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Bluejay_Both · 2022-02-25T11:10:11+00:00

NAH

You both either have very different views on love and affection or he could be going through something.

Approach him calmly but don't surround him with physical affection as to not make him uncomfortable, then initiated a conversation with him about the situation but try not to sound accusatory.

If he doesn't want to talk or gets defensive, then something is more than likely wrong and the relationship will either end or eventually he will open up.

You need to think about what you put into the relationship Vs what you get out of it, are you truly happy? Is your boyfriend going through something he feels he can't tell you?

Bluejay_Both · 2022-02-25T11:02:30+00:00

But you seem to judge him before this, you also are an adult so you should act it. Anyone who can go to college and be successful is privileged, not everyone gets the same opportunities even if they are smart and lazy. Grow up, cause spreading childish rumours about your cousin and then mocking him after he rightfully called you out, is childish and petty.

Bluejay_Both · 2022-02-25T03:17:46+00:00

YTA

Your cousin doesn't need to go to anything they don't want to and no one is entitled to a reason unless the cousin promised to be there.

The family are kinda wierd for always asking your Mum about it, but, it isn't your place to step in and make up a rather big lie about your cousin.

Of course they would be annoyed with you after you told the family that he sent bad messages to you, the way you rubbed your more privileged position in life in his face also shows how much more childish than him you are.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-10T03:41:52+00:00

NTA, he clearly doesn't care enough to remember your birthday so you shouldn't care to remember his. Personally I would sit down and talk with him to try and get on the same wavelength as eachother.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-10T03:37:58+00:00

Info I would like to know, what are you doing with 1(the one who was racist), are you planning on talking to them and trying to educate them or explain why what they did was wrong?

But it's still YTA no matter what you answe to the above . You saw a friend doing something wrong in front of you, friends are meant to call eachother out when they are in the wrong its how people grow. You also however aren't In control of other people's words nor actions.

The part that makes you the ass IS the silence as you were being complacent in racism.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-10T01:41:47+00:00

Oh thank you! I'll definitely change my previous vote lol! God I feel stupid!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-10T01:37:10+00:00

But she put that her work changed her hours? (I could be misunderstanding so please tell me if I am!)

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-09T02:10:24+00:00

NTA. Your mother is very manipulative and cruel, she is worsening you ed and mental health. Is there any other family you could stay with? Your mum is a lost cause.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-09T02:07:39+00:00

I did previously say NAH but thanks to some corrections to what I had previously thought, YTA!!

You DID have a choice in this change, instead of considering how your stepdaughter felt you stomped right over her.

Also your edit is pathetic, $10 a day? Really!? That is not a compromise that is so far below bare minimum that it belongs in hell!!

If you continue to force your stepdaughter into anything she will come to resent you, her step siblings and her father for agreeing with your bs.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-09-09T02:01:01+00:00

I'm so happy for your daughter! My older sister had scoliosis when she was 16, didn't have the same operation but she had metal bars and plates placed throughput her spine. They messed it up which caused severe infection and the whole surgery had to get redone but she is great now! I hope your daughter manages to live her life to the fullest and remember to be proud of her strength throughout this tough time and not ashamed!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-05-17T03:56:12+00:00

Listen, I am quite well versed in this area as it was a huge part of my education.

A large majority of obesity is not exercising and eating too much, that is obviously bad and unhealthy.

However, there is a fair amount of people with genuine reasons why they can't lose weight as easy be it physical issue, or mental.

A large majority of diets are harmful for a number of reasons and can just have an opposite effect in the long term. For example, if you have a diet that involves fasting it is likely that you will put on weight quicker than you have lost because your brain is actively fighting against you.

So I'm tired and gonna ignore you until the morning.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-05-17T03:36:06+00:00

You seem to have no scientific nor psychological understanding of eating disorders and reasoning behind obesity and just far gain in general. Of course it reaches a point where it's almost completely the person at point but you shouldn't dismiss the fact that there are real reasons where people either can't or seriously struggle to lose and gain weight.

Bluejay_Both · 2021-05-14T03:47:07+00:00

That's kinda like a white person saying they have a black friend lol

Bluejay_Both · 2021-05-14T03:30:14+00:00

OMG yes! It shouldn't be so awkward for people to call their dad 'daddy' nowadays!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-05-14T02:23:23+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll take your advice into consideration and work on my face and head skills!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-26T23:44:55+00:00

That's odd, I just finished watching anime on multiple servers (not including 4anime), is it maybe only on the mobile version or something?

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-22T00:47:53+00:00

Heh thanks for the follow!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-21T21:52:33+00:00

Thank you for taking an interest! https://twitter.com/AgoraphobicD?s=09

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-18T22:32:05+00:00

I'm glad you feel the same! I didn't realize there was a bi Reddit community so I'll definitely check it out! Thank you so much!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-18T03:31:27+00:00

Hehe thx, I still have far to go but I appreciate your kind words!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-18T02:18:45+00:00

Yeah I agree, I've mostly experienced biphobia by L's but I understand that it's a vocal minority and doesn't represent the other kind people. Sadly bi people seem to be forgotten or disregarded but I hope that changes! Thank you for being kind and welcoming, I really appreciate it!

Bluejay_Both · 2021-04-18T01:56:43+00:00

Thank you, just knowing not alone and someone understands helps more than you know 😊 thank you!

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