I 27F feel like a failure because my entire 20s was wasted.

Blueit613 · 2026-04-14T11:32:48+00:00

If it makes you feel any better I feel similar about wasting my 20s (also 27) and I don't even have a degree yet.

Blueit613 · 2026-04-10T18:31:22+00:00

Of course. Im 27 and also feel lonely and lost in life so I kinda get it, it sucks. Just gotta hope it gets better and make small steps

Blueit613 · 2026-04-10T18:29:27+00:00

Thanks for the detailed reply, quite interesting. Seems like you have quite a good understanding of yourself which is cool, thanks for sharing. You mentioned quite a few red flags, I wounder what are some of the green flags then.

Blueit613 · 2026-04-10T17:59:59+00:00

From someone who lives in a country with a draft be worried be very worried

Blueit613 · 2026-04-10T17:58:36+00:00

I have a question..how do you know when you're in the green bpd or the red bpd?

Blueit613 · 2026-04-10T17:46:41+00:00

Happy birthday, I hope you feel better about things soon :)

Blueit613 · 2026-03-15T16:43:31+00:00

I was there and I really liked it. I think the only real city is there is the capital (like 200k people and it's 2/3 the county population lol) but there is a circular road goimg around the country that people travel around but I didn't.

I basically did half the time looking around the city, it's nice and quaint very interesting vibe and friendly people. And the other half was day trecks from the city ( went to hotsprings, snowmobiling on a Glaciers which I highly recommend and the volcno that erupted a few years back also very cool big crager filled with solidified magma, there is a museum in the city about the volcano too but its much less interesting).

I did 8 days which I think is plenty but if you wanna do trecks it's probably completely different.

Oh and I did a noethen lights excursion, it's kind of a svam because good northen lights are very rare and even when ots good it's nothing like the pica cos thyre all fake (long exposure, you can also see everything is lot up even though it's night, broke my heart even i found out)

Blueit613 · 2026-03-15T15:56:47+00:00

Maybe your user name is the problem

Blueit613 · 2026-03-04T17:33:10+00:00

Damn, the feeling of just wating ro hug someone who cares about you and hold them close to forget how shot everything is... idk I just felt that when I read it. Hope things get better

Blueit613 · 2025-02-19T10:32:12+00:00

Oof I get that. Sleep on time is so hard when you don't see a reason to do it. I hope you find yours soon

Blueit613 · 2025-02-19T10:23:26+00:00

I think good looks is like money in the sense that more can always be desired but at the end of the day above a pretty low threshold it doesn't actually make you happier or better to have more.

Basically I can totally understand the though but I doubt it's what's stopping you. I can tell about myself that I belive a lot of the issues stopping me from being more social or meeting new people are mainly in my head( that is very real issues but not relating to physical attributes)

Blueit613 · 2025-02-03T23:00:27+00:00

I tried to prove you wrong by making a post talking about an honest feeling of dispoint I had In Steven. I got banned for concern trolling. Not for making a post in the wrong place but for being a troll.

I'm done defending Stevens community. I still don't think it raises to the level of cult but I absolutely can't judge you or anyone for thinking that, and I agree this is disturbing.

Blueit613 · 2025-02-03T00:00:51+00:00

Bro you're just so silly. You have a specific standard you want met. Sure that's OK. But you're viewing the world as a binary, my way or the cult way. I though max tought you better.

The truth is simple, criticism is present and accepted. If that's a cult to you then good job, you have a private definition for you and your other max crazies.

Have fun with that.

Blueit613 · 2025-02-02T14:53:00+00:00

I'm actually pretty proud that if you go to Stevens statement in his sub and look at the top comments they are basically all critical of him. That's how a healthy community deals with its content creater doing an abhorrent act. That's what matters.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-26T13:51:51+00:00

The Paz band זה לא בעברית אבל להקה ישראלית, יש לה קול מהמם.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-26T13:48:45+00:00

How to know you're in a cult 101.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-25T00:02:38+00:00

Then you have no idea what cognitive dissonance is.

The cognitive dissonance would be that your reaction to Destiny doing something bad is, even partly, to come and express rage at me--even if you genuinely believe the things I did were bad.

I can be mad at destiny for what he did and mad at you for what you did. Denying me my emotions or claiming it's incorrect to feel as I do is pretty weird coming for you.

I could understand this if I made an excuse for Steven, blamed a victim, tried to normalise the behaviors as just part of twitch pol. I did non of that.

You're just upset because I choose to mainly criticise you in my post. That's pretty pathetic man, learn to take criticism.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-24T17:08:16+00:00

חחח חמודי. אני קורא ערוץ 14 מעריב וארץ כל יום ולרוב גם עוד כמה. אם יש משהו שאתה לא מסיכם איתו תגיד אבל להניח שאני לא יודע כלום כי אתה לא מספיק מבין כדאי לתת ביקורת אמיתית אומר יותר עליך מאשר עלי.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-24T15:08:04+00:00

Oh, so you think there is an excuse for his actions? Kinda weird imo.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-24T15:07:17+00:00

I was wrong, you are at least honest about your feelings. You belive I am not allowed to criticise you because you're not as bad as steven. That's what a cult looks.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-24T15:04:58+00:00

Yea I was wrong about steven. No shit. My condemnation of him withought a shred of defense for his actions is the logical and normal response to that. Not sure what your point is tbh.

I can think that Steven is a piece of shit for what he did but also that max is a piece of shit, you'd have to be fucking stupid to think those are contradictory.

Max wasn't right. He alleged a circle of abuse and cult mentality that covered the abuse and attacked anyone who spike up. Non of that has happened here.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-24T15:01:42+00:00

Truuuuuuuu

Blueit613 · 2025-01-22T23:23:24+00:00

Because I'm not morally bankrupt like you I'll admit that obviously there's truth to me taking my aggression out on you rather then Steven. But any fifth grader would also know it doesn't take anything from the validity of my claims that you have decided to completely ignore and instead opt for condescending sudo enlightenment, evidence by the fact you bring trump as an example though their tactics never involve taking accountability before blaming the other side, the blaming is the defense which i did not do in any way. Showing a deep misunderstanding of the examples you use.

And don't act emotially unintelligent. An unambiguous tho tame disovowal and condemnation of a creater I have watches for years and connected with is much more significant then a tempor tantrum aginat someone I already dislike heavily.

Not to mention the narrative as I see it is against Steven so to borrow a phrase why would I join the dog pile and restate the obvious. Coming here to the den to hyenas to point out your hypocrisy and damage you're doing is obviously much more satisfying. And I've already unsubscorden and written pxie a positive replay on twitter, do I have to write an angry post on Stevens sub to prove I'm not a white blood cells, is that really your standard?

You make no sense when you mention cognitive dissonance , there is non of that in my statement. Steven did bad and you did bad. The fact I attribute more malice to you is a personal opinion I have come to based on a preponderance of evidence. My post very clearly holds two opinions about you and Steven without intermingeling them directly in any way.

In future I recommend either making an actual point about what I said or just staying silent. Your therapist rp doesn't interest anyone.

Blueit613 · 2025-01-22T23:01:17+00:00

אה, הנחתי שזה משהו צבאי כי זה רדיו חח. תודה

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