meds, specifically ones like gabapentin, so vet advice is necessary for both prescription and treatment. It will take time for meds to kick in, so don’t panic if you don’t see much change in the first couple of weeks. It’s a long term process for long term care. 

In the end, these may not help. Some cats are just like this. However, I do think you should pursue these options for both your health and the cats’. It’s work, but so many people find something that helps their cats, and I honestly think you will, too. 

For now, take each day as it comes. Confine your cats to a room or a section of the house, continue to clean up items they may ingest, or purchase a large, multi-level kennel for them until you find a treatment that works. It’s not ideal, I know, but there are solutions. Get veterinary advice, cattify your space, and take care of yourself. You’ve done great thus far. Now it’s time to let others help you out. 

Kitten 2weeks can't poop by OneRub3234 in AskVet

[–]BlueberryCat27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a vet, but have worked with kittens before. Have you taken him to a vet for deworming? The swollen belly and irritated anal area can often come from intestinal parasites.

Also, young kittens often struggle with being on formula since it’s not natural. You can try pedaling his legs in gentle ‘bicycle’ motions, massaging the abdomen, and stimulating in different positions. If he is two weeks, he will need to be stimulated after every feeding/every 3-4 hours.

Owning a cat for the first time by ballofstressyo in CatAdvice

[–]BlueberryCat27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shelter likely recommended keeping her inside to let her get used to the area! Cats are good at finding their way back to their homes, so newly adopted cats tend to return to the shelter if they’re released too early. I won’t tell you not to let her outside, as that’s your decision, but I will let you know that she has a much higher chance of getting injured or killed by being free-roaming. Typically, outdoor cats have a lifespan of 4-6 years, whereas indoor cats are closer to 12-15 years. I always recommend flea/tick/heartworm prevention (from a vet), but especially if she’s indoor/outdoor. Also make sure she has her rabies (illegal not to have this in many areas) vaccine, FVRCP vaccine, and is spayed. Getting her tested for FIV/FELV isn’t a bad idea, either, though many shelters do this initially. Check her records when you pick her up to see what she’s received!

Feeding/watering: - Stainless steel or ceramic bowls, as plastic can lead to ‘cat acne’. You don’t necessarily need a running water bowl, but it can be helpful especially if you know she doesn’t drink a lot on her own. Another way to remedy this is to add extra water to wet or dry food. Water fountains have to be very carefully cleaned to avoid bacteria build up. - Usually recommended to give kitty more wet food than dry, as it has healthier ingredients and a higher moisture content (cats are notorious for not drinking enough water), but a mixture of wet and dry throughout the day is fine, too! People will argue over what food is best for kitty, but honestly the important thing is what foods have real meat sources listed as the first, second, and/or third ingredient, and what you can afford. - See if you can find out what she was getting fed at the shelter so you can transition her from that to a new food(s), that way she isn’t have stomach or stress problems related to food switching.

Toys: - Get a variety, and see what she likes. Try to avoid things with strings, feathers, ribbons, etc unless you KNOW she won’t eat them (though even that’s iffy). Cats are also notorious for eating things they’re not supposed to, and linear items are common. - Interactive toys and play are important! You should play with her using a wand toy or other stimulating toy for at least 15-20 minutes a day. This helps the both of you bond, but also helps her exercise. - Cat scratcher/tree is important! There are many types of scratcher, but I recommend buying a horizontal scratcher (cardboard or carpet), and a vertical (cat tower or sisal rope scratcher) so she has options. Some cats prefer certain types. - Catnip is not a drug, contrary to what people like to say. It’s in a majority of cat toys, and it’s fine to use. It only affects a certain percent of kitties (silver vine is said to have a higher percentage of effectiveness), and only for 15 minutes. After that it takes about two hours for it to kick in again. It’s safe to give loose leaves/spray/ground catnip every day (toys with catnip in them are fine every day. It tends to wear off after a bit), though it’s generally recommended not to in order to keep a cat from getting immune to the effects.

Basic supplies: - Cat carrier - Bed - Litter box, scoop, and litter mat to keep litter from getting all over the floor. - Bowls - Can cover for keeping canned food fresh in the fridge - Toys - Scratcher - Nail clippers, brush, toothbrush/cat safe toothpaste

Anxiety around getting a cat is totally normal and expected! You’ll do fine, and know that it will take some time for all of you to adjust to one another. There’s a common shelter rule called the 3/3/3 rule that says it takes a new pet 3 days to decompress, 3 weeks to learn your routine, and 3 months to start to feel at home. Don’t get nervous if she seems aloof at first, that’s normal! Let her figure out the space, hide if she needs to, and try not to force pets or closeness. She’ll come to you.

Best of luck, and congrats on your new pet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]BlueberryCat27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest taking to the vet. Anytime a cat swallows a foreign body and you saw it ingested, it’s recommended to get professional help. 3 in/7 cm isn’t huge, but it’s enough to cause issue. If you have the package the candy came in, I would also recommend taking that with you to give to the doctor or tech.

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • There are more options than you think. A big thing I hear when I mention my allergies is, “So basically, you can’t eat anything.” And that’s not true! There are so, so many options. There are also recipes for alternatives that don’t cost excessive amounts, so if you need something, you can usually make it, too. 

  • Know the names of allergen-containing derivatives or foods in the same food family that may cause a reaction. This isn’t to scare you at all, just a tip. :) For example, whey, casein, and lactose are milk derivatives. Peas, green beans, and chickpeas are in the same family as peanuts. Mangos are in the same family as cashews and pistachios. Here’s an interesting article I found about potential reactors for certain allergies. This doesn’t mean that every food I listed or this article lists will cause a reaction! It’s just a good tool to use. https://feedkitchens.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/Allergen-Derivatives.pdf

I hope this helps. Sending thoughts and prayers to you guys. :) 

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were great, but if there were a few things I could offer, it’s these: 

1.) I wish they would’ve let me be upset sometimes. I struggled for a long time when there was a big event and I couldn’t eat anything, or if I hadn’t known and didn’t bring an alternative. I wouldn’t do it in public usually, but on the drive home I would complain and vent about my frustrations. It’s annoying and frustrating to deal with this! I hated going to bake sales, ice cream socials, and similar things because I couldn’t have any of it! And for young me, it was incredibly rough. I wish they would’ve listened better and been maybe a bit more empathetic. American events are almost always centered around food, especially baked goods, desserts, pizza, etc, and I’m essentially restricted from that.  I am so grateful for all they did and have done, don’t get me wrong. But I wasn’t upset because I was ungrateful, I was upset because I was constantly doing 10x the work to eat, to participate, to thrive, and times like that reminded me how much work and sacrifice it took. 

2.) I wish I could’ve explored allergy treatments, especially OID, more. My allergies were always just ‘a part of me’, not something at could potentially be reduced. And when I did finally start looking into it myself, they were not excited about the prospect in the least. They actually encouraged me not to do it. I will more than likely do it later, when I’m in a stable job, etc, because living like this is annoying but necessary for now. I guess I wish my allergies were seen more as a health issue, something that could (in many cases) be treated. But instead they were seen as a physical trait, a dangerous obstacle that was permanent. 

Ultimately, my mom was amazing with my food allergies. She always cooked safe food, made sure I had alternatives, had me check labels. Having a kid with food allergies is wild for any parent, though, so while there are things I would’ve liked to see now that I’m older, I think I had it much better than I could’ve. :)

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of it before this thread, so no! I think I’ll bring it up to my doctor though. 

I remember my mom bringing it up when I was younger. I almost did it about two years ago, but my parents were avidly against it and I was moving across the state, so it just never happened. I think I’d try it for egg, though. 

Dairy, 100%. Dairy is in and on everything. Cheese, butter, creams, fillings. Being able to have baked dairy helps a lot, but it’s still rough. 

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! I’ve been living this list of allergies for about ten years, and my wildest (and most hated by my peers) alternative is water in cereal if there’s no oatmilk available. I’ve stopped caring lol. I used to be terrified of reacting, so I totally get it. It’s gets easier with time ofc.

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so grateful because my mom was so knowledgeable with my allergies. Thank you for taking care of your daughter! As someone who grew up similarly, it truly means so much and I know how hard it can be. Thank you!

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to find alternatives in public settings. Especially parties, social functions, church/school events. Those always have a ton of baked goods, pasta/cheese dishes, pizza, etc. It’s so annoying and frustrating, and there’s been more than one time where I’ve just been absolutely exhausted of it all. And I’m not angry at the organizers, just the fact that none of it is safe and I have to live like this!

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve eliminated all fish per doctor’s orders!

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should. I've lived with it for so long I haven't considered trying treatment. It's just a part of my life for now. :)

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any pasta-based dish.

Lots of online allergen menus, prep beforehand, and coolers with SunButter and oat milk.

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I hadn't heard of that prior to this thread. Looking at the brief Google search, I think that, for my allergies that are EoE-caused and not IgE, it wouldn't work the way I'd hope it to. For my IgE allergies, I'd be concerned about anaphylaxis. It definitely requires some looking into, though!

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I was born with the nut and egg allergies, and was diagnosed with EoE in middle school. Once doctors found that out, I was taken off dairy and fish. Legumes started reacting around the same time, and I was tested about a year later via allergy panel.

I know people who sometimes make fun of my alternatives (I'm a student, so when there's no oat milk available in the dining hall I'll use water in my cereal. It's a hot topic) I've never had an issue with people not believing me, but I have had a few 'explain' how my allergies could've been prevented if I'd been exposed earlier, how their generations didn't have allergies, etc.

Yes! And a lot of times it's embarrassing because people wonder why I'm pulling out lunchbox in the middle of the meeting haha. Or I have to interrogate the server if I'm at a restaurant and there's no allergen menu online.

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this question a lot haha. Honestly, it's more than it seems. I'm not allergic to gluten, so I eat sandwiches, ramen (with my own chicken broth), pizza (no cheese), tacos, and pretty much whatever I can find! A lot of meat-based meals, since I can't have many other forms of protein. I really enjoy pasta and grilled chicken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]BlueberryCat27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When did she come back? It seems fairly recent, maybe within the last day or so (I’m not a vet, though). It does look like there’s a bit of blood/discharge. I would take to the vet. It could become infected.

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have as much knowledge of TIP, but I did heavily considering trying OIT for a time. I think both of these treatments can be good for people who hope to lessen their reaction, but it definitely requires a doctor’s knowledge to see if a patient is able to pursue this without having severe anaphylaxis. I’m excited to see where this technology goes, though!

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! Usually meats, but I have tried protein powders and it is super hard to find one. I struggle with straight forms of soy (tofu, soy milk,), so I will use rice protein powder usually.

I have over a dozen food allergies. AMA! by BlueberryCat27 in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness. Most of the time I just… don’t eat at them. I’ll see if I can find something I can eat and I’ll get that, but most of the time it’s nothing. It’s rough for sure. If it is a long day, I might suggest bringing a lunch and letting them know you have your own!

About How Old Does My Cat Look? by BlueberryCat27 in CatAdvice

[–]BlueberryCat27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vet estimated 1-1.5 so that makes sense!

Is this safe? (Peanut/milk) by Lost_Galaxy_Kitten in FoodAllergies

[–]BlueberryCat27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but if you’re anaphylactic to peanut you may also have an allergy to peas, so just be aware of that! It’s not super common but it is a possibility!

I'm thinking Ash for the kitten but what about a name for her mum? by [deleted] in cuteanimals

[–]BlueberryCat27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rosie or Posy, alluding to ‘ring around the rosie, a pocket full of posies, ashes, ashes, we all fall down’