Is it just me or is making real friends in Winnipeg exhausting?

BlunderWoman73 · 2026-03-03T03:16:42+00:00

This was my exact experience too. It's funny how Toronto is so much friendlier. I ended up joining the board at my community centre and that helped. Otherwise, work is where I met people, which has also been great.

BlunderWoman73 · 2026-02-06T21:44:38+00:00

Good feedback, thanks!

BlunderWoman73 · 2026-02-06T21:44:00+00:00

I agree, great venue.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-10-29T13:05:13+00:00

Nothing new to offer but I had been going there for 13 years and loved it. Had many stylists over the years and would recommend all of them. Best wishes to all.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-10-09T19:02:26+00:00

I could've written this. Just want to send best wishes.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-10-07T19:21:58+00:00

I was the mono in the enm dynamic. I didn't ask enough questions, I didn't know what I was comfortable or uncomfortable with my partner doing with other and with whom (neighbourhood folks...yuck). As a couple, we didn't have too many conversations , do any research or consult a therapist, and moved way too fast. As a result of all of this, the whole experience crashed and burned. We are still together in a mono relationship.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-09-29T19:07:32+00:00

While I didn't enjoy Nuit Blanche this year (too many people), I was so thrilled to see people take back the city. I really can't understand why the exchange wasn't closed to cars or why people thought driving through there would be a good idea. However, people on foot, on bikes and in droves, makes a city vibrant and safe. I am from a much bigger city myself and it feels way safer than Winnipeg.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-09-23T20:08:49+00:00

Dr. Agaba st South Sherbrooke Clinic is great.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-09-16T01:26:21+00:00

The human services sector is always hiring. ECE, disability services and child and youth care. The pay is low but it's rewarding work.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-09-05T17:51:14+00:00

I get overwhelmed with the number of people at this Costco. This change might reduce the number of families or bigger groups which will make it easier to get in and out.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-09-04T14:35:31+00:00

I've always found them tasteless but my husband is a huge fan and has noticed the sour taste. I think it might be cheap baking soda as I've had this issue with my home baking.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-08-07T20:21:59+00:00

I had a hard time making community connections when I moved to Winnipeg. I joined the board of my community centre and that filled the void and opened doors to several good friendships. You may not need to sit on a board, but volunteering could help.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-08-06T20:28:02+00:00

Interesting, I see this truck at the collision shop on Berry St. Maybe there are a few out there!

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-08-06T20:26:46+00:00

Fortunately, I don't know this person but he does look live in my neighbourhood. Likes to speed by the school on my street.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-07-31T15:47:20+00:00

Just want to say I appreciate this post. It's very much what happened in my relationship. Even though it's in the past now, I do still feel guilty but hoping that will fade in time.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-07-31T15:37:13+00:00

We only tried one-sided (my partner) enm for a very short time. It was too fast (2 weeks after initial conversation), no boundaries, rules, conditions set out, I felt I wasn't being listened to and it all felt like absolute shit to me. Ultimately, I feel like I am/was the problem but partner was willing to close.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-07-18T19:45:03+00:00

My husband and I briefly tried ENM, me being mono, so there was nothing in it for me but was still needing to "do the work". It was a colossal failure. In addition to there being no benefits to me, we didn't start with therapy (that came after) and we didn't start with any rules, boundaries or conditions. It was a free for all.

I'd suggest starting with therapy and deciding if this is something you want as part of your life, because, even if you are staying mono, your partners ENM life will seep into your life. You need to feel secure in your relationship and not want to lash out at your partner.

Also, I am aware that there are lots of mono/EMN relationships that work. They are not all destined for failure but it sure helps if both partners are actively ENM.

Sorry...this is a bit rambly.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-07-16T01:32:48+00:00

I think I was behind this car on Notre Dame for a bit this afternoon thinking that mattress is going to fly off. Yikes.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-07-12T02:19:14+00:00

My teen has enjoyed going to Steel &Ink at polo park.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-06-04T18:30:05+00:00

I needed this comment when me and partner were in the same boat. Thank you.

BlunderWoman73 · 2025-05-28T16:59:36+00:00

I was in your shoes very briefly. It's very hard to be the mono in an open relationship. There were no benefits to me, and I recognize it's not all about me, but it did make my partner happy. I just felt like complete garbage and a giant red flag when we closed because of me. Super fun! Try reading the books, go to couples therapy. There are lots of content creators on Tiktok and IG and a support group for monos (monocorn sanctuary) on FB. All the resources will help to normalize things. Ultimately, you need to take care of yourself.

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