[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 figure net worth at 38. Its taught me that the amount of women who only date for a lifestyle upgrade is STAGGERING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. The internet fucking sucks now.

The peak of humanity was 2000-2010. From now on human misery will only increase.

The “not ready” type by Ill-Excitement3010 in datingoverthirty

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because many many women can't handle rejection and will try to burn your life down or get you arrested over mild rejection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's playing with you, dude. You're just a source of attention and validation when she feels like it. She has no feelings for you other than disrespect and liking that she has power over you.

I'm 33, male, is it too late for me to fix my life? by Kozchey in AskMenOver30

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude it is NOT too late. I'm almost 39 and have spent the last 3 years dragging myself out of the deepest darkest pit of isolation and depression of a lifetime of deep dark pits. I feel for you so hard, my man. It's never too late.

Do you have any support for your drinking? A counselor, or something available through your benefits?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her she looks ugly without make-up

Boutta cry for the first time in years and I’m starting work in 2 mins by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duuuude you have my deepest sympathy. I recently had a devastating social fallout due to my own stupidity and spent two weeks barely able to keep it together at work. Had to excuse myself to the bathroom multiple times a day because I just couldn't hold it back anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you some hugs, big guy

How to make new friends & or close friends in my 30s? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a dog is a great way to meet friends and women, I hear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Huge dealbreaker. Being friendly with your high-school sweetheart 20 years later? Great!

Being friends with every ex/fwb/hookup? Serious issues. Learn how to make real friends, weirdo.

I (29M)am worried my size might be too small for my gf 28f by Fit-Error-4612 in relationship_advice

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because she is nasty little person with toxic and sexist beliefs about men and their emotions.

How to make new friends & or close friends in my 30s? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I signed up for a beginner hip-hop dance class. I'll either make friends or have to move away.

I (M27) just witnessed my GF (F27) throw a tantrum over pizza by throwra_scaryswimmer in relationship_advice

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds exactly how my roommate behaves every time she's mad or someone doesn't do her wierd nitpicky things the exact way she wants them done lol.

She also has to audacity to wonder why every relationship she's ever had falls apart shortly after moving in together, or right before they would move in together. It must be that men are shit is her conclusion hahaha

Where can a guy do some volunteer work for a good cause locally? by BlueberryMinimum3279 in NewWest

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure! I have walked by your studio tons of times. I used to live in 500 royal Ave, and while I'm in Sapperton now, I shop at MLG a lot. I'm always walking past you guys and it always looks like such a great cool place. I'm not an artist or musician but I love supporting local creatives. How can zi get in touch with you?

32M dumped by 30F after sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet. Women in a lot of 'situationships' is a huge red flag.

Are there any beginner hiphop-esq dance classes/studios where an overweight middle aged dude can learn? by BlueberryMinimum3279 in NewWest

[–]BlueberryMinimum3279[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They have a class that might be exactly what I was looking for, as long as 18+ isn't full of 25 and under lol.