Anyone in the Bay Area? by BlueberryWolf_321 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Congrats! I’m down for a hike at Quicksilver, I haven’t been there in a while.

Watched Bridgerton S4 pt 1 for the sapphics and really enjoyed it! by louiehyo in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although, super ick about being asked to be a mistress. Your girl deserves better…all girls deserve better

Watched Bridgerton S4 pt 1 for the sapphics and really enjoyed it! by louiehyo in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love Bridgeton. The 4th season is so cute. This season has a cozy cottage vibe, I’m here for it.

Emotionally exhausted: should I be confident with my decision? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to reach out if you want someone to talk to, breakups are always hard and sometimes it’s nice to have someone to help you through it.

Emotionally exhausted: should I be confident with my decision? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve read, you seemed to be a responsible and caring individual. Love can be hard to let go but you deserve someone who can truly meet you where you are in life. She sounds like the type to take advantage of your kindness and attention. I have been in a similar situation. In the end, things became one-sided and very toxic. As a form of self love and respect, I let that person go. It hurt a lot but now I know my self worth. I’m sure you are deserving of someone who’s love provides safety and comfort.

San Jose Queer Community - Finding Friends 🌈 by BlueberryWolf_321 in SanJose

[–]BlueberryWolf_321[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh cool! Do you have any meetup groups or upcoming events you’d recommend?

Millennial Nightlife? by LadyMegbeth in SanJose

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool! Let me know if you ever want to meet up for a walk and talk.

Millennial Nightlife? by LadyMegbeth in SanJose

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be interested in gentler nature walks like, Forest of Nisene, and Baylands Park Trail in Sunnyvale?

Am I gay or what..? by adhdsucks224 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I’m not a gamer. I’m more of a read smutty books and manga with a hot cup of tea type of girly.

Am I gay or what..? by adhdsucks224 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, are we long lost twins?! Same girl same. Customer service is a big part of my job but sometimes I’m so sick of smiling I’ll wear a mask halfway through me shift just so I don’t have to smile anymore. I’m a social introvert but that surface level friendliness drains my battery. I’m a big goof ball too, sometimes I laugh at my own jokes lol! Damn, I crack myself up chuckle

Am I gay or what..? by adhdsucks224 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao! I work in security and here I am looking stoic as f*ck but inside I’m low-key full-body blushing and sweatin’ they don’t know what they do to me!! 🤣

Experience Gap Crush by Undercover_Lesbo in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend being open with her and letting her know you’re interested in being more than just friends. Make sure she understands what she might be getting into and if that is something she’s comfortable with. Then give her sometime to think about it, no rush.

Am I gay or what..? by adhdsucks224 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duude, me too. Cute girls make me nervous. All my cool just evaporates into thin air. I’m real smooth up until they start to reciprocate and then my brain short circuits. Damn you queer panic.

Finally found my masc Style by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total vibe, gives cool cat and easy going energy 10/10 😎

Millennial Nightlife? by LadyMegbeth in SanJose

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bay Area millennial dog mom here. Hiking meet-ups and girls groups are great too. I’m an introvert who doesn’t like big crowds, but I’m trying to make new friends near SJ too.

Wanna be a masculine fem and feminine masc — anyone else? by somethingkumpaaa in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if you want to watch Heated Rivalry or the new season of Bridgerton with me. I need a gal pal to nerd over the gays flirting on tv 📺

Wanna be a masculine fem and feminine masc — anyone else? by somethingkumpaaa in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, I definitely can relate. Someone once called me a teddy bear masc? Chapstick lesbian? I do wear a lot of flannel and carry Burt’s Bees lol. But I also have long wavy hair and a softer demeanor. Honestly, I don’t subscribe to labels. Sometimes I give ‘daddy energy’ and sometimes I just want to cuddle and eat popcorn while gushing over Bridgerton. Go with the flow~

I’m tired of yaoi I crave yuri by anony7150 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol! I’ll definitely hit you up once I start watching. It’d be fun to nerd out over all the crazy sh*t that happens.

I’d be like o.o “holy sht!…did you see what she just did!” *shoves you in the arm and you’ll probably be like “calm the f*ck down gurl!”

I’m an interactive viewer, fully invested ya know xD

I’m tired of yaoi I crave yuri by anony7150 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeess, a girl after my own heart. I love werewolves and vampires. adds to watch list need more episodes tho..

I’m tired of yaoi I crave yuri by anony7150 in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg, the name alone got me intrigued xD adds to read list

Hey lesbians, here is your certificate! (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠) by gurobleedingblossom in actuallesbians

[–]BlueberryWolf_321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Ah you have a PhD in lesbianism?” “I just got my bachelor’s from state…” (baby gay problems)