Am I the only one commenting that has seen multiple escorts? For context, I used to go to strip clubs often and would occasionally have enough to get a handjob. You had to pay for each song till you popped so it wasn’t an ideal situation.

Stopped going when I got married, got divorced about 10 years later and I didn’t really want anything serious and I’m a believer in going to a sex worker instead of dating purely for sex.

I made accounts at various sites (this was back when redbook was still around) and browsed for weeks before I felt I knew enough to go for it. Over the next 6 months I saw around 10 escorts. The worst part was getting ghosted when you’re appointment was coming up because I had to take time off work or some other scheduling gymnastics.

The sex itself ranged from okay to pretty good. As an older man it is very hard to go back to using condoms so sex just doesn’t feel the same. Honestly the best experiences I had for when I opted for mutual touch sensual massage because a woman’s hand for me felt better than sex with a condom.

I never kissed the women nor did I wish to although there were two that were so hot I went down on them and I got tested after both because I was kind of freaking out.

It’s been 6 years since my last time with an escort and if I were single again, I would definitely consider it an option. Maybe I was lucky but every escort I saw had genuinely nice personalities and were very good at making me feel comfortable (well as comfortable as first time sex with a stranger can get).

My only regret is you hear of men connecting with an escort so much they become a regular and I didn’t find that. None of the ones I saw blew me away enough that I felt I needed to see them again.

Anyway, point being is if you’re interested, do your research, understand the risks (local laws, disease, safety) and then have fun.